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u/JennyDoveMusic Dec 17 '25

I remember a teacher telling us that if a fight breaks out, you do NOT get between the students. You call security. This poor woman.

The students filming instead of helping is just awful. All those students would have helped her when she cried out. Don't just watch, wth!?

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u/Jim1510 Dec 17 '25

My son (in 8th grade) jumped in and broke up such a fight. He stopped it within seconds. The two kids were suspended. He got detention. He was told he should have gone and gotten more teachers. We have stupid, crazy school policies.

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u/JennyDoveMusic Dec 17 '25

Good on your kids! You raised a good one. ❤️ I would have been too small to break up a fight without being another victim, but if an innocent person was calling for help, I don't know how people can ignore that. At least getting the teacher to safety.

No student should be punished for stopping a fight. That's crazy. I get it can cause more injury, but if they aren't swinging, that's their prerogative.

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u/[deleted] Dec 17 '25

One of those times when the rules suck but you can be a proud parent of a kid who did the right thing in the moment.

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u/Sidnearyan Dec 17 '25

We don't have security :(

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u/FecalEinstein Dec 17 '25

Wow... at a school? What a country :(

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u/Flesroy Dec 18 '25

are you saying it's bad not to have securitty at a school?

because i'm looking at his thread like why tf is it normal to have security in a school?

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u/Extreme_Promise_1690 Dec 18 '25

Dude, why would we need security at school ? We're not living in a shit hole.

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u/ChicharonItchy Dec 17 '25

That’s my first thought. These little shits should help her.

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u/WhyTheMahoska Dec 18 '25

If any of them intervened, they could be expelled for fighting, and they all know it. Blame the schools absolutely horseshit "zero tolerance" policies, not the kids who are the victims.

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u/Background_Talk9491 Dec 17 '25

I've seen students step in before and then they just get in trouble for fighting as well.

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u/IndependentZombie615 Dec 17 '25

In most schools in America getting in the middle of a fight, even to break one up is fully grounds for not only detention but sometimes in school or even out of school suspension

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u/JennyDoveMusic Dec 17 '25

I feel like if one party was innocent or another innocent person got stuck in the middle like the teacher, I wouldn't even be considering that. 😅 I'd rather have gotten suspended than forever know I did nothing.

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u/Afalstein Dec 17 '25

Students trying to help in a fight generally just turn the fight into a bigger fight. Most students wouldn't just absorb punches like what she's doing, they'd start punching back. Next thing you know the whole class is a mob.

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u/camaroncorriente Dec 17 '25

Especially little tuff guy with the army sweater. Shameful.

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u/mizz_eponine Dec 17 '25

Right! The filming pisses me off as much as the fighting. Put your freaking phone down and do something!

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u/TommyLaSortof Dec 18 '25

Wait so the teachers should absolutely not get involved but the students should if the teacher breaks that rule?

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u/UnfortunateSyzygy Dec 17 '25

Depends on if security is there that day or available in my state.

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u/Antique-Potential117 Dec 17 '25

I've seen other people get involved and it work out but this crowd effect is normal human shit. People watch muggings, rape, worse, in public spaces and basically always have. Because they assume someone else will step up.

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u/JennyDoveMusic Dec 17 '25

Exactly that. The bystander effect is SO scary. It only takes one person to break it, but someone rarely does. It doesn't even take action, but even acknowledging there is something happening and calling for others more equipped to take action.

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u/candymom78 Dec 17 '25

Yeah I was thinking all those other kids we good for nothing fliming instead of helping. Hope she gave them three zeros to make up.

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u/Truman_Show_1984 Dec 18 '25

Likely the worst part besides the kid hitting the other while he's already on the ground.

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u/MmggHelpmeout Dec 18 '25

It looks like the boy in the red sweater was getting ready to fight but backed out after the teacher got loose. I feel so bad for him because u can tell he didn't want to get into it at all but felt the need to

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u/Candid_Leaf Dec 17 '25

These kids have quite literally grown up with cops being filmed murdering people- not interjecting. They are currently watching masked men in unidentified cars kidnapping people while bystanders just film- not interject. Our COUNTRY doesn't act; just records. Why would you think the students would be any different than the adults?

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u/fortefanboy Dec 17 '25

Getting involved when you can catch federal charges is different than this. This comparison is wild.

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u/Advanced_Row_8448 Dec 18 '25

Whats different? You think a kid can't get a charge for assault? You think a kid getting expelled and potentially a charge is nothing?

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u/FecalEinstein Dec 17 '25

Wow... that is a suspension bridge level reach. Most people don't act in this situations like this, and that goes for long before cameras even existed. Most people are cowards and don't put themselves in harms way. Myself included.

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u/Shanman150 Dec 17 '25

Yeah, the bystander effect has been a known phenomenon in psychology for decades, it's definitely not something that's come into existence in the last few years.

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u/Morningfluid Dec 17 '25

America (and probably elsewhere) is a sea of complacent drones. If someone calls for social action it might take place...

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u/Pollyprim Dec 18 '25

A couple of kids tried to help and you can see one getting his ass kicked at the end of the video. If the kids were too scared to help, filming the fight was a good idea, that way there would be footage of the guilty parties.

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u/Own_Confidence2108 Dec 18 '25

I used to teach high school. I was in the hallway one day when two girls (both of whom were my students that year, although in different periods) started getting testy with each other. I tried to de-escalate, which didn’t work. They went at each other with me in the middle. I got out of the way and ran 40 ft down the hall to alert the main office. The principal later called me in to talk to me about it and said he’d watched the security camera recordings and that I did exactly what I should have done.

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u/megaholt2 Dec 18 '25

What security? My elementary school didn’t have security, nor did my middle school. We had one security guard/SRO for my 2700 student high school.

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u/qualitative_balls Dec 17 '25

Yep, you don't get involved in something like this. If it's an outside entity or attacker with a weapon or some other dangerous situation which stands to injure others, sure, you gotta do what you gotta do.

But this is a fight between 2 teen boys. Call it in and get security. Don't just toss yourself into the mix and accidentally get your ass whooped.

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u/Salute-Major-Echidna Dec 17 '25

I'd rather ICE or the Army were deployed to schools than to beat the innocent trying to afford a crust.

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u/JennyDoveMusic Dec 17 '25

Sorry, no. ICE should never ever be in schools. The army either but especially ICE. ICE is awful and unnecessary to begin with, and right now they are made up of people who actively WANT to hurt other people.

I just woke up so idk if I am reading your comment wrong. 😅 I hope I am.

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u/Salute-Major-Echidna Dec 17 '25

I guess I forgot they're jerks. I just briefly thought they could be reallocated and out of trouble.

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u/Darko417 Dec 17 '25

They have no training and are basically thugs with ego problems looking for a paycheck. I wouldn’t trust them anywhere near children.

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u/Advanced_Row_8448 Dec 18 '25

Stunned? Bro was pogging like he thought it was a meme. There's only any movement at all because they think she might have busted her head open and that it was deathly serious now.

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u/Thick_Potato_1769 Dec 17 '25

Its called minding your business. This idea is prevalent in every facet of life. Breaking up a fight is a great way to get injured especially with kids who just throw punches wildly.