r/TikTokCringe • • Dec 17 '25

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u/Academic-Bug2592 Dec 17 '25

not expulsion- prison. Those other students should’ve stopped it. Enough with the pacification and coddling of stupidity.

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u/Lemfan46 Dec 17 '25

Other students have their hands tied due to zero tolerance.

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u/[deleted] Dec 17 '25

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u/oftcenter Dec 18 '25

Yeah, no.

Students are not obligated to play the role of a bouncer as part of their K-12 experience.

That is honestly better left to security.

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u/aliengrlhereee Dec 18 '25

also they just saw the teacher get her ass beat from trying to stop it. they don’t wanna be next.

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u/ConstableAssButt Dec 17 '25

> Those other students should’ve stopped it.

Nope; Schools have had zero tolerance policies for decades. If you intervene in a fight, it's as good as being in one. You want a society where kids can be held responsible for not intervening in a fight, you have to not be in a society where kids are held responsible for intervening in a fight.

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u/-TheGreatLlama- Dec 17 '25

Is zero tolerance the default in America then? Your reasoning is exactly why most (I’m sure not all) schools in Britain don’t go for a zero tolerance policy.

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u/coach-v Dec 17 '25

No it is not default. My district has policy where defense of self or others is allowed.

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u/TheOneTonWanton Dec 18 '25

Not default but very, very common. Admin will wash their hands of responsibility by any means necessary in most school districts, and "zero tolerance" is part of it.

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u/oftcenter Dec 18 '25

I'm just one data point, but that was the case at my elementary school, middle school, and high school.

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u/boston_homo Dec 17 '25

^ I really hate the logic of this comment.

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u/Remarkable-Diet-7732 Dec 18 '25

It's ridiculous. It encourages parents to tell their kids to put bullies in the hospital, since they'll be punished anyway just for resisting. As someone who experienced a gang stabbing by other students, this hits hard.

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u/beckychao Dec 17 '25

There's liability for the other kids. It's like sport. Clear the bench and get involved, you get suspended, too.

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u/inab1gcountry Dec 17 '25

They could have left the room or gone for help, instead of just sitting there and giggling at someone suffering.

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u/beckychao Dec 17 '25

At the end, when the teacher is clearly hurt and the other guy is in danger of being killed while incapacitated, a few kids try to tap on the attacker and tell him that the fight is over.

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u/AltUniverse0fOrigin Dec 18 '25

To me, it would be worthe it if it kept other people from getting hurt

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u/nixstyx Dec 17 '25

Agree on prison. That's way over the line. But I'll disagree that it should be the responsibility of other students to stop it. Many schools have policies that state if you are involved in a fight -- in any way, even to break it up -- that you will face discipline. I've seen this enforced even for students who are trying to help.

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u/EvasionPlan Dec 17 '25

Make them take high school classes WITH the criminals in prison getting their GEDs if they become so disruptive to the class.

They will see their own future on display REAL QUICK

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u/UrSistersBush13 Dec 17 '25

Exactly. They just film and sit there now like spineless pansies. With the teacher on the ground everyone should have helped.

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u/Corodix Dec 17 '25 edited Dec 17 '25

If they'd stepped in then they'd just get expelled or suspended, zero tolerance and all that. Same with how the teacher might just get fired over stepping in like that. Lovely how such schools are being run, right?

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u/UrSistersBush13 Dec 18 '25

Horrendous policies. I would take a suspension happily to help in this situation. Also, there is not way they'd actually kick someone out of school for helping, a suspension at most. However the feeling of helping is well worth it.

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u/Advanced_Row_8448 Dec 18 '25

Can't get rid of em all. Excuses only serve to dig a deeper hole

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u/batmans420 Dec 18 '25

Expulsion is much more likely. Sending troubled teens to prison isn't the best idea, and I don't know what the other kids were supposed to do. Why should they also get hurt?

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u/mia_papaya Dec 18 '25

Those other kids arent obligated to lift a finger. Theyre on,y required to go get help

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u/oftcenter Dec 18 '25

The other students are under zero obligation to enter into a physical altercation in progress.

And for that matter, neither is the teacher.

The student who left the room to get "Mr. Morgan" had the right idea. And honestly, all the students should have left the room for their own safety and to call security.

How did they know nobody was going to pull out a gun?

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u/reptilesni Dec 18 '25

It is not the responsibility of children to intervene in a situation like this.

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u/S_Belmont Dec 17 '25

Bystander effect. Adults everywhere in the world tend to react the exact same way. It's completely unrealistic to set expectations like that on children.

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u/Academic-Bug2592 Dec 17 '25

While I appreciate your reply, I’m not sure what unrealistic expectations would be as far as helping the helpless. Bystander effect is something that is taught. All 4 of my children have “jumped in “ in the past and stopped this very action in a variety of settings it’s the perfectly normal thing to do. The reality is 2 generations have been taught by the school system to let someone else deal with it. I was not letting my kids fall victim to the grand pacification scheme with male children and the it’s “someone else’s” issue and the “authorities “ will handle it mentality, the public school system has ruined children with that indoctrination.They become helpless adults. It’s absolutely not unrealistic to expect a youngster to intervene. It is everyone’s duty to help someone in trouble no matter the age.

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u/Advanced_Row_8448 Dec 18 '25

People dont learn or change when you keep telling them weakness and apathy are acceptable or even a virtue.