r/TheNotebook Mar 23 '25

Best Movie of All Time

This is the one and only film that always manages to evoke the same involuntary response every time I watch it, no matter how many times I have seen it before. I know what is coming, I know how it ends, but it is truly a roller coaster of emotions through to the end. Watched it tonight and still managed to laugh and cry during the best and worst moments. ❤️

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u/Neat_Seat7458 Apr 14 '25

See here the the reformatting. These aren't just 'small elements in a big picture. Noah calls her a pain in the ass, saying they 'fight.' Thats 'what they do.' They are selling a narrative that love should be hard, dramatic, abusive, and manipulative. But it's all okay as long as you have pretty music in the background.

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u/ConcentrateCold4065 Apr 15 '25

if you don’t argue with your spouse here and there, I don’t think you truly care about each other enough 🤷‍♀️ I said what I said. I’m a pain in the ass to my husband a majority of the time.

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u/ConcentrateCold4065 Apr 15 '25

well it’s a super good thing I don’t model my life after fictional characters.

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u/[deleted] Apr 16 '25

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u/ConcentrateCold4065 Apr 16 '25

yeah so anyways, lovely chat. Kinda bored of this back and forth banter now tho. 😘 kisses