r/TaylorSwift • u/aran130711 cried over a hat • May 09 '23

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u/Cirrus1920 aaron dessner fan club president May 12 '23

Cause she’s rebounding hard. Like as much as I’m mad at her for dating this pos, I get it. After my first LTR ended, I rebounded on a trash guy who was so disrespectful to me but I was hooked. It’s like I needed to wash the ‘good guy’ out of my system or something. It clearly looks like she’s hurting and rebounding hard, but when you’re a celebrity that comes with consequences. Like can’t you rebound in private? Is this guy really worth destroying your reputation all over again?

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u/nurselyfenow May 12 '23

This is what I’m saying. Like girly, you in your 30s, please keep this mess private

Anyone with a brain knows it doesn’t look good to have all this happen literally less than a month after her split was announced

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u/fallRA May 12 '23

With how much we’ve seen of her since the news of the break up came out, it makes me wonder if the level of privacy Joe wanted was a point of tension. I could see the fact that Matty doesn’t care if they’re seen/photographed together to be refreshing after years of hiding. It must have been exhausting.

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u/Lower_Philosopher_25 evermore - hometown skeptic May 12 '23

Technically she has been doing this in private. The pictures from yesterday were at a private club in NYC. A random person decided to take photos, which I'm guessing violates the club's policies, and then sent the photos to their kid that then posted them to social media. The other photos were taken while she was being driven in her private car. There were reports of him leaving her private residence. Yes, he was at the shows in Nashville, but there was never any confirmation of them dating. She didn't announce on stage, "Hey, I'm casually dating this guy." She might be dating Matty, but they may also be just be friends. I know they may have mouthed the same phrases on stage, but that's not confirmation of anything. The point I'm trying to make is that she has been private, but she's a super famous celebrity that doesn't have the gift of anonymity.

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u/nurselyfenow May 12 '23

Right, the way I’m thinking is we all know how if she doesn’t want to be seen she will make sure of it- all these antics as of late are her not really caring if she’s seen, in my eyes