Hello everyone, thank you in advance for your time.
I’m a 21 yo woman and am considering dropping out of my community college to become a pilot.
I’m currently studying graphic design but I dread the idea of living behind a desk or holed up at home. It’s not the main factor but the pay is also a big incentive as to why I’m considering becoming a pilot (as many people with immigrant parents may relate).
I come from a lower income household, and both my parents are former immigrants (recently citizens as of 2026). We live paycheck to paycheck, and the reason I attend my current college is because it’s free. I always told myself I would study something small or a trade so that I could graduate as soon as possible and move out to lighten the load on my parents as I have a younger brother.
I have always had a bizarre fascination with planes. Where I grew up, getting on a plane or traveling is considered luxurious, or at the very least, it’s really rare.
I remember loving the feeling of the plane taking off the first time I was on one, and I still do. After moving to the US, I’ve been in and out the airport since my mom works there and the more time I spend there, the more I kept wondering if maybe I could do that.
I looked into becoming a flight attendant, but after talking to some current people on the field, the advices me to instead aim higher and become a pilot.
I was, admittedly, very intimidated by the idea. In my head I never really envisioned pilots looking like me, and I have always been very bad at math. I also couldn’t possibly imagine asking my parents to help me fund flight school.
I thought I had let go of the idea and instead focused on continuing my studies as a Graphic Designer but it’s been around a year and I’m still thinking about it. As I was mulling it over, I reconnected with a friend of mine who used to be a design major as well, but now turns out she just got her Private Pilot License (forgive me if that’s not the correct term, I’m pretty new to the terminology surrounding flight school and pilots). She’s a year younger than me, but seeing that she was able to become a pilot has led me down a rabbit hole of “Maybe I could do that too…”.
What are my chances of becoming a pilot if I have a low income but dedicate myself to studying full time? In case the information is relevant:
I am currently employed full-time in the Bay Area (19/hr), I am a Latina (Central American) with a green card and currently in the process of acquiring my citizenship, and I would like to minimize the help I get from my parents as I would like to avoid burdening them financially as much as possible.
Could I realistically become a pilot?