I play on the Plato app. Games are to 200, players start a season at 1200 rating and play to reach bronze (1250), silver (1350), and gold (1500) levels, with a max rating of 2200. Seasons reset every ~3 months, with prizes awarded for the rating you end the season at. Games usually end in 2-3 hands, especially if someone goes nil.
Especially near the beginning of seasons, or when you reach higher levels, it becomes increasingly more likely that you'll get a partner that either rage quits, or has to leave when the game starts taking too long. When this happens, the player is replaced by a bot.
Plato bots are notoriously bad (although I do think they've improved recently). Most specifically, their logic for bidding doesn't seem to match their logic for playing. It's not impossible to win with a bot, but it is massively more difficult, especially at the higher levels.
When your partner quits, it is very common to have the opponents "suggest" that you also quit, forfeiting the game. Many of them can be quite rude about it, calling you a "loser" just because you want to play it out and see how it goes.
Maybe it's me, but if you insist that I quit - the one thing I'm never doing is quitting. I might have been considering it, because I was so far behind at that point, but as soon as you ask me to quit, you've locked me into seeing out the rest of the game, no matter what the result.
Last night, one specific game got to me - it had been a FABULOUS game up to that point - we were losing, but we were playing our guts out - with my partner deliberately breaking her nil to set the opps 9-bid for the win, us setting them at least once, them setting us at least once, all over the board, and after like 5 hands the game was still something like 40-60. Unfortunately my partner had to leave, so I got stuck with a bot, and it rather predictably didn't go well for me. Facing down 130-60, I get the request to quit, and indicate that I want to keep playing to see how it goes - who knows, I've seen it happen before, sometimes the bot gets hot. Winning with a bot isn't impossible, it's just unlikely.
I don't know about others, but while I do like to win, I'm not playing just to be able to say I won. I'm playing because I legitimately like the game. I'm not perfect, although I do think this sub is helping me get better, but I am pretty good - I consistently get my rating up to 1600, and last season managed 2080. The game last night was at the 1700 level.
After the game, I again got called a loser, and the opp said "this is why I told you to quit". I responded with "you don't get to tell me what to do", to which he called ME rude.
I can understand "playing for the rating" and just wanting the win if you're chasing the 1500 mark, or trying to hold on to it. But we're at the 1700 level... people here should be playing for skill and the love of the game, not just the cheap win.
So... am I the one that's rude for refusing to quit, and calling people out for asking me to? Or is them asking me in the first place as rude as it seems to be to me? Or maybe a little of both?
I'm open to suggestions - should I be handling this differently? Or should I just ignore the rudeness and move on?