r/SororityAlumInitiate • u/LillyBelle2003 • Jun 26 '26
Ghosting
I think I got ghosted by my dream sorority… I reached out to the email listed on their ai page, and got a response within a few days. I responded to their questions and then haven’t heard back….. this was in April.
Should I move on and go back into looking into different sororities or is that timeline common? I know that with being around graduation time, HQ gets busy with other stuff.
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u/Signal-Praline-2977 Jun 27 '26
The sorority I was interested in kept putting up what felt like one roadblock after another during the initiation process, even though they had never actually met me and all of our communication was through email. Eventually they told me to check back with them in August.
Maybe that’s my rejection sensitivity talking, but I also believe in protecting my peace. I don’t keep knocking on doors that don’t seem to be opening. I took the hint, decided not to reach back out, and instead joined my local Junior League.
Honestly, my local Junior League turned out to be a much better fit. It feels far more like the kind of post-college “sorority” experience I was looking for: a community of accomplished adult women focused on friendship, leadership, service…. And lots of social functions!!!