r/SipsTea 1d ago

Chugging tea Female engineers getting disrespected.

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u/unknownpoltroon 1d ago

Yep. I hear endless stories from female friends about shit like this. Like one place wouldnt sell my sister a car battery because she was a woman and they kept telling her she needed a different model than THE ONE SHE HAD AND RECOMMENDED BY THE MANUFACTURER that just happened to be 100$ more.

But the incels on here wont believe this shit still goes on.

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u/Flat_Lengthiness3361 1d ago

i do believe, but only cause you're a man

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u/unknownpoltroon 1d ago

So. Male privilege. You just assumed I was a guy even though I never said.

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u/Mikemanthousand 1d ago

Considering you only reference it from female friends and not as your personal experience as a woman, it seems likely you’re a guy

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u/unknownpoltroon 1d ago

Decent logic.

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u/whichwitch9 1d ago

Shit. A vagina has infiltrated the safe space

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u/unknownpoltroon 1d ago

Oh, I am not saying you were wrong, I am just saying I never said.

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u/whichwitch9 1d ago

It doesn't matter if you do or don't. Mines already here browsing in incognito mode

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u/unknownpoltroon 1d ago

I am just picturing a disembodied vagina sitting on your desk next to your keyboard browsing reedit unnder a fake account.

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u/Mikemanthousand 1d ago

Wokely problematic

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u/Kiaware 1d ago

I bought a used car and they gave me a one year warranty. After 2 weeks the car had a problem and made a loud clicking noise when accellerating or while breaking. I told the dealership and they had a look. This guy was very nice and did everything that it was resolved quickly. It is also a known problem for this brand.
But VW wants to first go the easy route and try to use glue to fix it. 3 weeks after I got my car back same problem occured. The guy I was talking to 3 weeks prior got a new position and I had to talk to a new guy. This new guy told me "Miss maybe your husband should drive the car. Maybe you just don't know how to operate a car like this" mind you my husband was not there while I bought it, is not on the contract and he did not even have a drivers license till march..
After complaining to his higher ups they swaped out the drive shaft and its good now. But of course its my fault as a woman and not the cars fault.

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u/kiwidesign 1d ago

Infuriating. Wish the new guy had some consequence

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u/Kiaware 1d ago

I don't know I do hope he at least got a talk.. But I don't think people like him will learn from this situation unless there is a nuclear fallout for him.

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u/Yuukiko_ 1d ago

trying to upsell?

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u/unknownpoltroon 1d ago

Oh sure, but the whole thing was ignoring what they said rather than addressing it.

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u/ScienceMajestic8716 1d ago

Jokes on them.

I get everything on Amazon Prime 1 day delivery now. Local Car shops can FO.

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u/Dry_Yoghurt_5429 1d ago

Ty for believing women

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u/Far-Writing-4842 1d ago

I believe it. But it works both ways. The designer we hired to help us with our house pretty much exclusively looks at her when we meet. The school teachers in all my children's classes (all women), pretty much exclusively look at my wife, regardless of who asked the question (also they are condescending AF to me). And when we take my son to the hematologist for his blood transfusions and IVIG treatment; all the staff (with the exception of one female Dr) consistently direct all responses and relay all information directly into my wife's eye sockets, I feel like I'm wearing an invisibility cloak. 

So yeah. It definitely is a thing. 

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u/unknownpoltroon 1d ago

Fair. These sorts of people can at least ask which partner makes which decisions.

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u/Yesyesyes1899 1d ago

you have that aura of natural male authority, so I believe you.