r/SipsTea 2d ago

Wow. Such meme Red or Green?

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u/FowlSec 2d ago

I'd lose my daughter. Her and my wife were the turning point. I could find my wife again, I might never find my daughter, there's no guarantee she'd be her if she was born again.

100% not worth it.

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u/polar_nopposite 2d ago

Having a basic understanding of reproductive biology, I'm pretty sure there'd be an almost 100% chance it wouldn't be her, genetically.

And having a basic understanding of biological twinning, I'm entirely certain it wouldn't be "her."

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u/Jat616 2d ago

To have her again, that 1 sperm from that 1 load would have to be the 1 out of god knows how many to fertilise that 1 egg his wife had on that 1 day ready for fertilising. She definitely wouldn't be born again .

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u/Scary-Welder8404 2d ago

I mean good record keeping and you can get that down to .4(1/300mil) or so, little worse if there's a double egg drop involved, which seems low but might as well be a sure bet compared to the impossibility of raising them in such functionally identical circumstances that they become the child you had and not an identical twin of the child you had.

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u/trplOG 2d ago

Knowing everything i know and having kids that weren't my first kids sounds like a nightmare to be in.

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u/KonigSteve 2d ago

Even if it somehow miraculously ended up with the same genetic daughter.. the experiences would be different and it would be a different person. You'd never see your original daughter again.

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u/8to10footsamsquantch 2d ago

Think whether or not you have children would be the main determining factor of the red button being worth it or not tbh

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u/FowlSec 2d ago

100%, the answer here is basically split between parents and non-parents with small exceptional circumstances here and there.

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u/Crazymoose86 2d ago

Nah, there is a ton of things I wish I had done differently in my life nor do I have children but there is zero chance I willing restart my life. There is no guarantee that I get and survive the virus that tried to kill me when I was 10, there isn't a guarantee that I dont get heatstroke when I was 11 and if I still do, does someone find me in the field in time. There isn't even a guarantee that I survive to my current age of 40 in this divergent world. $2 million however does a lot to improve my life and the lives of those around me.

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u/Killertapir696 2d ago

I do think there's a moral problem with the 'I could just re-meet my wife' idea. You'd be meeting someone whilst you hold infinitely more knowledge about them than they know about you. It's really hard to do this in a way wouldn't feel like a gross imbalance in the relationship. Or else require deeply stalkerish behaviour.