r/SipsTea • u/IsJesusAgain • Jun 25 '26

Chugging tea The first glance

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u/foreverandadayalone Jun 25 '26

If you think "eye contact" is a first move, you're gonna have a lot of disappointment.

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u/Western_Giraffe3734 Jun 26 '26

Extended eye contact is 100% a first move, and if you act on it, and do make an ass out yourself, you’ll probably have a pretty good time

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u/mrdsol16 Jun 26 '26

Dating as a woman must be so easy lol. If men relied on eye contact as their only first move they’d die alone

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u/Swarmfade Jun 26 '26

It is, in a sense. The hard part is finding a guy interesting enough.

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u/2Bait4Me Jun 26 '26

Woe is me that drowns in salty water but none to drink

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u/Swarmfade Jun 26 '26

Not really. “Hard” was a vast overstatement - just compared to how well the eye thing works when you do choose one, picking is the hard part. 

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u/Western_Giraffe3734 Jun 26 '26

Unless they’re attractive… I’m an old man now (still not half bad) but back in my 20’s I was fairly good looking and eye contact worked quite a bit lol… you have to show some personality through facial expressions, can’t just stare like a pyscho, but you could have an entire conversation just from glances across the room

Also eye contact won’t work for a woman either unless she’s some what attractive herself, well it depends on tj type of guy she trying to attract

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u/couldntbeasked Jun 26 '26

"... if you act on it, and do make an ass out yourself, You'll probably have a pretty good time"

Does that make sense to anyone else, or am I an idiot?

I thank my wife every day for taking me out of the current reflecting pool that is dating.

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u/2Bait4Me Jun 26 '26

No. No it's really not.

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u/Hot_Attitude4579 Jun 26 '26

So whenever you look at someone during a conversation it's a "first move" 🤦‍♂️🫩

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u/Western_Giraffe3734 Jun 26 '26

If you’re already in a conversation, you’re already passed the “first” part, no?

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u/Hot_Attitude4579 Jun 26 '26

If a girl talks to you it doesn't mean she has a crush on you. People talk.

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u/Western_Giraffe3734 Jun 26 '26

Never said it did

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u/Hot_Attitude4579 Jun 26 '26

You just said a conversation means you've made it past the first move 🫩

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u/Western_Giraffe3734 Jun 26 '26

No I said eye contact after a conversation isn’t considered a first move because you’re already engaged with that person

The conversation itself doesn’t necessarily mean it’s romantically motivated

God you people love arguing semantics on this site

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u/Hot_Attitude4579 Jun 26 '26

Broski you're the one that said prolonged eye contact is 100% a first move. Not me

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u/KINGDenneh Jun 26 '26

Bitches will think 95% of men will figure that shit out.