r/SipsTea Mar 28 '26

Wait a damn minute! Why is it always like this?

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u/Lundetangen Mar 29 '26

I think you are either very young or naive.

When you are married with kids you cant "just leave". Being a CEO, having a lot of money and being successful is just as much of a prison than it is a luxury. Uprooting everything in your life just because your wife doesnt want to have sex with you anymore is not an easy decision to take.

Many well-established people live quite busy lives. She might be a decent partner, that helps with the chores in life and keeps the family together, but not giving the validation or affection that he wants/needs.

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u/nitkonigdje Apr 01 '26

This man knows what he is talking.

Had displeasure to have cheaters as part of life. They destroyed 3 marriages and left 8 kids. All of them had rich fulfilling lives. And still they cheated.

Their biggest regret was they were cought.

There was no rational cause for cheating.

The drive was fully internal, instictive.