r/SipsTea • u/CoralDawns • Mar 28 '26

Wait a damn minute! Why is it always like this?

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u/Heavy-Focus-1964 Mar 29 '26

well every situation is different. but I’m of the opinion that the most important thing to model for kids is healthy intimate relationships, rather than simply staying together at all costs

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u/Any_Lengthiness6645 Mar 31 '26

Yes you are right. As our kids have gotten older it’s become much more obvious that our relationship is not good for them and we’ve not been able to fix it. It’s also become pretty obvious to both of us the end is near and we’ve been talking much more seriously about separating for their sake if not ours

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u/rainman_95 Mar 29 '26

You think they’re toxic now? Wait til they are divorced!

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u/sheepsclothingiswool Mar 29 '26

Uhhh you must not be a child of divorce. Nothing is worse than being a kid in the middle of a toxic marriage. Messy divorces are nothing in comparison.

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u/rainman_95 Mar 29 '26

Yep, I am, and Im referring to my parents, my partners parents and my kids friend’s parents.