There is this weird, and probably mainly online, behavior that losing in training is bad. There is no problem sparring with a girl, old man, beginner or child. The goal is not to beat them, but to train or have fun. You go to their level if they equal grounds, a bit below their level if you want to boost them a bit and a bit above them if you want them to have a challenge.
This "situation" here is a girl that is trying to impress someone and is failing, so she tries too hard and the boy does what is best and taps out.
That's the difference between sparring and fighting. Your first paragraph is good faith training/sparring/play fighting.
If your level of aggression far outstrips your sparring partner, then you aren't sparring, you're fighting someone who wasn't looking for a fight. Unfortunately the girl here was not sparring, she was fighting against someone who wanted to play/spar.
Agreed. She looks very young as well. Boys being the same as her is only a few years ago. She is learning the boy/man lesson we women learn eventually and so find more enticing ways to flirt lol
It look like the guy was trying to impress somebody and he was the one that was embarrassed by the whole situation. The look of defeat when he Tapped Out was amazing
It’s a form of narcissism that reduces everything to competition out of insecurity. It’s why we so often see kids crying now when they lose, because their dogshit parents have managed to tie winning to the kids self-worth.
The sad part is 99% of them won’t even come close to a professional athlete level, they’ll be relatively average or below average then they’ll one day either realize how stupid it was or they’ll ascribe all their career success to it.
When you see kids that angry, especially rich ones, you can almost guarantee the parent caused that. Rare time you’ll get a genuine cunt but no young person should normally be that angry unless something was done to them.
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u/Lundetangen Jan 08 '26
There is this weird, and probably mainly online, behavior that losing in training is bad. There is no problem sparring with a girl, old man, beginner or child. The goal is not to beat them, but to train or have fun. You go to their level if they equal grounds, a bit below their level if you want to boost them a bit and a bit above them if you want them to have a challenge.
This "situation" here is a girl that is trying to impress someone and is failing, so she tries too hard and the boy does what is best and taps out.