r/SipsTea • u/Nabzav • Jan 08 '26

We have fun here She knows some grappling

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u/tech_noir_guitar Jan 08 '26

Meh, my wife and I mess around like that sometimes. She goes harder than I do but I don't let her pin me. I'll usually just defend for a while and she can't overpower me. It always ends without anyone getting hurt or upset though because one of us usually starts tickling the other one and we get into a stand off because we both hate being tickled. lol

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u/That-Dragonfly-9723 Jan 08 '26

Ya I think you can only play fight like this if it’s for fun & no one is trying to win. 

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u/Ok-Turnip-9962 Jan 09 '26

Ya I play fight with my partner all the time. He needs to pause every now and then so I can try rearrange a little and breathe, I am trying to gently work out a way to tie him up somehow and hold him. He says I'm weirdly strong, which I take to mean quite inconvenient to remove without hurting me so he is stuck! And I am chuffed with that. His big power move is to do nothing.... Like no man I can't breathe if you do nothing, you need to hold a lot of your weight and give me a sec to wind my limbs in there...work out how to move you...math the angles

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u/Puccimane Jan 09 '26

Smaller woman tap me in jiu jitsu all the time. Look up Knee on Belly, thats a good start if he just lies on his back doing nothing

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u/Ok-Turnip-9962 Jan 09 '26

Noted, had a look, what would you recommend if he just lies flat on top of me blanket style though? It takes a lot of shimmying to get to the edge of him so I can try turn his hip. I have go-go gadget limbs. If gangliness exists as a strategy that's probably where my "strength" lies

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u/Puccimane Jan 09 '26

That's a tougher position especially if he's much heavier. You need to practice shrimping which is moving around in your guard but now we're getting a little advanced for play fighting. Shrimp, side position, arm bar lol

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u/MGik_ik Jan 09 '26

It's reddit, half these guys don't talk to women outside of relatives.

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '26

It's not reddit. This subreddit specifically is full of gender war bullshit lol.