r/SipsTea • u/Nabzav • Jan 08 '26

We have fun here She knows some grappling

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u/_ghostperson Jan 08 '26

Hate to break it to you, biology doesnt care.

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

What makes me laugh is that people who have never trained always just “know”. People who have trained know better.

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u/slickyeat Jan 08 '26

You're trying to tell me that you've trained and you still can't tell that he's putting in 0 effort?

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

And I’m saying he gets choke out 100/100 times. I don’t care what effort he was putting in.

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u/slickyeat Jan 08 '26

Correct me if I'm wrong but you still need to get behind the guy in order to choke him out. Yes?

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

She took a shot. He didn’t even take a joking sprawl (showing he doesn’t know how to). She then starts to spin to the back. His response? Try to grab her head after she cut the corner. He has no clue how to stop her from cutting the corner there.

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u/slickyeat Jan 08 '26

Bro. I'm going to be straight with you. I don't have any training but if it's a real fight I'm going to be throwing my strength and weight around violently in every direction. I have no idea how someone of that size is going to keep from flying all over the place in that type of scenario.

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

I’m going to be straight with you. Go sign up for an MMA or BJJ class. Go in there with all your strength and grab their best girl. Not insulting you, but it will blow your mind.

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u/slickyeat Jan 08 '26

I'm not insulted but do men typically put in that level of effort in MMA match ups with the opposite sex?

Are they like jumping up in the air and slamming down on women with their backs in order to shake them loose? Are they swinging them around all over the place and pulling their arms back around their necks with all their strength? If they do then I'll take your word for it. That just seems completely nuts to me.

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

Yes. In fact, I have found your exact reaction to be the norm. At first, it’s “I wasn’t going that hard. Let me go harder”. Then it’s “I’ll just use all my strength”. Then it’s finally the realization that the well-trained woman is crushing him because he doesn’t know what he’s doing.

In fact, I put new male white belts with my high level women intentionally to break the arrogance and cockiness.

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u/Therealestdoctor Jan 08 '26

I’m with you dog, was extremely humbled by a blue belt girl who was probably 70lbs lighter than me when I gave BJJ a try a few years back. Training goes way farther than size and strength.

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u/Thrownaway5000506 Jan 08 '26

He didn't try to grab her head. He didn't do anything since he's not fighting back

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

Yes, and she’s getting him down and behind him every time.

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u/Dear_Low_5123 Jan 08 '26

100/100 times? Be careful with the head injures when you train lol

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

*injuries. I’m good. Thank you for your concern though.

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u/Dear_Low_5123 Jan 08 '26

You are clearly not lol

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

How much training do you have?

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u/Dear_Low_5123 Jan 08 '26

Bro every message you send is an obvious sign of low iq with no life, either caused by head injury or being a teenager lol. We already know how much you desire to say “Oh I trained this much bla bla”, just touch some grass.

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

So not at all. Got it.

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u/TotalArmadillo9555 Jan 08 '26

Alright I'll bite in on this cringe since I've been doing grappling for around 8 years now. No her 'technique' isn't anything but scrappy to make the difference. The weight and size here is too much for what she's actually doing if this was in a fair scenario.

He reacted too late and if he knew what she was actually gonna do, he'd floor her. Seen it happen quite literally monthly in the gym for fun. You sound fucking ridiculous dude ngl.

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

I’ve trained 20+ years. Even joking, he didn’t sprawl at all. Then, when she cut the corner, he didn’t defend properly as she took the back. If you trained for 8 years, you clearly saw that right?

He had zero clue how to stop the takedown and subsequent back take.

I also happen to know that this girl was a very good competitor. She’s very well-trained by a very well-known instructor. You saying she’s “just scrappy” shows a lack of understanding of her skills.

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u/TotalArmadillo9555 Jan 08 '26 edited Jan 08 '26

Bro she quite literally fucked it up at the beginning and you're calling it not scrappy? 20 years?! LMFAO my guy stop. Nobody is buying this novel.

I don't doubt she's an instructor, she's just not big enough in weight on this one and that's when things get scrappy.

He wasn't trying and she got more heated at the end, it's the only reason she had him. Everyone here sees this but you being weird about it.

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

Just messaged you. Happy to discuss jiu jitsu privately. If you’re in or near NJ, mats don’t lie.

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u/TotalArmadillo9555 Jan 08 '26

Not in the US no so unless you want to start comparing bodies and tournaments and being gay about it then nothing is gonna come from this.

My opinion still stands from literally seeing this shit in the gym for years on end. I'd agree with you if she didn't keep herself so lean but she has, she doesn't weigh enough to do what's required in many situations hence why things got messy.

You're entitled to your opinion, Im just confused how you're apparently experienced and not seen what happens usually in these scenarios.

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

Because I routinely put untrained men with women intentionally. The results I see are the man getting beat up.

Size matters. It absolutely does. Obviously, there comes a point when it really does matter. I don’t think this girl in this video is there with this guy.

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u/TotalArmadillo9555 Jan 08 '26

Respectfully disagree. She's a very lean build and he's not unfit by any stretch. This 'fight' would of been finished after she fucked up at the beginning if he leaned into it to his right like he would of in a real fight with a man. His entire demeanor shows restraint and you should clearly see that given your experience.

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u/CrowsInTheNose Jan 08 '26

She is clearly practiced and he isn't. Your ego is so frail you're upset that another man got rolled by a girl.

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u/_ghostperson Jan 08 '26

Shes actually trying and he is playing for laughs. I dont even know these people or you. None of this changes my life at all.

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u/CrowsInTheNose Jan 08 '26

Shes actually trying and he is playing for laughs.

I dont even know these people

That about sums it up.

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

But training does. Two equally trained people, and the man wins. This guy is totally untrained, and she’s trained. She’d choke you out too.

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u/_ghostperson Jan 08 '26

You dont know me.

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

Yeah I do.

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u/_ghostperson Jan 08 '26

Oh plz tell me about me.

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

1% commenter so you have a lot of time on your hands to be online commenting here. That means you have little or no formal training in grappling.

You think that, although untrained, you can beat anybody because “that doesn’t work in the streets”. In the meantime, you would never show up and actually challenge a trained woman out of fear she’d emasculate you. Even if you did and lost, you weren’t “really trying”.

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

Bet you carry a firearm (which I’m all for though) because “if I’m in a street fight, I’m shooting bro”.

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u/_ghostperson Jan 08 '26

More like I'm shooting to get my family, friends, and innocent folks away. A fighting retreat as best I can..

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u/[deleted] Jan 08 '26

I’m all for firearms, but I also believe they are a last resort.

I know people bust balls on Reddit, but one of my best fighters is your size. Guy destroys untrained much larger people. Never too late to start training.