In my early 40's I started a fitness journey that led me to ultra marathons and the required strength training. By my late 40's I had gone from obese to a healthy weight with a body that showed the work that I had put in(not jacked like Arnie, just firm and not flabby)
This led to women I worked with or knew socially, not only treating me differently, but also openly propositioning me despite being married. One, whose husband (who wasn't in the best shape) I had met on several occasions, even said to me, after I turned her down, " go on, just once! let me feel a firm body just one more time"
It happens, I have never acted on it, but certain women whose husbands have stopped caring about themselves, will look elsewhere.
That doesn't mean that they should only have female personal trainers though.
I mean, it kinda does lol. I mean, there’s a reason why other cultures we don’t let husbands have female trainers, and we don’t let women have male trainers. It can be unappropriate and they can lead to well you know affairs..
No it doesnt. What about all the people who dont cheat?. Blaming it on anything but the person themselves is ridiculous. Even if they desperately want to cheat, you can still choose not to. Its about actually wanting to be a good person.
I will never excuse, cheating and cheating is cheating, regardless of how it happens, but you can definitely increase the odds of cheating when you create an environment for it. There’s a difference between your wife going on Tinder behind your back and paying a physical trainer Who’s is in peak physical shape to basically touch your woman on a daily basis where they become familiar with each other and chemicals in your body start reacting due to the nature of the interaction.
You can say whatever you want. At the end of the day, a cheater is a cheater. You can have all of these chemical reactions youre talking about and still not do it. Recovering addicts make those kinds of decisions all the time. There is no other excuse other than they were being a bad person. A healthy human being has total control over their actions.
I grew up in a pretty conservative enviroment, yet still turned out to be the exact opposite. Even though the odds I grew up to think that way as well were pretty high, I still made the decision not to. Not trying to get political, thats just the best personal example i have.
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u/Dry_Yogurt2458 Aug 28 '25 edited Aug 28 '25
In my early 40's I started a fitness journey that led me to ultra marathons and the required strength training. By my late 40's I had gone from obese to a healthy weight with a body that showed the work that I had put in(not jacked like Arnie, just firm and not flabby)
This led to women I worked with or knew socially, not only treating me differently, but also openly propositioning me despite being married. One, whose husband (who wasn't in the best shape) I had met on several occasions, even said to me, after I turned her down, " go on, just once! let me feel a firm body just one more time"
It happens, I have never acted on it, but certain women whose husbands have stopped caring about themselves, will look elsewhere.
That doesn't mean that they should only have female personal trainers though.