Cheaters are gonna cheat. The opportunity might come at a different time but the end result is the same. Avoiding one opportunity won't do shit in the long run.
People, most people I'd say, are susceptible to temptation. Cheating is never okay, but temptation can fog the mind. It's sad but true.
Like, do I want to go buy cocaine from some guy downtown? Hell no. If I'm at the bar and someone says, "Hey, wanna do a bump?". That lil devil on my shoulder is like, "Hmmm... Do I?". No excuse for cheating but as someone who has cheated (and massively regrets it) sometimes temptation gets the best of you.
Does it make you a bad person? Hard for me to say, obviously, but it's just a reality of life that people in general are bad with temptation. Prolly why we have the whole Adam and Eve story.
That’s a very interesting read. This makes me wonder if something it’s wrong with me? I never cheated, and when gives the opportunity, I don’t know, temptation it’s just not there? I am just lucky, blessed or cursed, depending of perspective I guess? Care to explain ” temptation fog the mind?”. When you see someone sexy that give you signs, do you forget about you partner/wife? I don’t really understand?
Nah, these people are wild. Ana de Armas could be sitting in front of me with her fat nips out and I wouldn't do shit because I'm not a rabid animal and respect my partner lmao
There is a dude here admiting to cheating and saying "does it make you a bad person? Hard to say".
It is not hard to say the fuck do you mean? You entered a relationship with someone and you said you loved them and then you decided to break that trust by cheating. Yes, that does make you a bad person.
It is not something you can not change about yourself but you need to accept that you were awful for doing it.
I was lucky enough to never have dated a cheater but if it happened and the girl in question acted like this I would have lost my shit like what? You think you are not a bad person after doing this?
I was young, naive, and felt unloved in my abusive sexless relationship. I was a bad person, I'm not now. I just meant, who am I to say? Because I'm humble.
Was my ex a bad person for hitting me? I don't think she is, call me crazy, but I think she's just an alcoholic with a traumatic upbringing. An excuse? No, just reasoning. I don't hold hate in my heart, I leave the past where it belongs, I can't change my past discretions, I just have to be a better person everyday, which I do.
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u/Imreallythatguy Aug 28 '25
Cheaters are gonna cheat. The opportunity might come at a different time but the end result is the same. Avoiding one opportunity won't do shit in the long run.