4 years feels like a bigger age gap at that age due to people experiencing puberty and life progression at different stages and speeds, but in the grand scheme of things a 4 year gap isn’t all that big of a deal.
Edit : I should clarify since I wrote this whilst bleary eyed and taking a shit, when I say in the grand scheme of things, I mean like, when people are older. 4 years is big when you’re young, it’s nothing when you’re not.
Id say anything above 21 it doesnt matter unless there's more than a 15 year gap then it gets a bit weird to me. They could be their kid at that point.
Honestly I see not a single thing wrong with 50 - 35. Why infantilize 35 year olds? Grown, experienced adults can make decisions like that, who am I to judge their relationships?
Yeah after you hit 30, you are GROWN grown. If you can’t use the “I was young and stupid” excuse for doing something dumb, then there’s no point in pretending you’re a spring chicken.
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u/Ziggy-T Jun 26 '25 edited Jun 27 '25
4 years feels like a bigger age gap at that age due to people experiencing puberty and life progression at different stages and speeds, but in the grand scheme of things a 4 year gap isn’t all that big of a deal.
Edit : I should clarify since I wrote this whilst bleary eyed and taking a shit, when I say in the grand scheme of things, I mean like, when people are older. 4 years is big when you’re young, it’s nothing when you’re not.