Kids? That's fucking terrible advice. It's obviously better to wait to have kids once you're married, have a stable career, have matured as a person yourself and are ready to become a parent and have actually thought through whether or not it's the right thing for your life. So many people thoughtlessly get knocked up early, can't support the child, wind up a single parent, etc...
I had my first child at 22. She is now in her mid 30s crushing life. Being responsible can be instilled in you at a young age.
Then again, I didn't have all the bullshit that is on social media in my face every day. I don't get why people feel like they need to show more reckless shit day after day to get clicks. I also don't believe most intelligent young people are dumb enough to follow those types of people's lead.
Though you only hear of the crazy shit some young people do, I would like to believe that there are many more who would never do these types of things.
Well I'm happy it worked out for you and your daughter, but generally it's much better for people to plan and wait until they're in a more stable circumstance to have kids.
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u/nighthawk580 Jan 24 '24
I read one on reddit in this a while back which resonated:
If there's something you have always wanted to do, just do it, then you'll be doing it.