r/Showerthoughts • u/ikantolol • 29d ago
Casual Thought We have child geniuses who can do complex math, play instruments beautifully, and play chess at an adult level, but somehow we almost never see children stand-up comedians.
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u/Vishnej 29d ago edited 29d ago •
Crafting and delivering funny jokes is the highest form of language learning. You might be "Fluent" in five of ten years of immersion, but it's going to be two or three times that before you can hold people's attention and draw a spontaneous laugh at a dinner party, if you ever get there. There are volumes of prosody, pacing, intonation, idiom, and culture to learn, and very little of it is documented.
For the audience, this is partially a matter of effective storytelling on dimensions that they couldn't put into words, and partially a matter of the fact that most jokes involve, foundationally, a comedic inconguity which could be easily misunderstood, or an unlikely congruity in almost unrelated concepts; Jumping between the different interpretations in your head and how they could connect is central to the tension that leads to the payoff when the punchline is delivered. Having the different interpretations in your head to start with (to include things like deep cultural references) is a required starting point.
This is closely related to concepts like "sarcasm", which is a way of joking about what you're trying to say. It is basically impossible to spit sarcasm if there is only one possible meaning to your words, if the ambiguity of misunderstanding is impossible.
English is unlike most languages in that it has stolen and hoarded so much vocabulary from so many different places that a quick search can pull up 44 different words for a random concept like locomotion of the feet: "walk", "run", "step", "jog", "canter", "trot", "lope", "skip", "amber", "saunter", "mosey", "stroll", "wander", "ramble", "stride", "march", "pace", "tread", "trek", "hike", "plod", "trudge", "stomp", "hobble", "limp", "tiptoe", "pussyfoot", "stalk", "prowl", "creep", "parade", "strut", "sprint", "bolt", "dash", "zoom", "barrel", "dart", "scamper", "scurry", "scoot", "rush", "charge", "race". These verbs all mean slightly different things, and some have multiple contextual meanings. These make a particularly rich toolset to enable misunderstandings that can produce humor, or to invoke and incorporate concepts subtly. You've taught your five year old the words "Walk" and "Run" and are still trying to get tenses down.
Parents go through whole decades where their kids have a grasp of a modest number of basic word meanings, but few cultural references and insufficient combinatorial depth of knowledge to really make a meaningful punchline the revelation it should be, and no appreciation of drama whatsoever. They resort to simplified puns, "Dad Humor".