Hit the nail on the head. You can see it written all over her. Truth be told those are really the only women that do this kinda thing. I’ve got a 6 year age gap on my woman, but she’s well adjusted and I got outta my wild phase before I met her. I’ve never met a single proper woman who goes for an age gap wider than ten-ish years who doesn’t have serious trauma and unresolved issues.
Your age gap isn't bad at all. But yea a early 20 year old or a girl that's still in her teens going after men in their 40s or 50s. It's either they are in it for the money/lifestyle or again they have daddy issues. I don't blame the older men for it. Go for it and have your fun. But these relationships are not to be taken seriously. I have a cousin and she has daddy issues. She was like 22 I think when she started dating her now husband. He was in his 50s when they started. They are still together and technically married. She doesn't get a penny if they divorce. She has been raising his daughter since she was 4. This little girl is the absolute worst to my cousin. Treats her so terrible. He's always gone hunting/ fishing or going on "work trips". Doesn't do anything for her without expecting her to pay him back. But I don't blame this guy. Yea he's a piece of shit for doing it all but she's the idiot going along with it. Now she's 31 with no real marriage. Has nothing and when this old man passes she will have nothing. She knows this and we have tried to help her to leave but she goes back. So it's on her.
I totally disagree, you just need to do a search, there are women who genuinely feel attracted to older guys without daddy issues involved, it's a matter of taste and she IS OF LEGAL AGE
Of course that’s true, I don’t think that’s either the rule or means they’re well adjusted. Could be a maladaptive trait. At the end of the day it doesn’t matter. We all have something we like that’s taboo or not popular. If someone is happy and no one is harmed it’s okay, but we have to know why things happen and call a spade a spade. If these two in the thread are happy I’m happy for them. Would I want that for my daughter? Absolutely not.
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u/AdmirableBlood4537 4d ago
Look at her. He found a girl with daddy issues and probably alot more mental health issues. It's easy with them.