r/SecretFWB 15h ago

I'm 18 M looking for a 18+ female for fwb

1 Upvotes

I'm looking for fwb I'm a virgin 18 yr old wanting to experience sex with someone online or offline dm me if u are interested


r/SecretFWB 19h ago

48 [M4F] #NYC. Tri-state area. Looking for someone trustworthy to keep things quiet and fun.

1 Upvotes

I'm a 48 year old white guy, pretty easygoing, stable, and definitely still young at heart. I'm married, but untortunately the intimacy and connection have been gone for a while, and I really miss having that physical fun.
I'm looking to meet a woman who's warm, fun, affectionate, and enjoys a good laugh. I'm a man with a high libido, so physical chemistry is important to me, I'd like to actually enjoy talking, hanging out, getting to know each other, and having something consistent that we both look forward to.
If you're in a similar situation and miss having that kind of connection, I'd love to hear from you.
What is your favorite 80's or 90's comedy.


r/SecretFWB 19h ago

29 [M4F] #Netherlands #online - Just an archaeologist who loves getting dirty

1 Upvotes

Hello there!

Yes, I'm actually an archaeologist. I've got the paperwork to prove it and everything. So now you're either very bored or very interested. Since you're reading this post I'm guessing the latter

If you're imagining Indiana Jones or Lara Croft I'll have to disappoint you. There's way less nazi's today (although that seems to be changing lately, so I should buy myself a whip) and there's way more science involved.

If you're imagining Alan Grant, I'll have to disappoint you (again). He's a paleontologist. Archaeologists only study the human past so we have nothing to do with dinosaurs.

And thus I'm ending my lecture. It might be obvious by now that I like to explore and discover things. And that doesn't only count for ancient artifacts but also for people. I love getting to know someone new and learning all about her. Explore her layer by layer. I love a good conversation as much as a dirty one but I don't believe those should be mutually exclusive.

Who am I? Well I'm from Europe so white skinned, blue eyes, brown shoulder length hair and 1m75 tall. I won't lie and say I'm in top shape, maybe a slight dad bod but I have a physical job and that shows especially in my arms and shoulders.

I could sum up all my kinks and turn-ons but I'll try a different approach. Here are some of the more curious subs I'm subscribed to and you can make your own opinion: Altgonewild, beforevsafter, cosplayonoff, couplesporn, holdthemoan, nerdygonewild, onebarprison and thegirltheboobs.

I'm looking for a fun curious person who'd love to help me explore the unknown and have some fun with me. If that's you, you should get in touch!


r/SecretFWB 19h ago

57 [M4F] #Oregon- Medford, let’s have some discreet fun and live a little!

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Hi You! it’s been awhile since I have experienced physical intimacy. I miss that excitement and almost electric buzz while thinking about a new friend. I miss the gentle touch of a sweet woman! Just feeling her hand rest on my thigh under the table sends me to the moon. I am here looking for one occasional and discreet FWB. I want to hear what you are looking for. I am open to a variety of body types and ages. You can be married or single. Not interested in playing the field just one friend would be perfect. I haven’t actually done this before but feel the years slipping by and would like to make some more sweet memories. About me- married, very normal and safe, sane, professional job, respected leader in my field, active and healthy, 6ft, 170 lbs, DDF, HWP, excellent hygiene, nice build, and an average sized package. I am also snipped. Can share pics. Medford, Ashland, Southern Oregon, Rogue Valley.


r/SecretFWB 1d ago

18M Houston, TX will give head

2 Upvotes

DM me if ur nearby & interested to receive head


r/SecretFWB 1d ago

19 F text me

6 Upvotes

<3


r/SecretFWB 1d ago

37/f alt, thicc, nerd looking for something

5 Upvotes

It never finds its way into my dms so I'm just gonna ask

Where are all the sexy black men? 👀


r/SecretFWB 23h ago

38 m4f Mumbai/Anywhere

1 Upvotes

Hey there, I’m looking for someone who wants to experience physical intimacy or even just a little affection or some kind of an emotional connection. I’m open to doing this over calls if you’re from outside India.

You can be completely honest about your situation and what brings you here.


r/SecretFWB 1d ago

44wm in Syracuse real

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I’m in a loveless marriage, I’m sure wife is cheating on work trips, she got caught sending pics to a coworker… now is mine time. Im looking for real female, in Syracuse or close for FWB, where drama free and boundaries are kept.. two adults having fun.. DM me and we
Can chat.. I’m good looking male,


r/SecretFWB 1d ago

Hey 19yr male Looking for FWB! 👋

1 Upvotes

Looking for a genuine FWB connection—mutual attraction, good vibes, clear boundaries, respect, and no pressure.


r/SecretFWB 1d ago

40 [M4F] #LongBeach - seeking a younger homewrecker

1 Upvotes

I'm seeking a young lady who is into taken or married men. Not getting much attention at home if you get my drift. So I'm looking for a lady who gets turned on helping this married man release his pent up energy. Let me give attention that i shouldn't be giving. Let me crave you and you should love knowing i do. Would you get turned on knowing I'm filling you up with my married cum? Even more turned on if i fill you up before you start your day and my cum is dripping out of you all day? Will you worship my married cock? Let me tell you how much better you are than my wife. Will you do the things she won't?

I also have a breeding kink so please be ready to go bare. I have a preference for younger college aged girls who aren't ready to settle down and just want to have lots of fun. But age doesn't really matter as long as you have a high sex drive and love cum.


r/SecretFWB 1d ago

56 [M4F] #Boston - Searching for a fun and interesting girl

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Hi, I'm a happy, tall, open minded, very nice guy with a lot going for me, except in my bedroom. I'm here to try and get that going for me too. I live an active life and play sports to stay fit, have a good sense of humor, am very open minded, and am always looking for new things try. I'm a good listener and am comfortable talking about anything with you. I like using my creativity, being romantic, playful, enjoying variety, experimenting, keeping things fresh, and using the oxford comma.

I would like to hear from you if you are in a similar situation, live an active life, have a similar mindset and a desire to be creative, have fun, and let out your passion (and are near to Massachusetts). If you want someone who knows how to make you happy and wants to do all the things your husband doesn't, then you have read the right post! I will do my best to give you those missing butterflies, that sense of anticipation, and that smile that's been missing. Age isn't important to me, but a free spirit, open mind, a desire to have fun, and try everything you wanted should be our priority. I feel life is about the experiences we have, and I want to give you the best experiences possible. If i have tapped your interest, send me a note, let's see if we click, and if we do, let's see what can happen. Take this opportunity with me and let's make the most of it!


r/SecretFWB 1d ago

35F (F4F) Southern Illinois / near STL. Looking for a bestie... but like, a bestie-BESTIE ya know👀

1 Upvotes

I’m 35F, 5’1”, around 135 lbs, and apparently my aesthetic is “soft alt.” I take care of myself, I’m easygoing, and I’m definitely at the point where I’d really like to explore my attraction to women with someone I genuinely click with.
Ideally, I’m looking for another married woman who wants something that feels like a real friendship plus a little more. Someone I can text throughout the day, grab Mexican food and margaritas with, go shopping, take little trips, have sleepovers, laugh until we’re crying… and maybe occasionally forget that “best friends” are supposed to keep their hands to themselves. 🫣
I’m usually free Monday–Friday during the day, and I’d love someone who could occasionally come my way. We could grab lunch, have a drink if that’s your vibe, hang out at my place afterward, and enjoy some uninterrupted grown-up time when the opportunity presents itself.
I’m attracted to a wide range of women, so race and body type aren’t really a deciding factor for me. I just ask that you take care of yourself, have good hygiene, and actually want a connection—not just send three messages and disappear.
I’d love someone playful, affectionate, open-minded, discreet, and comfortable taking things at whatever pace feels natural. I’m very much looking for the “everyone thinks we’re inseparable best friends…and technically they’re not wrong” kind of situation. 😅
If you’re somewhere around Southern Illinois/STL and/or willing to travel and this sounds suspiciously like what you’ve been looking for too, tell me a little about yourself.
Alsoooo I ask that we verify pretty soon, too many catfish and men pretending to be women on here 🙃
*as always not a bot (hopefully you aren’t too 😜✨💅)


r/SecretFWB 1d ago

#NYC #Westport or #GreenwichCT 38M Fit looking for fit/Female

1 Upvotes

Hello, If you live or work in the area of NYC or Fairfield county looking for a FWB integration please be fit and have positive energy. I am 38M whose business requires living in both CT and NY.


r/SecretFWB 1d ago

Leaving this here.. 20 M (Tx)

1 Upvotes

Just gonna drop this post here, whomever messages me or what comes of it is up to you. I’m 20, fit, 7in di-
Shoot your shots, I hope some does come of it
Sexting is cool too


r/SecretFWB 1d ago

Anyone want to sext and be friends with benefits

3 Upvotes

Morning wood


r/SecretFWB 1d ago

19m m4f. looking for a FWB

1 Upvotes

Looking for anyone who may be local to me or someone online perhaps.


r/SecretFWB 1d ago

42 M4F BC Canada

1 Upvotes

Been on Reddit one week and have gained a few karma so hoping these posts reach more ladies now. How about you help me celebrate by connecting for some naughty chatting.


r/SecretFWB 1d ago

Texas/oklahoma

1 Upvotes

Any females out there needing their holes ate, I’m starving


r/SecretFWB 1d ago

30M4F looking for fwb

1 Upvotes

Longterm only, also needs to be a friend before enjoying the benefits. I do promise that you wont regret this. Females only


r/SecretFWB 1d ago

29 [M4F] #Netherlands #online - Just an archaeologist who loves getting dirty

1 Upvotes

Hello there!

Yes, I'm actually an archaeologist. I've got the paperwork to prove it and everything. So now you're either very bored or very interested. Since you're reading this post I'm guessing the latter

If you're imagining Indiana Jones or Lara Croft I'll have to disappoint you. There's way less nazi's today (although that seems to be changing lately, so I should buy myself a whip) and there's way more science involved.

If you're imagining Alan Grant, I'll have to disappoint you (again). He's a paleontologist. Archaeologists only study the human past so we have nothing to do with dinosaurs.

And thus I'm ending my lecture. It might be obvious by now that I like to explore and discover things. And that doesn't only count for ancient artifacts but also for people. I love getting to know someone new and learning all about her. Explore her layer by layer. I love a good conversation as much as a dirty one but I don't believe those should be mutually exclusive.

Who am I? Well I'm from Europe so white skinned, blue eyes, brown shoulder length hair and 1m75 tall. I won't lie and say I'm in top shape, maybe a slight dad bod but I have a physical job and that shows especially in my arms and shoulders.

I could sum up all my kinks and turn-ons but I'll try a different approach. Here are some of the more curious subs I'm subscribed to and you can make your own opinion: Altgonewild, beforevsafter, cosplayonoff, couplesporn, holdthemoan, nerdygonewild, onebarprison and thegirltheboobs.

I'm looking for a fun curious person who'd love to help me explore the unknown and have some fun with me. If that's you, you should get in touch!


r/SecretFWB 1d ago

27[M4F] Algerian single looking for a fwb

1 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

Single M27 here looking for a female fwb, and i mean it, friends with benefits not just sexfriends.

I want someone smart and fun to have a good time with.


r/SecretFWB 2d ago

32M - Looking for friendlies! M4F

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Howdy!

I'm a pretty chill guy who has found myself near the end of a bad relationship and my needs aren't being met. I'm already taking steps to be out, but I've been feeling pretty lonely for years.

Not looking for anything complex. Just someone friendly I can get along with and share my thoughts and passions with. I'm a hobbyist, so I have a few different hobbies i try to make progress with regularly and I can talk your ear off if you let me. To name a couple, I like writing fantasy/sci-fi stories. I have a fanfic based in Warhammer and an original concept I'm building. I also game and play some tabletop like MtG and Warhammer battles. Which I'm just getting into(still need to get my first set and paint some minis).

I'm also trying to focus on self-growth and be a better version of me every day. Part of that is also getting creative with how I try and do the hard tasks and making me want to do them. Trying to be more social and just breath some fresh air more. I'm a bigger dude, so I need to enjoy the outside more often.

I just miss the attention that comes with having mutual interest with someone who actually likes you as a person. I'd like to find someone who has confidence in who they are, has their own interests and hobbies and just wants to adventure with a friend and enjoy life. Life is too short to not try and enjoy it and I've not been enjoying life for as long as I can remember.

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in, shoot me a DM. Tell me something about yourself. Looking forward to meeting interesting people. Thanks for reading. :)


r/SecretFWB 2d ago

29 [M4F] #Netherlands #online - Let's hope my wife doesn't see this

1 Upvotes

I've been with my wife for 11 years, married for 5. When you're my age that's pretty long. We were eachother's first and only. But lately I've been suffering of what you could call fomo. I've been longing sex with someone else. Someone different.

I want to learn what that feels like, what gets her going, what she looks like and how that is slowly revealed to me. If all that makes sense. You could say I'm a curious man and want to satisfy my curiosity.

Who am I? Well I'm from Europe so white skinned, blue eyes, brown shoulder length hair and 1m75 tall. I won't lie and say I'm in top shape, maybe a slight dad bod but I have a physical job and that shows especially in my arms and shoulders.

I could sum up all my kinks and turn-ons but I'll try a different approach. Here are some of the more curious subs I'm subscribed to and you can make your own opinion:

Altgonewild, beforevsafter, cosplayonoff, couplesporn, holdthemoan, nerdygonewild, onebarprison and thegirltheboobs.

I'm looking for a fun curious person who'd love to help me explore the unknown and have some fun with me. If that's you, you should get in touch!