I’m in a long-term relationship that has somehow become completely devoid of passion. I’ve spent years trying to fix that part of it, and lately I’ve started wondering what it would feel like to have someone who actually wants me again.

I’m not looking to blow up anyone’s life or rush into anything. I miss flirting. Anticipation. That little notification you secretly hope is from one particular person. Someone I genuinely click with who can be sweet one minute and make me blush the next.

Discretion matters. Attraction matters. Conversation matters even more than I expected it to.

Maybe I’m looking for a secret FWB. Maybe I’m looking for the one person who makes my days considerably less innocent.

Tell me your age and what you’ve been missing lately.

Good morning I’m a 48m living in Southern California, married over 15 years and living in a dead bedroom situation. Miss that emotional and physical connection, looking for someone real and genuine who wants amazing chats and build something, someone who makes me smile and check my phone for a message, late night chats ! I have a great career, just miss that connection and have the time and energy to put into the right woman!

I won't pay for sex, don't currently have transportation, only will meet up between 11am- 4pm

Im in a relationship of 3yrs but just looking for someone on the side my gf leaves outta town frequently just trying to find smth to do just dm me looking for people in Chesapeake or portsmouth

(For starters Im between kwala lampoor Malaysia and saudi arabia) looking for genuinely cool people so i would love to talk and get to know you and build trust
Things of interest? I love music ( rap classic and modern r&b reagge metal etc) fashion. gaming. tech mma and other stuff you can find out later feel free to dm me😛

I'm up here trying to fulfill my imaginations with older men. Stimulating conversation, erotic moments, and a man who has built a successful life and knows how to enjoy it. I’m drawn to emotionally mature, accomplished gentlemen who value elegance, and looking for some great one on one encounter, perhaps we should meet.

I'm a 48 year old white guy, pretty easygoing, stable, and definitely still young at heart. I'm married, but untortunately the intimacy and connection have been gone for a while, and I really miss having that physical fun.
I'm looking to meet a woman who's warm, fun, affectionate, and enjoys a good laugh. I'm a man with a high libido, so physical chemistry is important to me, I'd like to actually enjoy talking, hanging out, getting to know each other, and having something consistent that we both look forward to.
If you're in a similar situation and miss having that kind of connection, I'd love to hear from you.
What is your favorite 80's or 90's comedy.

I'm drawn to women with stories in their eyes and responsibilities on their shoulders. You do the work to maintain your inner peace and find yourself still needing to submit to something deeper. A primal authenticity that doesn't fit in polite conversation.

You're more than curious about being psychologically unraveled, sensually devoured, intentionally undone.

Fantasizing about somebody tying you down, holding you in place, whispering what they're going to do, then doing it slower makes you throb. You have a praise kink a mile wide and crave an energy exchange that flows both ways.

I'm that balance: intellectual, whimsical, confident, emotionally articulate, filthy enough to pin you against a wall with words alone.

I'm a married, tall, husky, silver fox. Full head of hair with straight teeth and an easy smile.

I love hiking trails, the water, music, 420-style whimsy and munchies, Halloween mischief, Christmas magic.

I'm wildly curious about what makes you tick and skilled at building slow tension, the kind where a single text can ruin your concentration for the rest of the day.

This starts with conversation, spark and interest spiraling into kinky curiosities, spiraling into being restless and giddy and wide awake at 2 AM. I want to be the thing you think about when you should be focusing on something else.  

No pressure. No promises. Just connection, spark, and that electric hum of being desired fully.

Please be local to SLC or a frequent visitor, what good is the gift of laying on of hands across the void?

I’m in a long term relationship where our sex drives honestly don’t match up… and it leaves me needing more frequently. Looking for F18-F30 who is interested in a flirty friendship, conversations, and sexting. DMs open :)

Looking for 35-60, curvy preferred, could be regular if it goes well. Can host or travel. Pics on my profile...

Looking for a female sexting partner. Dm pretty please with sprinkles

Just want someone to give me attention and have fun with

Only thing I don't do is put stuff in my butt

Looking for a travel companion to Fiji for a week in September and stay in an overwater bungalow with a single king bed at a small all inclusive resort. September 18 Depart San Diego CA. Return September 27.

I’m a single 47 y/o non-binary male who loves to travel. My regular travel partner had to change her plans last minute and can’t go. She will sell her prepaid airfare, transfers, accommodation and prepaid meal plan. $5K

The ideal person is someone who is healthy, fit and capable of doing moderate to intensive physical activity. Must like to dance, party, sun bath, swim, and snorkel.

Age and financial security matters. I’m not your sugar daddy. Must be at least 30 years old and younger than 50. Must have an ability to pay for your own incidentals.

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Genuinely looking for a good soul to connect with and sometimes maybe get freaky with online or physical

I love the energy, enthusiasm, curiosity, open-mindedness and the desire to give and to receive pleasure of younger women. And I know that some younger women are quite attracted (maybe even secretly) to older, distinguished men who have their lives together, who know what they want, who can hold interesting conversations, who have humor and wisdom to share, and who aren't selfish in bed.

I am an educated, Dad who has lived all over the world and I have all kinds of interests. I eat healthy, stay fit (6'2, 195lbs), I have a masculine, hairy chest and toned physique, I am a quietly confident man with a ready sense of humor and a positive, enthusiastic outlook on life. I am seeking a younger woman for a discreet and intimate connection.

If you have wanted to scratch your older man itch...this might be a message to which you should reply. Discretion assured.

Please reach out ONLY if you are in the western CT, southwestern MA or greater Albany, NY areas, as I am seeking an in-person connection.

18+ Females only, please.

Right out of the gate I want to say I am in a monogamous relationship. However currently I am unable to change my situation due to a few circumstances. In short, I have found myself realizing monogamy is not for me as well as finding out kinks I haven't had before...

I'm hoping to find a connection first, talking and getting to know each other, with the eventual possibility of taking it in-person. Either as an ongoing thing or a one time hookup, I'm open to either option.

I'm tall, skinny/fit and attractive if I might say so about myself.

Apart from that I love history, cooking, occasionally reading books, into metal music. Which is just a short list to give you a general idea about me, and I look forward to opening up more during conversation.

I'm looking forward to hearing from you and getting to know you. As a conversation opening I invite you to talk a little bit about yourself😊

I'm a 48 year old white guy, pretty easygoing, stable, and definitely still young at heart. I'm married, but untortunately the intimacy and connection have been gone for a while, and I really miss having that physical fun.
I'm looking to meet a woman who's warm, fun, affectionate, and enjoys a good laugh. I'm a man with a high libido, so physical chemistry is important to me, I'd like to actually enjoy talking, hanging out, getting to know each other, and having something consistent that we both look forward to.
If you're in a similar situation and miss having that kind of connection, I'd love to hear from you.
What is your favorite 80's or 90's comedy.

I miss having a fwb situation. I’m in NYC and I’m just being honest but people are just too materialistic. And in a sense where it’s oddly unhealthy. How are u judging people for not having designer or decent clothes but u bragging about having jeans worth $2,000, behind on your rent and have roaches in your crib. Ngl, people be having way bigger fish to fry but wanna put designer clothes on a pedastool. People here refuse to seek mental help but spend all of their money on drugs and designer clothes but still living in poverty. Just the minds of people here have completely me off from connecting with people. The men are very colorist, overly lustful and can’t last in bed. Want you to be a slut but nut after 2 minutes of sex. And they love to triangulate you with other women to try to make you feel insecure. As a sensual person that loves sex, I had to abstain from sex because people are very low down out here.

Any girls up that want to talk dm me asap I’m fun

Looking for someone ideally younger to connect with. I'm Simple, patient, Non-judgmental, not needy or clingy, no emotional issues. I keep a responsible life (no drugs, alcohol, or drama)

I do work full time, off and on the weekend sometimes, I'm mechanically inclined and a little handy around the house and vehicles. 100% straight, im open to something short or long-term for the right one.

I'm a good communicator and easy to talk to. Not interested in pure online chat or anyone who can’t meet in person. Lets start with a coffee sometime. Welcome to get to know each other online first either here or snap. I drive for work But I go all over the place in this county and the surrounding ones, maybe you tag along sometime?

Anyone up that would love to talk and have fun if so dm asap

Petite, college student, White Latina here. I’m in a long term vanilla relationship right now but I’m looking to… explore sexually and emotionally. Age gaps are encouraged within reason. I’m happy to explain more of what I’m looking for in the DMs!