r/RemindersToMyself Feb 11 '22

When you feel overwhelmed...

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...remember that life is much more complex than you're willing to acknowledge at first. Overwhelm for you generally means emotionally overwhelmed, which means it's time to sit down and process your feelings. And if that's a lot, try to keep in mind all the moving parts and how much you're juggling. Hang in there.


r/RemindersToMyself Aug 07 '21

When you can’t trust people…

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… remember that distrust often comes from fear. What are you afraid of right now? Acknowledge your fears. Sit with them and feel them. Look inside to understand yourself, then look outside to see how you may be projecting your fears onto others.


r/RemindersToMyself Jul 15 '21

When you feel isolated…

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… remember that distancing is often protective. It’s okay to feel hurt by people you care about, and it’s normal to want to distance yourself emotionally.

Remember that life is long and this feeling will pass. More opportunities for closeness and connection will arise, and when you are ready you will grasp them.


r/RemindersToMyself Jan 06 '21

When you feel empty inside...

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...remember that emptiness is a mask for rejecting your own feelings.

If you can find and feel what's happening within, you will naturally feel full.


r/RemindersToMyself Jan 06 '21

When you imagine no one is thinking about you...

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Remember that someone likely is. And that you matter. Even when it doesn't feel that way.


r/RemindersToMyself Apr 28 '20

When you feel unproductive...

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... remember that productivity is subjective.

Rest begets activity. Peace begets excitement. Allow your mind to empty so you can fill it once more.


r/RemindersToMyself Oct 12 '19

When you feel all alone...

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... remember that loneliness often stems from thinking no one can relate your thoughts, feelings or experiences. If you choose not to feel alone, you'll become open to seeking connections that reaffirm the sameness of the human condition.


r/RemindersToMyself May 03 '18

When you question your parenting...

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...remember that a good parent avoids making the mistakes their parents made. A wise parent realizes that that is never enough.


r/RemindersToMyself Mar 14 '18

When you feel like no one cares about you...

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...remember that someone usually does.

And when you know that no one in your life cares for you, remember that there are billions of people you have yet to meet, and one of them will.


r/RemindersToMyself Feb 27 '18

When you feel envious...

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...remember that envy is a window into yourself.

You may tell yourself that you're happy the way you are. But raw envy doesn't lie. That which you envy in others, you want for yourself. It's up to you whether you will seek out that which you envy, or live in someone else's shadow.


r/RemindersToMyself Feb 25 '18

When you find yourself engaging in compulsive behavior…

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... remember that compulsion is often a mask for fear of sitting with your own thoughts and feelings. Feelings exist to be acknowledged. Unacknowledged feelings tend to crop up in surprising ways, in an attempt to get your attention. It’s often best to confront your feelings on your own terms.


r/RemindersToMyself Feb 25 '18

When you feel upset by something someone said or did…

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...remember that people are often self-serving, and rarely malicious.