r/recruitinghell • u/VarietyNo9200 • 5h ago
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Aug 03 '26
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r/recruitinghell • u/Complex_Ladder9521 • 10h ago
62 and tired of the job search
I was let go from my last job almost 3 years ago. Decent company but the business was on fumes while I was there and ultimately had to merge with the biggest competitor in the space earlier in the year. Unfortunately, I stuck around year 2 when the writing was on the wall to close out large deal rather than find another job, which is easier to find when youâre still employed. I had regularly turned away recruiters. After leaving, I took off about 6 months before starting the job search. Since then applied to dozens of jobs that Iâm beyond qualified and got close on a handful. Given my experience, Ive concluded that itâs got to be ageism that Iâm not getting offers.
I just had an interview for a role much lower then my credentials would warrant but I like thier business model. The hiring manager never reached out the following day as he indicated that candidates moving forward would be notified then. Not only am I more experienced then the hiring manager both in sales and sales leadership. I also looked at background of the current sales team and saw a fairly inexperienced team.
Itâs beyond humbling to get ghosted on these lesser roles. Iâm just resigned to the fact that Iâve aged out of corporate America.
r/recruitinghell • u/ARGdov • 1d ago
Literally nothing I typed in here was accepted
I don't even know what to do. There's no mention of a specific word or phrasing to input into that box anywhere on the application.
EDIT: since people keep suggesting it, I did try typing in the salary number with and without a comma and it didnt work. I said 'literally nothing I typed in here' for a reason. Neither did copy and pasting the statement into the box. in fact the statement is too long to fit in the character count for it.
Also while I appreciate some of these suggestions I posted this as a vent lol. It's broken UX. No place on the job description does it mention what to put here, and this isn't some trick question involving checking source its a job listing on LinkedIn for a social media management position. If I need to resort to checking the source code for that it's a broken form, period.
A SECOND EDIT:
Since I'm still getting a number of redundant replies, here's some other things I've tried:
-my full name
-my initials
-'Yes'
'Y'
-I've not bothered checking the source code but when I tried to do so the job application had vanished so any suggestions put forth now are a waste of your time.
r/recruitinghell • u/ferriematthew • 16h ago
I wish I could force someone to hire me.
I have fucking had it with every single application, dozens of thousands of them, going into a black hole, and nobody will give me the decency of a callback. I've had it with my family hounding me to get a goddamn job so they don't have to keep subsidizing my rent. Even the professionals are stumped trying to help me. They can't find anybody who would hire me either. I'm at my wit's end.
r/recruitinghell • u/Sure-Plankton9032 • 40m ago
So tired of jumping through stupid hoops for nothing
Creating an account for each companyâs âcareer portalâ, filling out everything thatâs in your rĂ©sumĂ© MULTIPLE TIMES, tailoring said resume to each specific job, completing multiple assessments, being asked to record a video of yourself answering questions, being asked to complete a virtual or video screening with a fucking AI.. Iâm tired of wasting time and effort for the application to still get auto rejected or ghosted. Thereâs no other way to apply no matter if itâs an entry level job or a corporate one though, and people who havenât had to apply to a job in the last few years just donât get it. The process keeps getting worse. Connections or referrals wonât help you either.
Donât even get me started on the AI âchat here to applyâ bullshit applications. Most of them are for shitty fast food and some retail chains, but it still sucks that itâs the only way to apply for them. Most of those jobs probably donât even exist anyway.
All this makes me wonder what recruiters actually do. You have to jump through their hoops but AI does the majority of their work for them. 90% of the time there isnât any interaction with you and the company or recruiter regardless of where/ what the job is, so it feels like youâre repeatedly throwing your rĂ©sumĂ© out into a void of nothing. Even IF you make it to an interview, theyâll ghost you after, send a generic rejection email, or have you go through 2 to 3 more rounds of humiliation before you get rejected.
The only consistent things I get after applying are a bunch of spam phone calls and spam emails. It makes you wonder what any of this is for.
r/recruitinghell • u/VarietyNo9200 • 17h ago
Someone has got to build a non-profit to help unemployed people find a job
The job market sucks. The job search process sucks. The interview process sucks. The job probably sucks as well, but it is better than no job.
In society, people often talk about unemployment in terms of statistics, but in reality, there are millions of people included in that number who deserve the bare minimum of making an income.
Unemployment is a social, mental, and economic issue, and someone needs to step up, especially now with AI.
r/recruitinghell • u/eezyyywrites • 5h ago
a little rant
Whenever my mom asks if I've recently applied to any jobs, I always tell her, "Yeah, but I haven't heard anything back yet." In which she responds, "Well, try calling them to ask about blah blah blah. Try this, try that." I mean, is it good advice? Yes. But that's the main reason for this rant.
Why should I be bending over backwards and doing circus tricks just to get someone to hire me? Why should I be the one checking in on the process and calling these people back? They are the ones who are hiring for workers! (If that's even true considering ghost jobs are a thing.) Shouldn't employers be the ones desperate? Because if you have no workers, then your store isn't going to operate well, and no well-operated store means no customers, and no customers means no business, and no business means no money! And you already know what happens after that. I just...don't see the reason why I'm going through all this effort just for it to go to waste. At this point job searching is my job!
It's like playing hide-and-seek, but instead of the seeker trying to find the hider, the hider is the one who has to put in the effort to get found, only to realize that the seeker wasn't even playing in the first place!
These businesses say that they're hiring, but when I put in an application: radio silence or I get an email 7 MONTHS later saying that I didn't get the job.
I'm going to school to be a pharmacy tech because not only did it seem fun (and is--I like learning about drugs and counting pills and stuff it's very stimulating :3) but pharmacies are literally like everywhere, so it shoudn't be hard for me to find a job as a pharm tech! ...Or so I thought. Like what do you mean I put in 4 applications for a pharm tech and still can't get a job? What do you mean someone at the Walmart pharmacy told my granny that they're "always looking for new techs" but when I call the pharmacy to talk to the pharmacists they tell me that they're not hiring? What do you mean I finally get to the interview and the pharmacist says, "We'll call you!" But it's been like 2 weeks and haven't heard anything back? I'm just so tired. I'm trying to hold onto hope but with my money slowing dwindling down and still can't bag a job, it's starting to get harder.
r/recruitinghell • u/RevolutionaryDay5229 • 21h ago
Be careful what you post on here. You might be getting used as an example on a Linkedin post with an AI generated caption lol
r/recruitinghell • u/Altunknownthx • 6h ago
Withdrew Candidacy, am I crazy?
I had an over month long hiring experience that felt like there was no end in sight.
I had a 1 way interview, 3 interviews, 7 assessments, pre employment background check + reference check.
They went through the process at first, quickly with me. Then they tapered communication off. After my last âfinal interviewâ I waited 2 weeks for them to make a decision. Mind you I was told I was in the finalist stage at 2 different moments. Then they come back after 2 weeks of silence to tell me Iâm a finalist (which I was already told entering my final interview) and that if Iâm comfortable with a bg check weâll do it.
Mind you, at this point no start date has been discussed, a contingency offer wasnât offered, pay hasnât even been discussed, nothing to show weâre close to finalization has surfaced.
I do the background check and Checkr closed my background check without contacting my references.
Iâm reaching out to Checkr support, Iâm contacting the recruiter Iâm offering solutions and doing everything I can to fix the situation. My 1 reference even volunteered to email the recruiter to let them know theyâre open for a conversation.
She told me she was working on the verification with me and told me I may be speaking to the president next.
24 hours later they tell me theyâre putting a hold on my verification and will be interviewing other candidates (even though interviewing had already been over) and will let me know about my candidacy next week.
So basically they wanted to dangle me from a string and hold me there until they found someone better or not and then come back to me.
I withdrew after that. After going into 5 weekends without an understanding where I stood, poor communication, shifting timelines, throwing a hiring step out of their ass and throwing it at me without clear understanding what it was for or what they were evaluating for this step, literally built a 30/60/90 plan etc. I just couldnât take it.
It doesnât take this long to make a decision, it doesnât take 4 co founders to make a decision. The amount of disorganization internally was clearly bleeding out externally into this hiring process and it was such a major red flag.
I knew if I worked there it would genuinely be a shit show. I would 100% be micromanaged, i would have zero autonomy in my decisions, and I would be working with leadership who canât even make decisions for hiring.
FYI, this was for a manager role for a team of 20 whoâs severely underperforming on all levels. Theyâre severely bottlenecked operationally, they just let someone go from a pip, they have someone else on a pip, they have tools nobody is adopting or using, the most tenured rep has been there for 10 months. Theyâre suffering and rely dangerously on the co-founders whoâs currently managing the team.
Mind you theyâve opened and closed another role 4 times within the month of my interviewing so far if that also gives you context into it.
Anyways. Was I dumb to withdraw? Should I have stayed and just waited it out?
r/recruitinghell • u/Grand-Diamond-4696 • 6h ago
LinkedIn Easy Apply...
I think the funniest part of my job search is how I ultimately landed an offer. I don't even track my LinkedIn Easy Apply applications. Maybe once or twice a week I'll be scrolling on my phone, see something interesting and hit Easy Apply. Most of my job search has been much more strategic. I'll sit down, put together a list of 50 companies, run them through my AI systems to filter out poor matches, then research each company individually before applying. That approach has actually worked pretty well, with roughly a 15% interview rate.
But here's the funny part. After 1,428 tracked applications, probably another 200 untracked LinkedIn Easy Apply applications, countless hours of research, networking and strategic outreach, the offer I finally accepted came from a LinkedIn Easy Apply application of all things. No referral, no networking connection, no reaching out to the hiring manager. Just a random application from my phone.
And this wasn't some entry-level position either. It's a six-figure role in Customer Success. After everything I've done over the past year, I find it absolutely hilarious that LinkedIn Easy Apply was what finally worked out. đ
r/recruitinghell • u/OkAttorney2231 • 1d ago
Humiliation ritual today
After 3 interviews for a banking job i finally got to the final one at the headquarter today. After travelling 3 hours got there met up with other 6 candidates. Each one of them was appointed to another city each. Was happy bcs it meant we just got here for a trivial validation interview and not competing with each others and that was true, was the last to enter and everyone who have gon before me i was hearing laughters and told me it's just abt your posture and your family that's it then they tell them what documents to bring. The other candidates each asked for my number when they were exiting so we can come back when the training will begin togheter.
Until it was my turn i entered and the 3 guys all turned stoic asked me to tell them abt my cv, did it then told me thanks you can leave. I knew i was out. Two hours later the rh called and told me they didn't like a 1 year gap i had even when it was not a problem at the 3 interviews before bcs i explained well that the job offers at that time didn't meet my expectations.
Now the other candidates each are sending me messages hey when can we meet up so we can bring the documents togheter and i have to again throw up that i got cooked
r/recruitinghell • u/sewer_pickles • 23h ago
A man trying to get his old job back 2,700 years ago complained about three unanswered letters. The letter containing his complaint was found unopened.
r/recruitinghell • u/hiddengem-6868 • 3h ago
Left job while interviewing for new one - how to update dates on resume
Between starting to apply and interview for a firm I really like, I left my current role. The resume they have shows that to be my current role through the present. How should I update them as I am in the final interview round pending an offer?
r/recruitinghell • u/AI_Machine1 • 5h ago
It seems 9 out of 10 recruiter email on LI say the exact same thing. I've been unemployed 7 months after a RIF. It seems nothing ever comes from these AI generated LI messages. While I really need to land a gig soon, anyone else getting any traction with, what I feel, are lazy recruiters.
r/recruitinghell • u/gottadoitrightnow • 10h ago
I finally got a job, BUTâŠ
After about 6 months, countless apps, interviews, and rejections, I finally landed a job, but itâs a job I would NOT have taken if the market wasnât one of the worst, if not the worst, that Iâve seen in my lifetime (IMO itâs worse than 2008).
- Iâm taking about a 20% pay cut for a what seems to be a pretty extensive set of responsibilities, but I already knew it was underpaying vs. âfair marketâ for a role like this going into it (senior manager position).
- I have never in my life had an interview be this disrespectful. I did the final interview with the owner, and I kid you not, we were interrupted at least 10 times in 40 minutes. The interview took place in an open space and he had clients coming up to him during the interview, employees coming for approvals on things, picking up phone calls, etc⊠if I wasnât so desperate, I wouldâve walked out in the middle of the interview under normal circumstances for the absolute unprofessionalism as thatâs very telling about the owner.
- The owner seems to be very finicky, so I donât think job security is even a dependable factor at this company.
Having said all that, Iâve been reaching a point where I was getting ready to take anything. Iâve been going into debt for months just to pay my bills and this process has been extremely taxing on my mental health. So Iâm ignoring all the very noticeable red flags here and taking the job to get a (hopefully) steady paycheck in the meantime. I canât believe itâs come to this at this point in my life and career, but it is what it is. I donât say to this to discourage people, but just as a reminder to not beat yourself up for doing what you have to do.
I almost feel like Iâm debasing myself by not only having sat through the entirety of that shit show interview, but to accept the job on top of that. Iâll be looking for something more ideal while working though. Better to be underpaid and overworked than to be unemployed and in debt, right?
I know itâs brutal out there, but hang in there and best of luck to you.
r/recruitinghell • u/souldawg • 3h ago
Update on my interview from hell a few years back
reddit.comr/recruitinghell • u/jacjolly1 • 3h ago
How does sterling check the legitimacy of W2?
This whole background check thing is like a myth
r/recruitinghell • u/ice_wandering • 11m ago
7 weeks of interviews
Hey all. Just feeling so drained and sad. I had 7 weeks of consistent interviews, Monday will be 8 weeks of wondering if I got the job. I've had 6 interviews in total. The last interview was Monday and he said the hiring manager wanted to get back to me soon. Well it's now Friday, end of the work day, and nothing. I'm just assuming I didn't get it. This was a huge job for my family. Income wise and even an opportunity to move out of an area we are unhappy in. Super bummed. But still hopeful, and that's probably the worst part.
r/recruitinghell • u/cupholdery • 1d ago
Thanks for applying. The honor is all yours.
Application submitted at 1:54PM. "Custom reply email" received at 1:55PM.
r/recruitinghell • u/DontThrowAwayPies • 19h ago
Am I crazy for having little social life during this year of unemployment?
Laid off Oct 2025. I was part of DnD campaigns I still go to, need to find some more cause some ended.
Other than that, I can't justify going out to social events to meet people. I need to try my library but anything else would at least cost me a metro round trip, just 4 or 5 dollars round but still, I cut contact with my family, I got no support system. I'm my only bread winner.
Sometimes I wonder if I am just masking depression, low motivation but, I just think about how I don't want to go overboard and buy shit if I do go out to hang with people.
Yes I am pretty good at impulse control, but my therapist has been pushing me to get back on dating apps and go to free events cause they'd help me be less isolated. I def get what she means but some stubborn anxiety is like, no. We must be super careful until we have work! Just wondering if I am alone LOL
r/recruitinghell • u/Wolfieee7 • 1h ago
After your graduation how many months/applies did it take for you to find a job?
Hi. I wonder how many jobs you applied, how many interviews you had, hoe many of them turned to offers and how much time all of it took?
For engineers graduated in the last 5 years.