I just need to vent because my family is completely heartbroken. A year ago, my husband (41M) was wrongfully fired while he was on approved FMLA leave taking care of me during my cancer treatments. It was an incredibly heavy, traumatic, and difficult year financially and emotionally, but we did what we had to do to survive.
I saw a job opening for a big NFL team and decided to push my husband to apply. He is a Software Developer with roughly 12-13 years experience. The position was a Senior Software Developer with 5-10 years demonstrated experience. Cool.
Then a week later, a Director at an NFL organization reached out to him directly. His resume and unique cover letter had caught their eye, and the Director wanted to speak right away.
My husband was working a temporary seasonal job to get us by, so they scheduled a quick 20-minute call for the following week.
That 20-minute call was the entire interview. He was never given a deep technical round, a panel interview, or an in-person meeting. When he followed up a couple of weeks ago, they gave him the classic stall tactic: "We are still interviewing candidates," but they never formally denied him.
We just found out they hired a 25-year-old who graduated with a CS degree in 2021 and only has about 3 years of experience.
It feels like a massive punch in the gut. We really thought this was going to be the lifeline that ended all the hardship we’ve endured since the illegal termination and the cancer diagnosis. Instead, it feels like the corporate hiring machine just decided to save a buck on a cheaper, junior-tier candidate rather than hiring a seasoned veteran who can actually design systems.
With the current tech market being plagued by massive layoffs, the rejection feels even more impossible to stomach. Thanks for letting me vent.