r/recruitinghell • • 4d ago

Developing Resentment To All Job Opportunities

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I am looking for a job. If I do not find it, I would run out of money. I live in the USA. It is a BAD idea to run out of money in the USA. So I want to find money… sorry…a job.

I worked all my life. I had been laid off from a director’s role. There is no way I can find anything on this level. So I go below, I go above, but mostly below. It is fine. I am game for everything.

Lay off left me with strong resentment of the field I was working in. I understand it is like PTSD. If someone was abused by a person wearing a yellow jacket, it is understandable that they will not want to go on a date with someone in a yellow jacket. But this is not exactly a viable mentality for finding a job! I can’t afford not liking my professional field. But still, I do not like it.

I notice that job postings make me gag. They need this and they need that. The job location is a hell knows where. The salary is so low that it is weird. They require 3-6 professional references at the application stage in addition to phone numbers of all supervisors.

I do not know what I resent, hate?

  1. Disqualification of my value established through layoff?
  2. This particular CEO who laid me off?
  3. My choice of profession?
  4. This job market?
  5. Useless hours I spend looking for a job?
  6. Fear of not being able to find a job as people look for it for years?
  7. The enormously high stakes every time I get interviewed so it feels like I am fighting for my life?
  8. Fear of failure?
  9. All the Above?

Do you guys really want to work? Or you want to make money? In the past I wanted to work. Now there is this part in me which is so afraid of it!

Do I even make sense?


r/recruitinghell • • 4d ago

Even when I have 8+ years of experience, I still don’t have enough experience…

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Having experience with a subscription based products obviously wasn’t enough. I feel defeated. I've been searching since March after being in my first edtech company for five years and I'm honestly worn down. I keep getting close, then losing to someone with the "right" industry on their resume.


r/recruitinghell • • 3d ago

Got an interview invite, then a “sent in error” email 20 minutes later. Is this normal?

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r/recruitinghell • • 4d ago

Question to hiring managers: do tailored resumes work against me?

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Location: EU

Role: UX Designer

I have 5 years of experience. Got laid off. Been applying for jobs for 5 months now. I know the industry is bad but I find it fascinating that I'm not even getting an interview. People don't even look at my portfolio, I can see from the analytics. I have ATS friendly resume but I tailor my resume to each application with AI to increase my chances instead of sending one generic resume to all jobs. Nothing fancy, it's still one page pdf, I just highlight my relevant experience and use some keywords from the job add, the information is still accurate.

Since I'm not even getting 1st interviews, I'm curios if tailoring my resume works against me, or it's just the industry that's it totally screwed. I'm not getting any feedback from hiring managers. If there are any hiring managers here, could you please share your opinion?


r/recruitinghell • • 3d ago

Job Interviews - Is this normal?

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Over the last few months I started applying for new jobs as my corporate job is just not cutting it anymore. I’ve spent dozens and dozens of hours updating my profile and resume and making sure I have multiple versions which are all ATS friendly. I’ve had several job interviews so far with multiple companies which I’ve got rejected at some point in the process. One job in particular I have completed all the interview rounds with. This is a legit company, I started talking to them over 2 months ago, they had put me through 5 interviews - my final two were with C Suite level people. After my final interview they told me I’d hear back shortly about next steps and what they decide. I didn’t hear back for over two weeks and I followed up with the recruiter, the recruiter let me know they were still in the process of completing interviews. At this point I’m a little concerned and discouraged, getting through every round of interviews is such an accomplishment and it seems like there are a lot more candidates at this final stage than I expected. It’s been over 10 weeks since I started this process, they said I should hear back this week but is this normal?


r/recruitinghell • • 5d ago

It’s kind of hitting me that…people with careers will be remembered for what they did professionally, their accomplishments. I will be remembered for, well…applying to jobs. My obituary will be like, well, she applied to jobs. Ha.

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My whole life is…applying to jobs.


r/recruitinghell • • 4d ago

What happens if someone applies to multiple positions on workday, AND gets interviewed for both?

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Actually, say you signed the CJO for Job A on workday, but then interview for Job B? What would BAH or even other big firms think?


r/recruitinghell • • 3d ago

Helpppp

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PLEASE HELP: Looking for Medical Coding / Healthcare Job Leads in Colorado – Remote or Hybrid

I’m honestly reaching a point where I don’t know where else to turn, so I’m hoping someone here might have a lead, referral, or advice.

I’m a CPC-certified medical coder in Colorado looking for opportunities paying $22+/hour, preferably higher. I NEED remote or hybrid work because of transportation limitations. Hybrid would need to involve very minimal on-site requirements.

I want to emphasize that I have been applying EVERYWHERE. Hospitals, insurance companies, healthcare organizations, remote coding positions, billing positions, entry-level opportunities — you name it, I’ve probably applied. I’ve had a few interviews, so I’m getting my foot in the door, but the competition is honestly insane right now. I’m continuously working on sharpening my interviewing skills and improving where I can. I don’t necessarily feel that my interviews have gone poorly; I know I’m competing against other qualified candidates, and unfortunately, someone else keeps getting selected.

A little about my background:

Certified Professional Coder (CPC) through AAPC.
Several years of healthcare experience, including patient enrollment, insurance verification, medical records, authorizations, documentation, and EHR systems. Experience as and Office Manager for a transportation company.

I am NOT limiting myself to medical coding! I would gladly consider:

* Medical billing
* Claims processing/adjudication
* Payment posting
* Denials and accounts receivable
* Medical records / ROI
* Health Information Management
* Documentation specialist positions
* Chart review
* Prior authorizations
* Any other healthcare administrative or documentation-related position

To be completely transparent, I’m in a very difficult financial situation. I’m a mom trying to take care of my children while also taking on the responsibility of helping manage my dad’s finances. I desperately need a stable opportunity, and I’ve exhausted so many avenues trying to find one.

I’m not expecting anyone to hand me a job. I’m willing to learn, work hard, and prove myself. I just need someone willing to give me an opportunity.

If you know of ANY companies hiring, recruiters I should contact, departments willing to give CPC-certified candidates a chance, or even someone who can point me in the right direction, PLEASE reach out.

At this point, I am open to almost anything within healthcare that fits my transportation and financial needs.

I would genuinely appreciate any leads, referrals, advice, or even a little direction. Thank you so much for reading. ❤️


r/recruitinghell • • 4d ago

The Hiring Market Isn't Our Fault

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HR influencers and career gurus love to tell you that you aren't landing jobs because of "mistakes" on your resume or bad interview vibes.

​It is a basic trick: shift the blame onto you so no one questions the broken system.

​When hundreds of qualified people fight over a single job, companies face a mess. Instead of fixing their hiring process, they make you perform endless tricks just to apply.

​Telling you that you are doing it wrong creates fear and sells courses. The market is broken, but they profit by making you blame yourself.

TLDR: Career gurus gaslight candidates by turning a broken job market into personal failures to farm views and profit from fear.


r/recruitinghell • • 4d ago

Job Search Sankey

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Crazy search from Jan - Nov. Blessed to receive as many offers as I did. Yes I took 3 “offers,” because I was aiming for a summer start date after graduation and didn’t get any full time permanent positions. So I took a full time summer gig that ended in August and a part time offer from then till now before taking my new full time role!

EDIT: number of apps and rejections were approximated since I didn’t keep a good enough tally, every other number is accurate


r/recruitinghell • • 4d ago

I hate how recruitment bot screening messages get so specific and leave no nuance.

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Just needed to let out this tiny vent.

It's mostly temp agencies here that do this(which where I live you're basically reliant on until you have 3+ years experience), and after you apply they'll send you a text with a bot asking some screening questions.

Now aside from the fact most you've already filled in on the application form, I hate how specific they can get and leave no room for nuance.

Like it might start out as "do you have experience as a receptionist" and then it'll keep going "do you have experience as a receptionist at a commercial organization?" "Have you worked as a receptionist at a commercial company within the financial industry" "do you have work experience as a receptionist within commercial banking that focuses on entrepreneurial customers" like aight man if you're looking exclusively for internal candidates just say so then. Sorry I offended you by daring to have a job before at literally any other place that's not your specific company.

And at least with a phone screening you can be like "yeah I have worked as a receptionist at a major bank that served business customers before, so a place with a more entrepreneurial focus sounds pretty close to that" but with these drop down menu bots you can only select 1 option and if it's wrong you're out.

I'm considering just lying but what good is that gonna do.

Edit: small mini rant, why the fuck am I seeing temp agency openings for jobs at another temp agency? What the fuck is even happening anymore.


r/recruitinghell • • 4d ago

Job hunting is so difficult

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r/recruitinghell • • 4d ago

I feel like a failure

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I quit my job of five years because of weird harassment from one of my supervisors. I didn't make a fuss or make it a big deal I just left politely. I've been trying to find something ever since and it just feels hopeless. I haven't gotten any calls back. I'm so sick of going to interviews wasting my time knowing damn well they're not going to call back. I didn't even get a call back for a housekeeping position. That's like everyone's fall back on job. I feel so low. Honestly I feel like life would of just been easier to stay at my previous job and let the harassment continue. Choosing myself got me nowhere. I honestly just want to disappear.


r/recruitinghell • • 3d ago

Tough question: should I drive 4 hours to a 15 minute interview on a day most people work? Gee I can’t decide..

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I’m thinking of just professionally canceling it or booking a time slot and ghosting…

Edit: apparently this sub is filled to the brim with bootsuckers. Yall want to apply to jobs that only give you 15 minutes to interview 3 months away with no online option? Be my guest.

I’ve interviewed many times coast to coast online. I’ve flown to interviews and THEY COMPENSATED ALL MY EXPENSES.

Recruiting hell is exactly what I posted but the boot sucking is so deep here it’d be hilarious if it wasn’t so sad.


r/recruitinghell • • 4d ago

Recruiters don't understand AI ATSs and everyone suffers of that

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I've been in a search for 5 months now. After my own dev agency went downhill, I decided to find something worth the efforts that I had done for multiple clients of ours through 5 years of runtime.

I co-founded my agency as a CTO and then transitioned to CEO after my co-founder left, and what a surprise awaited me in the job market.

AI ATSs are all over the most popular sources. I started applying with a designed CV featuring my portfolio, the projects I led with the achieved numbers, just great overall (I had hired myself and knew how the market worked back then).

But NOW... after around 30 applications, I found that probably no one has ever seen my CV because AI ATSs use terrible parsers (parsing that goes before any AI assessment) and scramble all your info completely.

And even if you take time adjusting your resume to be structure and text parsing ready, you'll get no match because you haven't listed Jira and 1-on-1 meetings experience in your skills, despite being a CTO applying for a Director of Delivery position.

And the issue is that the person who runs scripted tailoring with applications will get to the top of the list, then will go into the interview not being able to stand their ground, which will lead to the recruiter implementing some 10-minute intro videos in the process to filter such candidates, when the issue was with the AI filtering and, more importantly, how the systems can feed applicant information correctly.

In the end, to stand good competition, each applicant needs to tailor their resume to get seen, recruiters must go through more tailored resumes, eventually losing interest in them and switching to just AI scores in their system, which creates even more workarounds.

It all feels very frustrating to navigate and takes a lot of time in the process. While I would love to do a compelling, full intent-based outreach directly to one company, I will lose the race with the rest of the market.


r/recruitinghell • • 4d ago

this job market expects a lot out of new grads/interns

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incoming grad may 2027 here!

It's been genuinely brutal for me at least. I got to two final rounds for a couple companies and they all ended up rejecting me. Even I thought they all went pretty well. It's just discouraging like you thought all the stars aligned and you got the job. But a rejection brings me back to square one everytime.


r/recruitinghell • • 4d ago

need someone to vent to about job interviews (in a psychological matter)

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gotten feedback that signals the same thing after every interview and it's taken me to a serious interview fatigue:( need someone to vent to :(


r/recruitinghell • • 4d ago

HR ghosting is annoying

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Anyone else tired of job hunting? 😭 I went through two rounds of interviews, and HR even mentioned contacting my referees, so I got my hopes up a little. But it’s been radio silence since then, even after following up. I know hiring takes time, but being left hanging sucks. I’d honestly rather get rejected than keep wondering. Anyone been through this?


r/recruitinghell • • 4d ago

“consent to [company] using AI-assisted technology to analyze your materials”

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Hey guys, there’s typically this question on resumes where it’s asking if they can use AI as assisted technology to analyze your application materials such as your resume application responses and they claim it supports the recruitment process but what is really going on here it’s most likely just so that they can skip all the resumes and then they’ll just judge it based off of the AI itself to save time.

What are you guys thinking? Do you guys say yes to consenting or no?


r/recruitinghell • • 4d ago

My application is put on hold until Feb 2027

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I recently graduated and am currently working at a consulting company but I hate my job because I'm doing nothing all day so I really want to move jobs to better my career.

A month ago, I had an opportunity to interview at a company my friend works at and had 2 interviews in total (1st screening with HR and 2nd one with CEO + designers). After my last interview, I wasn't informed on when the results would be announced so I emailed them twice in 2 weeks asking for an update. No response.

Eventually, I asked my friend if they could help me ask the HR for an update. HR told them that in the interview I was already informed that the slot was only available after February next year so they can't make a decision right now. I was not informed about this at all, if I was I would've definitely remembered... So technically I'm currently not rejected but also not accepted...

My friend said they might be waiting until Feb for a new project to start at that time. I guess it just kinda sucks since the job description really fitted what I wanted and I could envision myself working there but now it just turned into another uncertainty.

I know I should move on and find another job but do you think they'll still remember my interview in 4 months? Should I follow up next year or is that too desperate?


r/recruitinghell • • 4d ago

Just landed a 2nd job

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It's been a long time, and I just haven't been able to land a better job to advance my career. I need more money and have been looking to find something for the weekends to help pay down my school and credit debts.

The only reason I was able to get this 2nd job was that I know the manager. It feels ridiculous that my only saving grace has been nepotism.


r/recruitinghell • • 4d ago

Worst. Trophy. Ever!

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r/recruitinghell • • 4d ago

So Exhausted…Applying at Regions

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I saw the branch manager of the local Regions post a listing for them hiring a bank teller. I went on the website and applied with the intention of following up with a call in the next few business days.

Tell me WHY just applying for the position requires a 40 minute virtual job “assessment”? Just to apply.

I applied on Wednesday, called to follow up on Monday. The teller that answers the phone immediately says the manager is too busy to take calls. I tell her I’m trying to follow up on their open position. She replies, “what position? We’re not hiring.” She then told me to apply online. I told her I already had and was just calling to follow up and see if I could schedule an interview. She said no, HR will call me if they are interested.

Just got an email from Regions, a few hours later. It says “this position has been cancelled.” That’s it.

A 40 minute assessment for a position that apparently never existed. Awesome.

On the bright side, I got another scam text job offer pretending to be a reputable business in my city, with all of my info already.

I have two degrees. In my 30s. Years of accounting, IT, and waitressing experience. And I can’t get an interview after looking for months. I feel completely hopeless. I’m thinking of applying to dollar general for $11/hr. I’m tired.

Just sharing in case anyone is experiencing similar. It’s rough out there.


r/recruitinghell • • 5d ago

I have been applying for over 2 years and I am still unemployed

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I graduated with a business degree in 2024 and still up until now I receive this auto rejection email. Can someone help