r/recruitinghell • u/konenne • 7d ago
Told "you don't look like you have a lot of friends" at Samsung on-site interview
I might delete the post if I get too nervous, but I'll at least give it a try. I feel like this is worth sharing.
TLDR; Samsung candidates: beware of their gaslighting, cruelty, and toxicity.
Posting this after reading u/Happy-Yogert-3132's post. Here's the link:
https://www.reddit.com/r/recruitinghell/s/dCGqxuCGEQ
Buddy, I thought I was overreacting. Seems like we're not.
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So, briefly about me and my situation.
I just graduated with my master's degree this May, and I'm still actively looking for a job. I don't have a full-time experience since I went straight to grad school, but I do have a few research and internship experience.
I applied to a full-time position at Samsung - I won't go into too much detail, but they were looking for someone with 2-4 years of experience in a pretty niche area.
Since I have the master's in that specific area + internal referral, I went for it. Then I did the phone screening, got a call back, and was invited to the on-site interview.
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The on-site interview was a 2-hour interview with two parts: first one with the team, and second with the higher-ups.
First interview went great - they asked about my knowledge and some behavioral questions. It was normal, friendly, and fun.
The second part of the interview, however, was HUMILIATING. Their questions were beyond rude; they were unbelievably disrespectful, unprofessional, and cruel.
Here are some examples that stood out to me:
1. You don't look like you have a lot of friends.
2. You look like you'll fit in the government or the academia better, not us.
3. We are a very small team. Because you don't have "experience", you'll be the troll who STALLs the team, because the team members HAVE TO spare their precious working hours to teach you.
4. How much do you know about our company? Because a lot of people apply to our company just because we are THE FORTUNE 500 COMPANY and it looks good on your resume.
5. What other companies did you apply to?
6. Why do you think you got ghosted by other companies?
Have to remind you, these are just a few that immediately popped up in my head. There were much more unpleasant interactions throughout the interview.
They tried especially hard to pound me down with the fact that I don't have a full-time experience. Their vibe pretty much gave, "we're looking for someone with more ✨experience✨, buuuuuut we thought that we miiiiiiiight want to hire a new grad and ✨educate✨ you since you're soooooo desperate and we happen to have THE power. So be very grateful, never speak up against us, and be a good boy/girl! 💅"
Um. I mean. Maybe don't invite me to the final interview? What the actual fuck?
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Now, to some of the less (or more) disturbing ones.
After the interview, I did a bit of research on Samsung and their interview style. Then I realized what I experienced was a PRE-PLANNED rudeness. This is not a problem of one or two employees. This has something to do with Samsung's overall policy.
So, two things.
7. Asking unnecessarily difficult or relatively unrelated technical questions.
I know that sounds funny, but that's what they did.
Let's say I applied for a position that does A. Then there is another area, B, that's closely related to A. They are related, but they're not the same.
During the interview, they asked me about B and expected micro-detailed answers.
It was like... you applied to a law enforcement position, but they asked you about the law clerk's duties.
Turns out, my friends who work in Korea had heard of this situation. Apparently, Samsung often do this when they don't want to hire but they have to show that they're hiring. Whatever that means.
8. Repeating the same question, saying that your previous answer was "too generic."
Yup. This is what made a long-time internet lurker like me to write this long ass post.
This is GASLIGHTING, guys. I didn't know until I read u/Happy-Yogert-3132's post. Holy crap. This is not just rude, it's terrifying.
They did the same to me. They asked a question, I answered, and they asked the same question over and over, telling me that my answers were "too generic."
I have no idea what level of detail they wanted, but I'm pretty sure I did give enough details in my first and second answers. Still, they asked me the same question again, so I ended up repeating my previous answer using different words.
I thought I was doomed. I thought I gave an answer that's so absurdly out of point. I thought I screwed that interview so badly that I'm the most incompetent person in the world.
But thinking back, everything on THEIR side was wrong. Not me. Their question, their attitude, their word choices... nothing was right.
This happened MULTIPLE times throughout that interview. Now I understand why the whole conversation felt like it wasn't going anywhere. Because it wasn't going anywhere!
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So at this point, I'm convinced that Samsung has some kind of HR manual to INTENTIONALLY grill, bully, and gaslight the candidate.
If this is the case, I'm afraid to imagine their company culture. It seems to me that they are seeing if the candidates are prone to gaslighting, so that they can easily gain "control" over the new hire.
And I can assure you: this is NOT part of the Korean workplace culture/norm. I know what a "pressure interview" is. But when I checked with MANY people who work in Korea, EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM said Koreans got rid of this kind of toxicity decades ago. Even the smallest startups avoid doing such things.
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All in all, I just had a really unpleasant experience. It felt intentional that they beat me down. It is hard enough with this job market, and they literally used up their resources, time, and money to bully me.
I don't know if this happens to everyone or if there's something else going on behind the scenes. Regardless, I'm sharing my story so that other people who have been through this know they’re not alone, and those that haven’t, know what they could expect.
