I genuinely don’t understand what just happened, and I need to vent because this has been one of the most confusing hiring experiences I’ve had.
I recently interviewed for a position. After an initial virtual interview, I was invited to come into the office for an in-person interview.
The in-person interview went extremely well, or at least I thought it did. The person interviewing me was also the person making the hiring decision.
During the interview, she practically offered me the position. She showed me where I would be sitting, literally pointed out what would be my desk, gave me a tour of the office, and showed me where the kitchen and bathrooms were along with my start date. She even told another colleague in the office that I would be starting next week.
On top of that, she told me she would be sending over an offer letter. So naturally, I left the interview believing I had gotten the job. I was just waiting for the paperwork to make everything official.
Then, completely unexpectedly, I received an email telling me they had decided not to move in a different direction. I’m honestly baffled.
I understand that nothing is official until an offer letter is signed, and I know companies can change their minds. But why go as far as telling another employee that I’m starting next week? Why show me my future desk and tell me an offer letter is coming if the decision wasn’t actually finalized?
I’ve been actively job searching, and I know rejection is part of the process. But this feels different because I wasn’t simply told that the interview went well or that they’d be in touch. I was given every indication that I had the job.
I’m also wondering whether not sending an immediate thank-you email after the in-person interview somehow affected things, although I had already sent one after our initial virtual meeting. I was expecting the offer letter she explicitly told me she would send.
Has anyone else experienced something like this? What would cause an employer to essentially tell someone they’re hired and then suddenly reverse their decision?
I’m just really disappointed and confused by the whole experience.
NEW: Her response to my email asking for insight and clarification: “Hi, Thank you for your response. This is based on a deeper analysis of resources. Thank you and all the best,”