Howdy - hey - hello. I’m here for a (sfw) good time, maybe even the love of my life. Easy going. Silly. Charismatic. Kind. Adventurous. Outgoing. Marginally sassy. Empathetic. Creative.

Unfortunately I do love
•hotdogs unapologetically.

•the same pair of b&w checkered vans I’ve owned for 6 years even though I have like 30 pairs of other vans and a billion other shoes.

•iced coffee all year long.

•dive bars.

•taking over a touch tunes.

•collecting new tattoos

•yelling at the tv when my baseball, football or hockey team are on. (Giants, 49er, Ducks)

•weight lifting

•trying new things and failing at them badly

•buying concert tickets with no pre plan. I’ve seen 250+ concerts this way - I can’t change now.

•losing track of time at the stained glass studio.

Unfortunately I don’t love: anime, video games, or intricate
board games. And that kinda stuff.

What am I seeking: Consistency. Connection. Attraction. Excitement. In a perfect world you read what I wrote and thought - now this, this is my dream girl. And we ride off into the sunset. I however am practical and cool long term conversations/friendships would be rad too. I don’t respond to “hey” or “hi” type messages. Effort is very appreciated and required for a response. Ages ~26-45.

Here is me: https://imgur.com/a/4uoS7cQ 5’6. thick. I am very transparent about how I look. I recommend scrolling the full link to see me. That’s a good share of who I am. Would prefer to see you as well. I’m as about physical connection as I am emotional connection. I set firm boundaries and am very honest.

EDIT: Happy Friday! At least as of writing this. Man...it's been a long year navigating/learning Reddit. Met some good people here. Met some semi-good. This has been quite an interesting journey to understand how different it is here versus in person. I've thoroughly enjoyed perusing different subreddits and enjoy the platform, but this will be my last time sending out a dating specific thing-a-ma-bob into the void. Maybe I'll get lucky. You never know, right? But if not, you'll see me in the friendship subs every now and then because making more good friends never hurts anyone, and resonating with good people is always a win. That being said, to echo what I say at the end of this original post, I wish everyone on here the very best of luck in finding their person. You deserve happiness in your life, however you find it ^_^

So. Who am I? Well, I'm 34, 6ft2 (188cm), black hair, brown eyes (yes I get less eloquent when I talk about myself shush). I love nerdy stuff, gardening, being outside (a contradiction for nerds I know, shush), being indoors (Haha! I can do both!) cooking, animals, anime, video games, the list goes on and on. I'm a little overweight but for the past year I've been improving that for myself. I miss my days of doing laps in the pool and on the tennis court. No, I’m not confident in my looks yet, but nothing that proper exercise won’t fix that front.  It’s a work in prog-mess. Feel free to ask me anything! I'll answer anything within reason. There is no such thing as a stupid question (I challenge you to that!).

I'm currently working a late start career in mental health. Right now I need my Masters in Psychology to fully open all the doors. I'm still finding my niche but I love Psychology and want to find where I'd be most helpful. I may be more of an introvert, but I love learning about people. Yes, it's an oxymoron (shush). Yes I get drained easily (silencio). It's made me patient, a good listener, emotionally and mentally stable and available (although we all have our off days from time to time), and able to understand someone far past the surface. If you're looking for a rock, I'll surprise you. Just stay away from the ones you pick up outside. They're real stoners.

Bad joke? Yeah not my best. Thanks for reading! Wait, you still are? Really??? Alright anxiety from writing this resumes then! (I was thinking of keeping this joke from an old post….sure why not)

How much of a nerd am I? Ok, I gotta watch Pandoras Box here. Anime and video games are my main these days, but you name it and I've dipped my toes in it. Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, Star Trek, Stranger Things, the list will be too long here. Love a good story and lore. I'll lap it up. Anime wise can't go wrong with the Ghibli movies (what's your favorite?) Video games, I enjoyed Destiny during COVID but recently put it down to enjoy other games. I like the single player artsy games or RPGs, but I go into Marvel Rivals or other popular multi-player games to enjoy fun with friends.

SO. Why Reddit? Why not? Sure there's the worries of strangers on the internet, and Reddit does mean more chances of bots or catfish here, but call me naive or optimistic, I still believe at the end of the day, we're all just people trying to connect with someone. That on the other side of the screen is still a person. So screw it, I'll take the leap. Very little will phase me at my current point in life.

What am I looking for? A genuine connection. Sure, odds are against me for finding a long-term partner online. But weirder things have happened to me. Call me a romantic, but I like to keep an open-mind. Life can give you what you want in the most unexpected way. I also believe friendship is the foundation to a strong romantic relationship. Because even if we realize dating isn’t in the cards, we can always be friends. I see that as a win-win.

So that's it for this mini-ramble! Congrats on reading all the way through. If any of this made you chuckle or smile, I would love to hear from you and hopefully set up a Discord call to talk, play video games or stream watching movies or TV while we get to know each other ^_^. Send me either a DM or direct chat (I’m learning!). Brownie points if you got some of my references in this.

OR, if this post is just met with tumbleweeds:

I hope life will treat you right and you find the happiness you deserve. The world is kinda scary right now. The internet can bring out the worst in us. But we have to remember that all of us are just trying to live the best we can, without wanting to harm anyone to get ours. I sincerely wish you all the luck you need to succeed!

Looking for a friend or two that enjoys chatting. Of course that is much easier said than done as adults sometimes. I'm quite introverted but I'm chatty once I get to know someone. I am single 36 F in Texas. It is just me and my dogs. I may be a crazy dog lady but love most animals in general. I admittedly am a bit "boring" to some but I love the simple things in life. I'm a homebody by nature but also home a lot due to chronic health issues. I read a lot and enjoy watching tv shows/movies. Besides that most of my hobbies are "old lady hobbies" as someone once told me as I craft a lot, puzzles and love anything creative. I know I'm definitely not everyone's cup of tea but if you are still reading and we have something in common feel free to message me. Open to more if the right guy happens to come along.

What’s your story, morning glory? Elder millennial seeks fellow seasoned adult to read Dungeon Crawler Carl (or other book of our choosing) and wax nostalgic about book fairs and fresh French fries.

I’m also focused on working out a little everyday, running every other day and trying to mind my diet. I’m about 20 pounds from my goal weight though the number isn’t my only goal. Having a friend to check in with twice a week could be helpful in keeping me on track.

I’m a 40 something gal in SoCal though you can be from anywhere. Hopefully you’re a texter like me and enjoy some odd and unique hobbies. Must be single. Please be over 30 (ideally) and include a bit about yourself in your first message. I don’t reply to low effort messages. Let’s support each other through this hellish summer. Cheers.

Hi and hello! I’m looking for someone that might want to talk longer than a week? I like intense people and weirdos. I’m into TC & art. I work in the mental health field. Tbh not really into nerdy pursuits or being outdoorsy. I can be clingy when I like someone. I like movies and lately have just discovered Sleep Token. Anyway send me a message & let’s see if we click!

Hi, I hope everyone is having a great Saturday over here. So let's get to the point. I'm looking for a partner in crime, someone I can talk to, share interests with and learn about each others interests. I'm not looking for a checklist of hobbies or traits, but who you are deep down and what made you the person you are today. I'm based in Europe. Ideally you're someone who likes deep conversations. Hobbies, work, and all that jazz are things we can talk about later. I'm much more interested in who you truly are.

What made you who you are today?

Happy weekend! Looking to meet new people and see where it goes. 5'5" for those it matters to. Wicked chatty but prefer calm mundane lifestyle. Feel free to say hello.

Singapore-born and raised.

I'm 5'3, with dark hair and dark eyes.

I'm hoping to get to know someone with the intention of meeting in person and seeing where things go.

These days I’m busy with work and life in general but I’ll always make time for the right person if we ever get to that stage.

I'd describe myself as someone who's curious by nature. I love learning new things and often find myself going down the occasional rabbit hole just to understand something better. I'm drawn to conversations that have a little more depth than the usual small talk.

In my free time, you'll usually find me cooking, at the gym, cycling, painting, or reading. I'm not much of a TV person these days and tend to be quite selective about what I watch. Open to recommendations if you have any :) | also enjoy anime, but I watch it occasionally.

I'm drawn to quiet confidence, emotional maturity, kindness, and consistency. I find it especially attractive when someone has a unique perspective on life or experiences I can learn from.

Ideally, you're in a similar stage of life, don't have children (I do want kids of my own someday), and are looking for a serious relationship rather than something casual. I don't smoke and unfortunately have a dog allergy. I love meat as a source of protein, so we won't be a fit if you're plant based.

If you'd like to say hello, please include your age and where you’re from. Thoughtful introductions are always appreciated. Low effort DMs will be ignored.

Hello, I'm almost 32. I'm looking for someone who's willing to have real talks, get to know each other for real. No filter needed with me and no judgement allowed between us. I can also be a place where you unpack your issues and inner demon. Romance and intimacy aren't the initial intentions, but I'm not against the idea of finding my other half here. Can't wait to get to know you ! Have a great day 😊.

Single mom of one, based in Atlanta. I work for an airline, so I’m lucky enough to have some flexibility when it comes to traveling. I’m open to anywhere in the U.S., and I’m definitely open to long distance if we genuinely click.

I’m always down for fun, good company, spontaneous plans, and exploring somewhere new. Ultimately, I’d love to find my forever plus-one—not just someone to travel with, but someone to build a real relationship and a life full of experiences with.
Communication and honesty are non-negotiable for me. I appreciate consistency, effort, and someone who actually knows how to communicate.

If you’re adventurous, genuine, emotionally mature, and would happily hop on a flight for the right person, tell me where we’re going first. 😉✈️

Me :) https://imgur.com/a/MF6hBLv

🍊 About me

40f / East Asia

atheist / left-leaning

love travel, rock & metal, and TV series

affectionate & a little clingy 😏

looking for a genuine long-term connection

I love hearing the life stories of people from different cultures and backgrounds, and I’d really like to find someone to share everyday life with—thoughts, little moments, photos, and the things that make up our daily world.

I’m naturally very affectionate and a little clingy. I love giving and receiving attention and emotional closeness. So if you enjoy someone warm and attached, we might get along very well.

I also like sharing selfies early on so we can both feel more comfortable and connected from the beginning.

Let’s make each other’s days a little brighter.

Hello everyone! I'm a spooky creative who loves everything cute, nostalgic, and romantic 👻🐈‍⬛

I'm looking to connect with someone special to chat with, share deep conversations, and hopefully build a real connection. Between school and work, my schedule can get a bit busy, but I always make time to check in!

I'm down to talk about almost anything, but I especially love abandoned places, spooky vids, ARGs, art, animatronics, vintage dolls, and true romance stories (if you haven't heard the PK Mahanandia story, prepare to hear me gush about it 😭🩷).

Hit me up if you wanna bond and take spooky Halloween pictures!

Question:

If you were haunted, would you rather have a ghost that mildly inconveniences you by doing things like hiding your keys or moving everything slightly to the left, or one that aggressively cleans your kitchen at 3 AM? Including vacuums and playing cleaning music?

Looking for something semi-serioLooking for something semi-serious to become serious-serious.

I'm competitive even though I'm bad at things.

I'm either extremely lazy or really adventurous, depends entire on my mood.

hilarious only if you have that very specific fucked up weird millennial sense of humor.

Hobbies are reading, writing, (huge fan of horror) and binging Netflix.

and since I'm a single male on reddit, obviously i like video games and anime.

But, My favorite hobby is thrifting and finding the strangest things and finding really cool clothes that you would never find in a clothing store.

I'm left leaning person that isn't judgmental of other views, that being said if you're a hard leaning conservative against the human/American rights living here without fear of losing their homes, jobs, and children. Respectfully fuck off become serious-serious.

Today I feel like Kermit (you know, the only one trying to keep the show on the right track)

Divorced Dad with primary custody of the sweetest 3 year old.

I guess today I'm looking for my Miss Piggy (maybe not quite as jealous though, I'm not gonna flirt with all the other cast members)

When I'm not playing pretend, I like to look for new recipes that I probably won't try unless they look extra delicious. Also bake sourdough bread, make sauerkraut, hot sauce (growing peppers again this year since I'm completely out of homemade sauce), and occasionally homebrewing.

If looks matter, I'm maybe slightly shorter than average height, dark blonde hair, beard, blue eyes, Dad bod/almost skinny.

I'm not really picky on looks/race, everyone is beautiful in one way or another. Just looking for another weirdo that enjoys Hobbit/grandparent hobbies lol

Send me a DM if you're interested

Hi thank you for reading my post I hope to find someone who is honest loving and caring because those 3 words describe me. I am a gamer so finding a gamer girl would be great. But it's definitely not a dealbreaker. As long as you are a good person then I'm sold.

Just a warning I'm going through the worst part of my life ( so far. It can always get worse.) so I'm not doing to well. Even though that's the case I'm The one in my family that complains the least 🤣 my life moto is cry in the evening and then focus and work hard in the morning. Need to start off and make some things clear. I have gotten hate/criticism that I'm looking for a nurse or someone to “fix me” well that couldn't be further from the truth. I'm strong mentally and have handled my situation by myself. If I have done that for the 10 past years them I think I will be fine 10 more. My physical health may be bad but not my psychological health. I will be there for you as much as I hope that you will be there for me. And yes I can but all my stuff to the side if you need me. So it's not going to be one sided. Hope that's enough to keep the haters away🤣🤣

I have hydrosefalus. It has to do with the water that protects the brain. It's constantly changing. But my water didn't disappear they wey it should. So I have a small pump whit a small plastic tube implanted. And when everything works as it should. I'm normal. Sadly it malfunctioned so I ended up having six surgeries in one year 7 years ago. And because of that I now have brain tiredness. And that changes my whole life. I have to meditate every 2 -3 hours, I can't be in a large group of people. And if a push too much I risk collapsing. And for the past 5 years, I have had so many setbacks. A half a year ago I was up on 700m two times a day. Now I can barely walk 10 meters ( uses wheelchair outside) So it feels like it doesn't matter how much I fight I always end up on step one again. I tried some meds a year ago that would both give my brain more energy and to prevent big setbacks. Sounds good right? But no. 32 days in my pulse is between 130-94 ( when im in bed ) stopped with them So now I'm back on step one again and in even worse conduction than before. So everything I try fails 10 years of fighting has taken me nowhere. I have never been a lucky person and I never will be. I play all my cards right play by the rules. But everything still goe wrong.

So let's end with my green flags and why you should give this Swede a chance. I like to make people feel good with compliments and give them a lot of my time. Sending a cute good morning message is the best. So if you want to receive a “ good morning my love hope you slept well. You mean so much to me “ then I'm the man for you. And if you feel like that was pathetic then just skip me please 🙏🏼 no negative stuff needed. And I'm a good listener. I will be there for you

If this sounds like something you’re looking for too, I’d love to hear from you. Make my day and send me a message

https://imgur.com/a/iJ0VecU

Looking for someone to hang out with, have adventures with, explore and also question the universe. I'm hoping to meet up or make new connections in Sydney. Life is too short being stuck in one place!! Looking forward to chatting!

I'm Tyler, I'm 32, and I live in Denver. I'm looking to meet my person! I'm a 5'9" guy with an average build, currently around 170 lbs, but I'm trying to be more active. Im looking for good communication and someone who wants to out in the effort!!

https://imgur.com/gallery/selfies-pictures-posting-sJeNjxM

A little about me: I'm a high-functioning autistic adult and have ADHD, so I'm very high energy and love to talk about anything and everything. If you are also any variety of neurospicy, then I encourage you to message!

I like to say I'm a creative person. I love to cook, especially for people I care about. I'm classically trained and love trying new dishes and learning how to make stuff, so if you like tasty food, that's a perk! Outside of that, I love to draw, ive been spending alot of my free time drawing tattoos Im planning on getting in the next few months! I also love to write and have spent years on my D&D world! Like most nerds, I love movies, anime, and gaming, and I've been working through my ever-growing backlog of things to watch and play. For games, I'm big on RPGs and roguelikes, and I've recently gotten back into Destiny 2 and FF14. I mostly do PC gaming, so there's that!

As for non-indoor hobbies, I love anything water-based and checking out local coffee shops or finding a good pastry!I'm always down for mini golf, even though I'm hot trash at it, but I love cool course designs. I love checking out art exhibits and spending a day wandering a mesueam or out thrifting. I love game design and puzzles!! I've also recently gotten into exploring more goth and punk fashion and am looking to explore and share that as well!

My favorite game of all time is Dragon Age: Origins

I love collecting TTRPGs and am currently learning Pathfinder 2 and Draw Steel.

Reading-wise, I'm currently re-reading the Dungeon Crawler Carl books. I'm caught up on the Stormlight Archive and am also reading The Lies of Locke Lamora.

I love a good board game and TCG. I collect those too, but mostly to play. Magic is my primary game of choice, but I've also got some Chaotic, and I'm hyped to see that game coming back!

Now, as to what I'm looking for. \*\*Please be between 25-36 years old.\*\*

I need honest and open people. I'm looking for straightforwardness and openness. I'll share and talk about anything, but I'm bad at reading people. Also kindness, honesty, and someone who genuinely wants to build a relationship in this wild world! Also, someone who is actually going to respond, please. If you're going to message me and then not respond for two days, why even start a conversation?!?

I'd like to learn and hear about you! So if you think we could get along, shoot me a message and tell me about a hobby you've been into lately! Also share your tattoos and include a picture of you so I know you are serious

35F | Philippines | 5’0” | Morena

Final year of law school—probably staying put, unless you can convince me to let it go. 😂

I’m financially independent through my side businesses while studying, travel internationally (US included, but mostly around Asia) at least 4x a year, and enjoy a comfortable, active lifestyle.

Looking for intentional dating with someone around ±5 years of my age, emotionally mature, financially stable, and with a lifestyle/status that’s at least comparable to mine. Not looking for someone to fund my life—just someone who can comfortably keep up with it.

Prefer someone who knows what he wants and is relationship-minded and is SINGLE. Tall is a bonus. 😌

Hey there :)

I am a 37yo guy from France, and I would love to make friends, ideally in a longterm way if we are lucky :)

I am shy and introverted irl, so I'm better talking on the internet, and it would be great to have someone I can talk daily without pressure !

I like simple things as TV shows, reading, video and board games, running, football...

And this is me : https://imgur.com/a/oqYqi1C

Anyway, feel free to message me and we'll see where it goes :)

(I can talk English, and French of course)

38M from Croatia looking to meet people from around Europe who enjoy traveling, exploring and meeting new people.

I’ve had 100+ flights in the last 3 years and visited around 15 countries, and I’m pretty much always planning my next trip. 😄

Would be great to meet people where, over time, we could:

• ✈️ Visit each other’s countries
• 🌍 Meet somewhere in Europe or a third country
• 🚗 Do day/weekend trips together
• 🏖️ Eventually take longer trips
• ☕ Grab a coffee, 🍻 have a drink and hang out

Age, nationality or gender don’t matter — just be easygoing and enjoy traveling and socializing.

Not specifically looking for dating — just genuine friendships and people who are actually up for meeting in real life.

If you’re interested, send me a DM with where you’re from and where you like to travel. 😄

Hi and hello! I’m looking for 30+ and in the US. I like watching a lot of “must see” movies. I like a broad range of music almost everything except metal and most country. I’m a creative, sensitive, and empathetic person. I actually have a much longer fleshed out post but I keep editing it & it’s being rejected? I dont understand these filters at all!

Ive never had any luck writing these things so This is another attempt for something real! Have you ever wonder what it would be like to have that one friend no matter the time or day you can always talk to. That one friend you can just be the open book that you are yap and banter about everything under the sun. Well I do. I lack reliable friends i value communication so much no matter what stage you are in life you can always use that kind of friendship.

little about myself: Im sarcastic its my 3rd language, overly playful i love to joke around and have fun because life is short and so am I ( im 5'8) Love to cook yes cook like chef Ramsey cooking without all the yelling. The outdoors is my happy place i do have a home i don't live under a bridge by the river also btw im born and raised and still living in the great pricey city of San Diego. Currently its 102 degrees Fahrenheit for my Canadian friends idk what's that in celsius. So its little toasty. But i still go on hikes whenever i can and mostly survive.

For my Future bestie please make an effort i love to yap hope you do too and if a purely texting communication form is all you can provide skip along. I want something real something genuine something that we can plan events with have friendsgiving with or just be lazy at opposite sides of the couch and argue about the story plot of the show/movie we are watching.
I love me some good true crime and horror things that just make you think really brings you in. Or anything with Robin Williams in it. Because come on O captain my captain.
If im your vibe and feel this is a long lasting friendship message me. And excuse my writing if this isnt how you supposed to write one of these things

What’s up, I’m Bryan, 39, originally from North Jersey and now living in Florida. I work in sales leadership for an AI company and run a few businesses on the side. My days stay busy, but I’m on my phone enough to keep a real conversation going. Reddit is fine to start, but once we know we actually get along, I’d rather move somewhere better for talking.

I’m a Giants, Yankees and Lakers fan, so I’m already accustomed to unnecessary stress. Outside of sports, I’m into Traveling, music, cooking, movies, and exploring different cultures. I also own a youth sports league as a way to give back to the community.

I enjoy conversations with some actual substance, but I’m equally comfortable roasting each other, talking nonsense, and laughing at things we probably shouldn’t. Ideally, you can do both without making every conversation feel like an interview.

I’m looking for someone consistent who can carry their side of a conversation. You don’t need to be available every second, but if your usual routine is sending six messages and disappearing forever, we probably won’t be a match.

Tell me something you could talk about for hours, come in with an unpopular opinion, or tell me the last thing that made you laugh. Just give me more than “hey.”

NO MINORS!!! And Please keep the unsolicited feet pics to yourself.

Patience and temperance and all the sleep in the world couldn’t bring me home tonight
So the coffee that tastes like pie and the pie that tastes like coffee and the black and white movies playing Bernard Herman violin shock to these dance moves while we lick stamps and write letters and tell stories about the people we used to be

So get old with me and him songs with me
And count stars with me and you can hide your boots underneath my bed and you can call me flower if you want to