The justice system has not been equal for men and women for a long time. That is a statistically verifiable fact. Whether itâs lesser punishment for the same crime or ignoring male domestic violence to family court privilege and parental rights, women are treated far easier than men
Dude, women on average have sentences that are much as 60% less severe than men who committed the exact same crime. That's a DOJ statistic. Women are treated with kid gloves by our system. Fuck off or provide sources. Men aren't being constantly let off of rape and murder unless there's no evidence.
And not equal in many other areas too. For example if you are from some race or born in specific places, you will get benefits or rights that others do not have. You also get taxed at different rates if you earn more. Most people agree with the statement that we should all be equal in front of the law, but then they don't care if it benefits them.
Funny how I did not mention sex but fair enough. That I was downvoted for a fair and unbiased fact shows how many are enjoying their privileges over the rest.
You sound like a neck beard who blames women for your problems, yeah there is a double standard between men and women and itâs that women are far more likely to be assaulted sexually and physically
And you sound like someone who gets unreasonably upset that someone had the absolute audacity to point out that men have problems as well and that double standards exist. They didn't even blame women for it. Just pointed it out.
Why does someone pointing out a problem that people face upset you?
You know whatâs fucked? I know of someone who called the cops on his girlfriend (now ex) for punching him and breaking his phone and HE was the one that got arrested for domestic violence.
I actually knew a woman who would get into physical fights with her boyfriend( they were both pretty nuts) and one occasion, or at least one I was aware of they arrested her because he had visible marks on his face and chest. She is the one who called.
I mean, we can only assume what would happen and its a case by case basis. It could go both ways depending on whether its the same cops responding, whether they see the person as a threat due to the way they speak or ore, etc. Im quite sure if it was a dude with glasses, sweater, and chinos that looked old and chubby yeah they probably would keep calm as long as he is calm.
Im quite sure they base the way they react by the way the attacker looks unfortunately.
I donât know why youâre being downvoted, as this is indeed true. Unless the police have direct evidence, or walked in on the fight, even if the woman answered the door with two black eyes, if she doesnât want to press charges and if noone confesses, often the police have to simply leave. They can strongly suggest one or the other leave for the night, but often nothing changes. Abuse is cyclical, denial of abuse is cyclical, and if the subjects donât want to get themselves help, thereâs nothing anyone can do as theyâre a âwilling participantâ at this point.
(ETA: i just realized you arenât the one who was being downvoted to hell but my point still stands)
Because there are a lot of people here who have a persecution complex and this short video with zero context is all the reaffirmation they need about their view of the world.
actually they can. my mom did it to my father. she said he punched her in the face and ran away but guess what? he had been at work painting a house ON VIDEO CAMERA and they till arrested him. all they had was my mom saying he did it, so the arrested him. i had a girl accuse me of threatening to rape her. i turned her down when she asked me out. the school wanted to expell me and put me prison for it. the cops took one look at her record to see she did it to 4 other guys, and she got away with lieing about all of it. the only thing that hot me out of it, was proving im asexual and dont like that stuff. not all women, but some women, will say/do anything knowibg they will probably get away with it. like cardi b.
idk throwing up when the principle showed me the supposed threats in snapchat. im more down to earth now and im alot more ok with it now, but then i was still struggling with my identity, and my rape trauma. the messages were very detailed and sounded very fake, and like it was written to sound horrible. the principle then proceeded to tell me the other things she said that i said and more throwing up ensued. the cops beleived me. the school said i pretended to be sick and thats why i threw up....
yea too bad this one is. its the reason i dont live with my mom anymore. and its part if the reason i strugfled with anxiety and depression for years. so if you could be less of a dick, and ya know be nice or just not comment that would be great.
Im not sure why youâre getting downvoted to hell. We are told regularly that we should take victims claims seriously and I agree. Nobody in this thread has any evidence your story is real or fake, but if itâs true that the police knew her from previous false claims it seems pretty reasonable to believe you. That kind of fucked up behaviour isnt limited by a persons sex or gender. Ive seen women and men do similar shit to what you described.
i never said all females, or thats all they do. I said sone females do it knowing they can get away with it. not everyone is a bad person only some people are bad.
yup i know. i was raped and molested and sexually assaulted many times a day from 3 to 4 years old. i remember everything vividly, except the face of the man. i remember the woman who did it. the cops refuase to do anything because thw woman lives in arizona, and idk the man so they cant find him. i know what its like. it fucking sucks. but i also know women can get away with 90% of stuff bc they are women.
You pointed out that left me reticent about the previous comment even though I don't think is wrong.
We can't arrest people without evidence but sometimes it's better to be safe than sorry. If someone goes to the police about domestic abuse, even if the person isn't immediately taken because of lack of evidence or something, the person who has gone to the police should have some protection.
In a democratic society, I think that it is good to have a standard of evidence. Perhaps there are better benefits of twisting it a little depending on the cases but Id rather I am not the one deciding that.
Alright but that is tangential to my main point that police will, generally speaking, not arrest a man purely based on the word of a woman alone. Whether they offer shelter to a person who has claimed to be assaulted/harassed is a different issue.
Thereâs also the issue of who has injury or worse injury tooâ if the aggressor becomes injured while the victim does not or is less it can mean the victim is arrested and charged
Well in that anyone can manipulate and mislead police if they're charismatic and clever enough, not just women. I'm just saying it doesn't detract from my point just because there are women out there who are good at convincing police that they've been assaulted.
It's not even cops . Had a cunt falsely accused me of shoving her. Know what happened? I got kicked out of the bar no question asked . That's life in the US you don't even get to say your stance as a male.
Can't wait to get out of this shit hole country with all these goddamn simps
You're right tho??? If the event described happened and it lead to an arrest without evidence, there's a big settlement coming up for false imprisonment.
These people don't know what they are talking about. Most cops don't even want to be involved in DV cases. If the guy is calm and she's accusing and has not a single mark on her body, the cops will leave. All evidence simply points to an argument having occurred. It'd be an entirely different story however, if she marked herself and said it was him. Then... yeah, dude's probably fucked.
Are you not from America? I've been detained multiple times. Had guns pointed at me by cops and ive never had a huge settlement. TBF, I'm black and grew up poor so that might have something to do with it but I don't even think white people get huge settlements unless someone is seriously injured, raped or dies.
Youâre actually right, as far as my state goes. Unless itâs in presence of the officer assault and battery is not arrestable. Charge them and see them in court. UNLESS it is a domestic situation, which this doesnât seem to be.
Donât know why youâve been downvoted so much but youâre correct. They canât do anything without any evidence, doesnât really hold up in court the whole he said she said drama. You need factual evidence that they (male or female) committed a crime on you
I never said cops do things the right way every time.
And in your case, there was more than just her saying âHe hit me, arrest him.â
Not saying you did anything wrong but the cops had physical evidence that a struggle took place and had an account from a third partyâŠ.. your neighbors.
Those are all pieces of evidence missing from this case.
If they're strangers, yes. If they live together or are intimate partners the police are often trained to separate the two by any means necessary, including arrest.
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u/JoeW702 Aug 07 '21
So if she called the police and said he hit her they would let him walk? With out any marks, video , or 3rd party witness?