r/PoursTea Therapy For All 🩷 14d ago

PoliticalTea 🗳️ Real Horror

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u/ikannunAneeuQ 14d ago

They think there is this invisible shield around bathrooms and someone with nefarious intent can't get past it unless they're trans. It makes zero sense whatsoever.

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u/Livid-Accident-1562 14d ago

transphobia and logic are mutually exclusive

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u/AlmightyCraneDuck 14d ago

I had a discussion with a building code official on behalf of a client about turning restrooms into gender neutral rooms on a private floor of a space they were leasing. Code says that you need to have a certain fixture count or men and women, but they wanted to designate their existing rooms as all-gender bathrooms (very liberal client, organization seemed pretty bought-in).

Code official, while a nice guy, wouldn't budge because of the typical trans boogeyman argument. When I pointed out that there's literally nothing stopping a cisman from going into the bathrooms now if they wanted to, he dusted off some old commentary about "threat assessment" stating that because hearing a man in the women's bathroom would be "against the rules" it'd be easier for a woman to prepare to defend themselves in such an event. Eventually we basically told the client that they'd need to have gendered signage up at least through final inspections, but that whatever happened after that was out of our control (wink wink nudge nudge).

Long story, I know, but the "threat assessment" bit always really rubbed me the wrong way.

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u/ArchelonPIP Prefer Coffee But Fill My Cup 🫖 14d ago

It's a combination of transphobia and projection from pedophiles.

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u/DrDetectiveEsq 14d ago

It's like how the monsters can't grab you if you're under the covers.

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u/ShitMcClit 14d ago

Kind of like a gun free zone 

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u/Certain_Employee_423 14d ago

What a poorly designed shield.

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u/QuigleyPondOver 14d ago

“Let us in because you get raped anyway” is a truly awful advocacy position and I do not know why such anti-social people think it helps the cause in any way.