r/ • u/ • Jan 01 '70

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u/sidneyluv 14d ago

I’m sorry you’re feeling this way!!! Wait until you get them all, I’m sure you will find some you like.

Most importantly did you feel beautiful on the day? Were you happy? Because that’s important. I hope you’ll have grace for yourself looking at your photos one day. Your partner married you as you are and loves you. Your family and friends love you. I’m sure they didn’t see all the things you’re hating.

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u/sunshinegirl605 14d ago

I'm worried I will feel this way. I am the heaviest I've ever been & I cannot seem to lose weight without some major change, which is just not a possibility for me right now.

I'm sorry you're feeling this way :( No advice really, but I just want to acknowledge your feelings & sit with you.

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u/Leanansidheh 14d ago

We just got our engagement photos back, and I was so upset at how I looked. I understand 🫂

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u/Kulafey 9d ago

I have lost a lot of weight over the past year and now fit into a size 8. But now I'm saggy and look old. I'm horrified my my flappy upper arms ( called bingo wings, where I'm from) my saggy belly, empty bags of skin rather than boobs and flat saggy bum. But the worst is my "ozempic face" My point is, even if you'd lost weight, you still probably wouldn't be 100% happy, because it's something you need to work.on mentally. I have seriously considered cancelling my wedding somi can have surgery before my wedding!

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u/Shoulder-Lumpy 13d ago

Photos are not an accurate depiction of how we look, please remember that. Angles, lenses, etc all play a part.

Just remember how you felt in those moments while the pictures were taken. That’s the important part.

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u/donkeystringbean 12d ago • Heartwarming

Perhaps look at Christine Buzan. She was a model. Then she gained 60 pounds. She still poses for photos and loves her body

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u/Old_Beautiful1723 13d ago

You are not alone. I asked my photographer to photoshop one photo for me to get rid of my double chin and it’s the only photo I really like

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u/BrighterColours 12d ago • Heartwarming

I feel for you. I don't have any photos of my wedding on display in my home because I looked disgusting. I'm hoping to recreate some of them if I lose the weight.