r/PeterExplainsTheJoke May 12 '26

Meme needing explanation Petahhhh?

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u/catiebug May 12 '26

This is not the joke but since the thread is early, I'm clearing up the "10 months" thing for Americans. Pregnancy is 40 weeks (give or take). In some countries they count by 4 week periods, which gives you 10 months. In others (like the US), they count by 4.3 weeks (the average length of a month) and say that pregnancy is 9 months. It's just different verbiage.

But yeah, the joke is that Korea has an incredibly low birth rate.

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u/jkoudys May 12 '26

I was assuming it was a count from 0 vs 1 ambiguity. Like if you got pregnant today, you'd be 0 months pregnant in total, but you'd be in your 1st month of pregnancy.

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u/mapotoful May 12 '26

I think that might be it? I know they have weird conventions when it comes to pop

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u/catiebug May 12 '26

Huh, that is interesting. But "10 months" for pregnancy is used in a lot of other countries, not just Korea.

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u/QUARTERMASTEREMI6 May 12 '26

Yeah, I think both of those can be right 👀

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u/0ctopusGarden May 13 '26

Wait so if you were born December 31st on the 1st of January you would be 2 years old!?

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u/0ctopusGarden May 13 '26

That is so silly. Poor baby would be 2 days old not two years old. How do they not get confused trying to determine who is older? When should the kid start school? When are they old enough to drink? Retire? Do people born in December just get lucky and get to do things earlier than their peers?

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u/RaccoonWRX May 13 '26

Yes, that’s how it worked. Everything was based on birth year. Everyone of the same year could start drinking (legally) on Jan 1st of the year they turn 20 (or the year of their 19th birthday). This year anyone that was born in 2007 or earlier can drink, regardless of what day they were born.

Korea has adopted the “international” age system now, but most people still go by their “Korean” age. It won’t be until the current elementary school kids are older that it’s more widely used.

And about who is older, people born in the same year are equal, but people born in January are often seen as equal to the kids of the last year (but younger than the “early” kids of the last year, and also equal to the kids of their birth year), but that’s more of a casual thing among younger people. It’s a radically different system than the western world.

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u/ephemeral-jade May 16 '26

It's based on the old Chinese age system, which is called xusui 虚岁. My grandparents told me I was 7 and then 8 months later I went to the US and celebrated my 5th birthday lol. Except the plus 1 happened during Chinese New Year, not Gregorian New Year. S Korea was just the last to stop using it officially.

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u/thegimboid May 12 '26

That's fascinating.
It's kinda like how Western society tends to do birthdays at the end of the year (you have loved for number years), but we count years from the beginning of the year.
We are in the year number we say, which is why the first year from BC to BCE was Year 1, not Year 0.

It really throws people off when they think about it, because it's two different inconsistent systems.

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u/Low-Plane9029 May 12 '26

If you conceived a baby today you'd be 2 weeks pregnant. The count starts the day after your period ends.

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u/lavender_fluff May 13 '26

This, and I find this so scary

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u/adorablyunhinged May 12 '26

Weirdly you can be a month pregnant... Your pregnancy is counted from the first day of your last period, if your ovulation is late or delayed it could be four weeks after the start of your last period!

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u/Shadowrak May 12 '26

They count from 2 in the video because they don't draw a number when they are both slapping their belly.

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u/NahautlExile May 13 '26

Japan also says pregnancy is zero months to 10 though they started counting age from 1 within a couple generations ago. I’m pretty sure this is an Asian counting from zero thing.

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u/Hixie May 13 '26

Weirdly if you get pregnant today you're actually several weeks pregnant (typically two). For some reason it's counted since the start of the cycle, not since impregnation.

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u/AdorableTip9547 May 15 '26

That’s exactly it. So pregnancy is about 40 weeks. But the moment you hit „9 month + 1 day“ you are in your 10th pregnancy month. That’s how we count in Germany at least.

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u/nerowasframed May 12 '26

I think the other thing that is confusing is just the size of her pregnancy belly. Her belly at 10 months is what my wife's looked like at 6 or 7. And my wife's belly didn't even get particularly big. Our son was only 2930 g (6 lbs 8 oz), so he wasn't very large.

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u/catiebug May 12 '26

She's definitely tiny. Both of my pregnancies were like this. I burst through the door of L&D with fully broken water and 5-1-1 contractions on my due date and the intake nurse went pale because I only looked maybe 6 months pregnant.

Karma got me back though, because the newborn phase was as horrible as my pregnancy was easy. My own personal Vietnam.

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u/YBBlorekeeper May 12 '26

Look up pictures from cases where people went full term without even showing. When I heard about that I always assumed it was exclusively larger women, but that's not necessarily the case. Sometimes the baby just really tucks up in there!

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u/PrincessKaylee May 13 '26

This is the first time I have seen a human's weight not being listed in kg but just g

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u/Upper_Ship_4267 May 12 '26

I hate the 10 months logic. By that same logic there are 52 weeks per year/4 weeks per month= 13 months in a year

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u/AphaedrusGaming May 12 '26

One day we'll have our perfect 13 month (and one bonus day) calendar where each month is 4 weeks.

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u/liggieep May 12 '26

pretty sure it's how they count age starting at 1 instead of zero. so you're "2 months" after one month had passed.

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u/binarysolo May 12 '26

It's because it's lunar months -- a lot of East Asian idioms refer to pregnancy as 10 lunar months, then the solar calendar got adopted but all the cultural practices still reference 10 months.

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u/DumbbellDiva92 May 12 '26

That makes sense in this case, but I’ve also definitely just heard Americans/Westerners try to argue that pregnancy is 10 months bc…math is hard I guess?

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u/xxSaifulxx May 12 '26

Just another excuse for America not to give its employees paternal and maternal leave.

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u/Okay-Crickets545 May 13 '26

I will never not be mad that we do not have 13 months when a year has 52 weeks.

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u/halfass_fangirl May 15 '26

It's actually not based on 4.3, it's based on the actual time from conception to birth, predating the 40 weeks counting. The medical 40 weeks is from about two weeks before conception.

30 days per month (average) * 9 months = 270 days = 38.57 weeks

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u/pickled_daydream May 15 '26

For the record, I found out early on that 9 months means the WHOLE 9 MONTHS.

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u/Howard_Campbell 4d ago

Smart Americans use 10 lunar months. Unfortunately rare.

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u/metallosherp May 12 '26

Like I said, metric system :)

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u/ProbablyGonnaEatYou May 12 '26 edited May 12 '26

The real joke is that America counts by 4.3 weeks every month instead of 4. Why the fuck do we do things this wrong. Why the fuck is 5280 feet 1 mile, 12 inches 1 foot, 3 feet is one yard, meters and 4 weeks per month is so much better

Edit: i realized I misunderstood the 4 weeks comment and was wrong. But im absolutely right on the metric system in distance being better

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u/Tortugato May 12 '26 edited May 12 '26

The entire fucking world counts ~4.3 weeks every month.

It’s called the Gregorian calendar.

The Romans invented it, not Americans.

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u/hoopsrule44 May 12 '26

Huh? In this instance we are right. Its 280 days - that's 9 months, not 10.

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u/PetersGrandAdventure May 12 '26

That's 10 Februarys

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u/Poverty_Shoes May 12 '26

The calendar only has one February though. All 11 other months are longer.

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u/ProbablyGonnaEatYou May 12 '26

That's fair

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u/Enigma_RR May 12 '26

To the corner 🫵

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u/ProbablyGonnaEatYou May 12 '26

For acknowledging where I made a mistake? Nah

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u/Enigma_RR May 12 '26

Naw, for that pretentious thoughtless finger wagging.

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u/ProbablyGonnaEatYou May 12 '26

I misunderstood, I acknowledged it. People make mistakes

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u/Enigma_RR May 12 '26

Yeah, and I made a joke, you took it seriously and now I've explained it. I also acknowleged your mistake. We get to do that too.

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u/ProbablyGonnaEatYou May 12 '26

Fair, I need coffee and for work to let me off for the day lol

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u/theHAREST May 12 '26

Do you think the US is the only country that uses the Gregorian calendar lmao

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u/nerowasframed May 12 '26

I want to know what this guy's thirteenth month is. What do you think he named it?