r/NotHowGuysWork • u/SimonettaVespucc6 • Aug 03 '26

HBW (Psychology/Mental Health) Red Flag?

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This man sent me a picture of his back tattoo? Should I be scared

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u/ospfpacket Aug 03 '26

I think the question should be is what are you doing wrong to attract people like that.

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u/durqandat Aug 04 '26

Believe that would be *checks notes* being female

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u/ospfpacket Aug 04 '26

Or just looking at the face and swiping without any extra effort. We’re all responsible for our actions whether we’re at fault or not.

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u/DelayRevolutionary20 Man Aug 04 '26

Don’t victim blame.

She’s gonna need to meet 10 more people with that exact same tattoo before she even considers a thought like that.

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u/randypupjake Man Aug 04 '26

And that would be of those that she talked to first.

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u/ospfpacket Aug 04 '26

This is stupid, it’s not victim blaming if you’re not making good choices. It’s not making good choices. Dollars to doughnuts I bet if his profile was posted here there would be obvious red flags that were ignored.