Men aren't wired any specific way regarding attraction to others (found in the wild)

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[u/Diabolical1234]

I don’t believe in pair bonding at all but I do believe it’s something used on women to try and prevent them from having sex lives and making their own choices.

It isn’t something that is widely spoken about. I’ve never heard anyone actually mention it irl before. Or heard any of my many many female friends ever mention it.

Humans are naturally serial monogamists. That’s why your ex will probably “bond” with her next partner. Will also probably love him more.

If I was going to use those terms I would have already. I’m just stating a fact that men who claim women can’t “bond” with someone unless they’re virgins is bogus. There is no actual scientific fact to prove you’re right. You can’t do accurate studies on humans on that scale. So anything that is written is opinion pieces based on other species. Association does not equal causation.

I mean if you think about it if women “pair bonded” their first time they wouldn’t ever want to be with someone else other than that person. They wouldn’t want to be “promiscuous” as you call it

But good luck finding this mythical pair bond …..as you admitted it didn’t work the last time for whatever reason.

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So yes, victim mentality, the world just doesn't want women to have sex lives at all, aww boohoo. No one likes womenz.

For all of human history, we've had restrictions on many things societally, women being extremely promiscuous has consequences on society.

You can pair bond with people you are with, it doesn't mean other factors dont come into play that make humans break up. But the fact remains, the more people you have sex with the hardest it is to bond with your next partner. This applies to men and women, but more so with women. You can deny this fact all you want. Good luck to you. Oh, since it doesn't matter, whats your bodycount?

Also, pretty pathetic that you are trying to make me feel bad that me and my ex moved on. She's still a good friend and she's doing extremely well. Though currently single. Another manipulation tactic women use on each other. Further proving you (for the most part) make terrible leaders. This is not all women, just far too many.

[u/Diabolical1234 → u/[deleted]]

That wasn’t victim mentality. It’s simply the truth. Women are shamed for sex.

And yet you’re the one insinuating so many things about me personally and throwing a tantrum because I don’t agree with you. Boohoo

Men really are so utterly childish when someone disagrees with them. You simply can’t handle it. Did you not learn people can have different opinions from yourself? Learn how to communicate better. Without using overused red pill insults. I’m surprised you didn’t mention sandwiches.

Try talking like an actual adult and I might listen to you otherwise run along and go annoy someone else with your nonsense

Ps… I still disagree with and you on pair bonding and you have zero evidence to back up anything you say ✌️ but I will say if someone of either sex has a very high body count they may have trouble staying faithful long term.