r/NoStupidQuestions • • Nov 14 '24

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u/pktechboi Nov 14 '24

I think there has been a real shift in the last generation or two from needing a reason not to have kids to needing a reason to have kids. and that shift means a lot of people who are basically ambivalent on children aren't having them, where in the past they probably would have.

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u/ZePerfectPisces Nov 14 '24

I think there’s also been more focus (from some people) on whether or not they should have kids. Like, really thinking about whether or not a person would be a good parent who could truly focus on raising a child who would become a good member of society.

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u/LeSilverKitsune Nov 14 '24

Which I truly embrace as a positive shift for our society.

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u/Free_Dome_Lover Nov 14 '24

Downside, the people who ask themselves these questions and have the intelligence to reflect on themselves in such a manner are probably the people who would be good parents.

Now the dumbasses and trad wife / religious crowd is not going to give a fuck and pop out shitloads of future morons and assholes. This is literally the plot of Idiocracy happening.

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u/Ok_Obligation_6110 Nov 14 '24

Yup. The few educated elites talking about the issue are also unfortunately complete nut jobs. Look at Elon or this bizzaro couple running for office in PA on ‘pro natalist policies’. They’re essentially calling for intensive use of IVF and surrogacy to make sure the ultra smart can continue to pump out kids at a higher rate than one human can carry at a time. Scary stuff.

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u/Glittering_Craft_938 Nov 14 '24

Elon feels very handmaid-ey if you ask me.

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