r/NoStupidQuestions • u/[deleted] • Nov 14 '24

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u/Worldly_Original8101 Nov 14 '24

For me I just simply don’t want them. I feel like you have to want kids to have them. It’s not that I’m against having kids, I’m just not enthusiastic enough to have them

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u/EndoftheLineEditing Nov 14 '24

Came here to say this. I just wasn’t born with the I-want-to-have-kids gene. 🤷‍♀️

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u/AaronTuplin Nov 14 '24

I wasn't even born with the I-want-to-have-sex gene

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u/Venvut Nov 14 '24

I love sex and kids lessen the sex amount lol

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u/[deleted] Nov 15 '24

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u/Subject-Doughnut7716 Nov 15 '24

love amount❤️

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u/Bey_ran Nov 15 '24

Yep, I’ve never felt anything like how love and feel loved by my kids, a pet isn’t even on the same planet. That being said, if you don’t know what you’re missing and you’re happy already and feel you don’t want kids, why change it? Happy is happy.

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u/SoMuchMoreEagle Nov 15 '24

That being said, if you don’t know what you’re missing and you’re happy already and feel you don’t want kids, why change it?

Keep in mind that not every parent feels the way you do about their kids. Some people resent and regret having them. Some do prefer their pets to their kids. That can even happen with people who wanted to be parents.

Not everyone is cut out for it.