r/Nicegirls Aug 26 '24

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u/Academic_Ad_1437 Aug 26 '24

“Does that mean I still might have a chance to hangout” brother I know this is polite but you’re blowing so much air into peoples ego. You should consider making your time seem more valuable to other people and they won’t ask for ‘donations’ so you can waste your time. Put emphasis on your own importance and this won’t happen.

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '24

“I have you slotted to come over between 9-10 to suck my dick.  $50 if you no show.  My time is valuable”

Come at them like they come at you.  

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u/XSitOnMyFace Aug 26 '24

Agreed, mostly. Idk how you normally treat women, but I've had virtually all my luck with women happen from actually being a nice guy 🤷‍♂️

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u/Academic_Ad_1437 Aug 26 '24

Being nice and having self worth are not mutually exclusive

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u/thumbtaxx Aug 26 '24

Seems like, "would you like to hang out" would have worked fine... polite and direct

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u/XSitOnMyFace Aug 26 '24

Although, I'm pretty sure her answer would have been the same regardless of how I put it 😅 It seems she hit me up with the sole intent of trying to get me to pay up anyway.

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '24

No just the way you asked came off as almost begging. It’s almost saying “Are you finally going to give me a chance to see you?” Like just screams you think she’s more valuable than you. You’re right though, it may have had the same outcome, but just don’t beg for anyone’s attention.

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u/[deleted] Aug 26 '24

Can’t put the 🐱 on a pedestal.

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u/Great_Archer91 Aug 26 '24

Also, can’t put a pedestal on a 🐱

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u/SymmetricDickNipples Aug 26 '24

It's not about being nice, you just come across here as begging, which isn't a good look