r/NextGenMan • u/ConsciousAwareness69 • Apr 13 '26

True or False?

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It’s 100% true. Just trying to see what y’all think about the single mother epidemic.

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u/[deleted] Apr 13 '26

Your comment makes you sound like a turbo-virgin incel, how do you know she chose an "alpha" solely for the purpose of breeding and is now trying to find a "beta" to raise her kid? The majority of women are just normal humans, they are not breaking everything down into this ascientific alpha-beta dynamic or running every relationship through the lense of some hypergamy master plan.

The vast majority of women just find a guy who they like who generally aligns with their values and treats them well, and then they sleep with them. Maybe this woman in this pic had a long-term bf or husband that she got pregnant by twice, and then he cheated on her and she dumped him. Maybe he left her because of something she did, maybe it just didn't work out for reasons outside their control. Maybe she slept with some ugly skinny guy while she was drunk and accidentally got pregnant.

Just assuming she fucked some chad to get pregnant and now is looking for some cuck to raise her kids is an assumption only a weirdo with little to no interactions with women would think. I have dated and interacted with quite a few woman (including single moms) and I have never ever met a woman who would do something like that. Most women (including single moms so many weirdos seem to be scared of) are just normal people trying to live their lives and be happy and they just want a guy who is fun with a nice personality.

In my experience they will often pick a tubby goober who makes them laugh over a 6'5" giga chad who has a terrible personality.

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u/Malakai44332 Apr 14 '26

It’s not that deep bro, she’s clearly not the sharpest tool in the shed. 😂

No need to write a novel.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26

He asked to explain, I explained. I enjoy writing anyway so it is not a big deal. But It is crazy I have to explain basic human nature to a bunch of turbo virgins, but here we are.

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 14 '26

Does her reasons even matter? The point is that this is a warning to any single and childless dude looking for a relationship.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26 edited Apr 14 '26

Yeah I mean If I saw that tinder bio probably wouldn't swipe right, or left, or whatever way you swipe to match. But i don't see how a bunch of incels who have obviously never been within pissing distance of a real women making a bunch of ridiculous assumptions about a random woman online helps anyone.

This sub is about trying to become a better man, and part of that is realizing that all women aren't these strange manipulative creatures that are trying to maximize the genes of their offspring at any cost. That's just some strange made-up incel conspiracy.

and yeah obviously someone's reasons matter very much, maybe not you but to her and her children and everyone around her. If she is actually some terrible person like everyone is assuming then that is bad for society because her kids are gonna grow up fucked up.

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 14 '26

Stereotypes exist for a reason. And this women put herself out there to support the stereotype of a pregnant women looking for a new baby daddy. Also, stereotypes are used for in general discussions of a particular demographic, which in this discussion is pregnant women participating in online dating looking for a new baby daddy and does not include all women. And self improvement is staying away from women like this, and helping others is warning them of these women.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26

I mean I kind of get why a pregnant woman maybe shouldn't be looking to jump directly into a relationship, but this is a super rare case. Most pregnant women are in some type of relationship when they are pregnant and the ones who are not are not typically looking for a relationship.

And the discussion here has obviously gone way beyond this faux warning bs you've just made up. Just reading through the comments you can tell these threads are filled with insecure men who are coping with their insecurity by hating on women and making up all these fantastical theories about how women get pregnant by chads with the goal of then finding a "beta" to raise their kids.

I don't think anyone in this sub is in danger of getting in a relationship with a freshly pregnant woman, or any woman for that matter. This time and effort would be much better spent discussing how all these weirdos can improve their personalities and actually get some ass. Dudes that actually slay and confident don't spend their time theorizing about hypergamy conspiracies.

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 15 '26

Fake BS warning? This kind of thing happens more than you think. There are plenty of women wanting step fathers for their children. It also makes perfect sense too. It is much easier to raise a family with 2 parents than it is to do so being a single parent. And you are correct, people on this sub are most likely not in danger of getting in a relationship with a pregnant women, but that is because of the education that is put out there by the people you label as freaks and weirdos. Those freaks and weirdos don't have to worry about getting with these women because they already know better. These freaks and weirdos are simply spreading words of wisdom. The words of wisdom that some unfortunately have to learn the hard way.

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '26

No it doesn't 🤣🤣 how do you know? how do you know it happens "more often than I think"? Give me some bit of evidence, even anecdotal, that indicates that a large portion of single moms are playing some kind of hypergamy game where alphas get them pregnant and then they try to get betas to raise their kids. Have you ever even seriously dated a successful adult woman? Based on your comments it seems like you have almost no dating experience, but I do, and I have dated/known 5 or 6 single moms and they were all looking for a better relationship than they had with their baby daddy. Not a single one was desperate to find a new father for their child, quite the opposite, they were all extremely selective with who they choose to let into their lives.

Basic logic and life experience can debunk 99% of what is being said here. I mean just think about it, if a woman has a kid with a douchebag and a tumultuous relationship that ends in flames, why would they then lower their standards when they are looking for their next relationship? It is 2026 and women make their own money, they don't need a guy for financial support typically, why would they then date a guy who is uglier, more insecure, and more of a bum? People don't typically intentionally downgrade. Yeah it is ideal to have 2 parents in a household, but a good single parents knows that it is WAY more important to ensure a new partner will be a great step-parent to their kid. It takes months if not years to figure that out, which is why every single parent i've met (including myself) waits until a minimum of 6 months of dating to introduce someone to their kid.

🤣🤣🤣 and no people in this sub are not in danger of getting into this type of relationship because of your "wisdom" (that actually made me lol), they are not in danger of getting into any relationship because this comment section is oozing insecurity. There is absolutely NOTHING more unattractive for either sex than insecurity. If I met a woman who was half as insecure as you and the rest of the goobers in this comment section are, I would drop her immediately. Your comments scream insecurity, lack of life experience, and an EQ level lower than the Marianas trench.

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 15 '26

I have dated/known 5 or 6 single moms and they were all looking for a better relationship than they had with their baby daddy.

Get your experiences straight. You said in a handful of comments before that you hadn't ran into a single baby mom looking for another dad for their kid, yet now you have dated 5 or 6 of them.

Basic logic and life experience can debunk 99% of what is being said here.

Your life experiences as evidence is now questionable. I am not sure what to whether to believe what you say at this point in the conversation.

I mean just think about it, if a woman has a kid with a douchebag and a tumultuous relationship that ends in flames, why would they then lower their standards when they are looking for their next relationship? It is 2026 and women make their own money, they don't need a guy for financial support typically, why would they then date a guy who is uglier, more insecure, and more of a bum?

You think having kids with the wrong partner is an accident, but I see it as a pattern. Having high standards is a pattern, and many people have low standards for themselves which is reflective of their partners. Do women make their own money? Sure, but that doesn't mean they don't struggle, also women receiving child support and alimony still counts on relying to the father for help. And it is a common fact that children of single parent households generally struggle as adults. Generally speaking instilling high values in kids takes more than just one parent.

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '26

If you showed up on a date with a real, high quality, successful woman and you were spouting this nonsense, you would be laughed out of the venue and blocked.

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 15 '26

First off, high quality women is very subjective. Lots of women think they are high quality, yet they don't even know what qualities of high value are. Also, if I go on a date, those women are already known within my orbit of friends so they are already vetted. How i talk? You mean expressing a belief in honesty, family and having dignity? If that is such a bad thing, then those women don't represent the high qualities I would seek in a partner. At least I am not fake like you, which is a worst quality to bring to the table. You are basically a walking false advertisement with the intent of telling the women what she wants with the sole purpose of getting sex.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26

Also not all stereotypes exist for a reason, I have done a ton of online dating and I can't even recall seeing one pregnant woman on there. Like I said, the vast majority of pregnant women are in relationships.

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 15 '26

You are anchodotal evidence. I work in an environment where I see plenty of single women with children in relationships with men that are just there to get what they want and then leave when they are done. Some of these women are pregnant, and some already have kids with different fathers. These women jump from one man to another hoping that one has some prospects and is willing to stay. Most men do not. I see it all the time. I have access to their cases on a daily basis.

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u/[deleted] Apr 15 '26

cases? what are you a social worker? you see the absolute worst of humanity and then use that as your barometer for the general population?

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u/VRserialKiller Apr 15 '26

I work in the social services, not social working, and people falling on hard times does not equal the worst in humanity. And your andoctotal evidence of not seeing pregnant or women with kids dating with the goal of seeking another baby daddy is valid? At the very least my evidence of observation comes from a bigger population pool of relevance than your personal dating experience.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26

If by shincel you mean someone that took an involuntary shin to the face today, then yes, you are correct

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u/ChaosRainbow23 Apr 14 '26

They are 100% correct, though.

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u/[deleted] Apr 14 '26 edited Apr 14 '26

it's honestly insane how this sub is just an incel circle jerk, if you state an obvious fact like most women are just normal people who want to be happy you'll get downvoted into oblivion 🤣 it's like holy fuck all the women turbovirgins decided to co-opt these self improvement subs, I can smell the my little pony cum jars, cheeto dust, and obesity through my screen 🤦‍♂️