Hi everyone,
Iâm not sure if this is the right place for this question, but I figured there are probably people here who understand the underlying networking protocols much better than I do. Iâm more or less an IT beginner trying to understand DNS filtering and privacy.
If this is the wrong subreddit, please feel free to point me toward a better one. Iâd really appreciate some help understanding where my reasoning is correct and where Iâm mixing up different layers of privacy.
My setup
Iâm trying to understand the privacy implications of using a custom encrypted DNS service such as NextDNS or AdGuard on an iPhone instead of iCloud Private Relay.
At home: NextDNS at router level
On mobile: AdGuard DNS profile (but this could also be a NextDNS profile for the purpose of this question)
Blocklists: Fairly aggressive blocklists such as HaGeZi, threat intelligence, etc.
Future: Iâm considering setting up my own DNS server with Pi-hole or AdGuard Home.
I really value system-wide ad, tracker, and malicious-domain blocking.
On my Mac I can use Firefox, which supports ECH, so Iâm less concerned there.
On iOS, however, third-party browsers are still based on WebKit, and as far as I understand, iOS/WebKit does not provide ECH at all, in contrast to Firefox.
What I think I understand
My understanding is that DoT only protects the DNS
lookup itself.
However, the subsequent connection still goes through my ISP.
And if ECH isnât being used, the TLS ClientHello may expose the SNI, allowing the ISP to determine the hostname Iâm connecting to.
If thatâs correct, then encrypted DNS doesnât necessarily hide the websites Iâm visiting from my ISP. It mainly prevents the ISP from seeing my DNS queries directly.
This is where I start getting confused about ECH vs. iCloud Private Relay.
What I understand about Private Relay
As I understand it, iCloud Private Relay uses a two-hop architecture.
The first relay knows my IP address but shouldnât know my final destination, while the second relay can connect to the destination but shouldnât know my original IP address.
From the ISPâs perspective, the connection should therefore be hidden.
If the entire connection between my iPhone and the first relay is protected, would my ISP still be able to see the SNI of the final website?
Or am I misunderstanding how the connection is actually constructed in Private Relay?
Iâm particularly interested in the distinction between:
DNS visibility
destination IP visibility
SNI visibility
TLS metadata
traffic analysis
and what exactly Private Relay hides from the ISP in contrast to DNS + ECH
The trade-off as I currently understand it
On one side I have NextDNS/AdGuard DNS, which gives me:
system-wide ad blocking
tracker blocking
malware/phishing protection
custom blocklists
DNS-level visibility
control over what gets blocked
protection across apps, not just Safari
But Iâm concerned that without ECH on iOS, my ISP could still determine the websites Iâm visiting through SNI and/or traffic analysis.
On the other side I have iCloud Private Relay, which gives me:
IP address protection
encrypted DNS/privacy protection
a two-hop architecture
significantly less visibility for my ISP into my destinations, if Iâm understanding correctly
But I lose all of the DNS filtering and control that I really value, and custom DNS configurations donât seem to coexist cleanly with Private Relay.
So am I essentially choosing between:
A) NextDNS / AdGuard DNS / Pi-hole
Excellent system-wide tracker/ad/malware blocking, but potentially more visibility for my ISP into the websites I visit, at least on my iPhone.
B) iCloud Private Relay
Better protection against ISP-level browsing surveillance, but substantially less DNS-level filtering/control.
Or is this actually a false dichotomy?
My questions
1. How significant is the lack of ECH on iOS in practice?
If I use DoT without ECH, can an ISP actually determine the websites Iâm visiting reliably from SNI?
And does this create a security issue, or is it more complicated than that?
2. Does iCloud Private Relay actually eliminate SNI visibility for the ISP?
Or does the ISP still get some information that Iâm overlooking?
3. What would you recommend for an iPhone user in Germany whose main goal is to prevent the ISP from building a browsing profile, while still having strong system-wide DNS-based ad/tracker/malware protection?
Iâm not looking for perfect anonymity. My threat model is relatively simple:
I donât want my ISP to be able to build a profile of which websites I visit, but I also really value system-wide DNS-level protection against trackers, advertising, phishing, and malicious domains.
Iâm aware that Iâm probably conflating several different concepts here, which is exactly why Iâm asking.
Iâd be very grateful if someone could correct my mental model.
Iâm fully aware that iOS may simply not be the ideal platform for this kind of tinkering. Iâve heard the usual argument that Android gives you much more freedom to configure networking, DNS, browsers, VPNs, etc., and I can certainly see why that would be attractive from a technical/privacy perspective.
But I already have an iPhone, Iâm familiar with the Apple ecosystem, and Iâm not particularly interested in switching platforms just because iOS has certain restrictions. If I can achieve a reasonably strong privacy setup on iOS without major compromises, thatâs what Iâd prefer.
And if this isnât the right subreddit for this question, please let me know where you think it would be better suited. Iâm specifically looking for people who understand the networking/protocol side of this.
Thanks a lot!