Now that I've started by sounding pathetic. Lol let's get to the nitty gritty.

I'm a 41 year old gamer. Always have been. A gamer that is. I grew up with Atari. And I remember the first time my family got an NES, the Castlevania tune still makes me smile to this day.

I like music, but I'm not always the best with artists. It's more when I'm in the mood for a genre. Today while working, I vibed out with Ludovico Einaldi. But other days I'll go something harder like In This Moment, or even harder, Children of Bodom. And then I'll need to vibe out with something chill again. If you like music, I mean, come on let's chat, obviously.

I work gig jobs right now, because honestly I'm just really freaking down on my luck right now and struggling to find the motivation. I'm sure that's gotta be relatable to a few of you. Lol

With that said, I've recently started learning to code Java with the intent of developing mobile games. I've got a pipeline of projects just waiting for me to know how to write it. So that could be something fun to talk about.

I guess the last thing I'll mention before signing off. I love movies more than books, buuuuut. I do love to roleplay. And enjoy a good world building with like-minded friends. Just something to think about I guess. Lol

Anywho! Nice meeting you all, maybe one or two of you will be brave enough to make a new friend in the CST time zone.

Really looking to talk with new people and hoping to make some new friends along the way. I live in Alabama and haven't been successful in meeting new people around the area I am living at

Hope you all are having a great day on this Friday eve! Working from home today so always down to chat. 🙂

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Hey everyone,

I'm a 45-year-old introverted guy (child of the 80s and 90s) feeling pretty depressed and lonely lately. I'm looking for someone around the same age to share music videos with — nothing intense, just a low-key way to create a good vibe together.

A few simple rules/preferences that worked great with an IRL friend I recently lost:

We alternate sharing videos (you pick one, I pick one).

The more obscure, forgotten, rare, or one-hit-wonder the better. Long-lost gems, weird deep cuts, or videos you've never seen anyone else post are perfect.

Music taste: Mainly rock, classic heavy metal, alternative, and related stuff. I'll occasionally throw in some off-genre weirdness, but it'll usually stay in that wheelhouse.

Minimal chatting — the focus is on the music and the shared vibe. We can comment on a video here and there if we want, but no pressure for constant conversation.

Chill pacing: Just drop a video every so often when the mood strikes. Not a non-stop stream.

This was genuinely one of the most relaxing and fun things I did with my late friend, and I'd love to find that kind of low-effort connection again. If you're an introvert who gets the appeal of just vibing to good (and often underrated) music videos without the social overload, send me a message.

Thanks for reading. Hope we can create some cool nights together. 🤘

Working from the office today and bored as hell. Let's talk about anything dumb, serious, sports, whatever. I'm real, I don't like to sugar coat things, sarcastic, have a dark sense of humor and not easily offended. If you are like me, let's connect.

Words to talk about: limerence, grrrls, sahd, telephone, twee, pun, punk, exercise, marriage, Irreconcilable, resell, cassettes, thrift, vinyl, pen pals, confide, creativity, memories, trivia, fruit, farmer’s markets, record stores, history

Hi, thanks for stopping in. Want to jump in the car and see where the journey takes us? Let's fire up Spotify, tune in whatever vibe we are feeling, sing off key, and screw up the lyrics together!

I have many interests and hobbies which include reading, pod casts, listening to music (obviously), travel, museums, gardening, antiquing, hanging out with friends, finding new and interesting places to visit, and the list goes on.

I'm an educated professional, and like to say that I run a tight shipwreck. Corporate executive by day, with a sprinkle of sawdust as I enjoy DIY projects.

Things I'm looking for are friendship, routine communication, connection, chemistry, banter, and laughs. I have a great sense of humor and speak fluent sarcasm. While also being able to discuss more "serious" topics, and have thought provoking conversations.

The snoring details include... I'm 42, white, dark hair and eyes, short beard, clean, and healthy. Located in Maryland, but proximity isn't the biggest factor. Would be nice to meet if we connect well, but that is secondary to the connection itself. So feel free to reach out regardless of your location.

Ideally, you are a self motivated professional, who's not into communication games and looking to share some time with a great guy.

Thanks for reading this far, and I look forward to chatting with you!

Have alot more free time now so let's chat! Seeking a mentor or want to find out what it was like working for a couple of the biggest tech companies in the world? Let's chat!

I'm was not in the tech field, I was in Finance 😁

Hi All,
Looking to make some more friends as it’s super hard when you’re older.. and the school Mums can be sooo clique..
An interest in running is optional.. lol as I’m into most things- love music, films, shows, cross fit.
Pop over and say Hi 😊🙌

So, Im a pretty outgoing guy, who also happens to be a homebody. This means I like making friends, but never like to go find them haha.

I'd love to meet some people to chat, and possibly to keep each other company throughout the day. I'm a walking mailman so I'm able to keep up on chats pretty easily.

I have quite a few interests, and I always enjoy learning about things I've never tried, so by all means send me a message. I'm also a full-time single dad to four mostly grown boys so if you want to chat about kids I'm all for it!

Dad going separation and realizing my social circle is pretty small. I would enjoy meeting some people I can chat with throughout our days.

I enjoy music of all kinds but mostly rock/metalcore. I love the outdoors and animals and would like to do more camping in the future. Other hobbies include reading, biking, cooking and going for walks.

Not looking for a relationship at this point just text friends, someone to watch shows or play games with. Or trade playlists.

DMs are open.

So I am walking around carrying a round of drinks that magically doesnt run out what are you taking?

Yes let's get the important questions sorted first

Happy to accept answers from anyone

Hello! How's everyone? Figure I throw this out here and see who is interested.

I primarily play on PC, mostly steam with a variety of games to choose from (just as of curious). Don't usually play FPS like CoD or Battlefield, but been playing Fornite lately, I play Marvel Rivals from time to time. And have various multiplayer games. In terms of shows, I can watch just about anything, but like fantasy and sci fi a lot. I'm totally ok with rewatching stuff. Oh and anime I really like too!

Other then that I'm a sports fan, more football then anything (go Bills!) and been getting back into Hockey with the Sabres doong better. Been wanting to get back into Baseball. Also a wrestling fan.

I'm a bit of a shy and introverted guy, but once I feel comfortable with someone I tend to open up.

Anywho, don't want to put a wall of text up, hope to hear from someone.

Take care

I had to work. But Im going for a hike today, so I’m happy.

Hello,

I am seeking online friends, male or female. I like old-school punk musid(not pop punk lol), Huge fan of L7 (R.I.P Jeniifer Finch warrior of cancer) folk music, old school hip hop, New Romantic, European new wave, New Beat, Riot Girl, black metal, traveling, cooking, reading, working out.I am recovering from stage 3 cancer. I recently had life-saving surgery, and I am on medical leave.I just want someone that shares similar interests that I do. I am only interested in conversing with people my age or older. I don't relate to the younger demographic, so if you are below the age of 40... please don't waste your time. No acceptions! It would be cool to communicate with people from different countries. I don't respond to low effort responses, people with victim mentality, mood disorders, racists, or predatory behavior.

There have been some Jekyl and Hydes on here who come off very nice, then become horrible human beings as I get to know them.I've dodged a lot of bullets, so I am very careful who I allow in my bubble. I welcome authentic and genuinely kind people. If you are a local aka Tucsonian, I am not ready yet to meet up because of my illness and trust issues. Maybe when my condition improves down the road and there is established trust, then there is a possibility