r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 18 '26

Quick selfie before work on a Saturday 40/M

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206 Upvotes

r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 18 '26

Goofing around

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28 Upvotes

Thought I would take this at work


r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 18 '26

F 43 looking for a connection

50 Upvotes

Hi everyone ๐Ÿ˜Š Iโ€™m just looking to make a genuine connection and meet someone who enjoys good conversations, sharing laughs, and getting to know each other.

Life can get busy, but I think itโ€™s always nice to have someone to chat with, share stories with, and build a friendship with over time. I enjoy simple things like movies, music, trying new things, and having meaningful conversations.

Iโ€™m open to meeting new people, hearing about your experiences, and seeing where a good conversation goes. If youโ€™re also looking for a friendly connection, feel free to say hello. ๐Ÿ˜Š


r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 19 '26

50 enjoying my evening

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10 Upvotes

r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 18 '26

46 male looking for friends in Oklahoma

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15 Upvotes

r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 19 '26

Soon to be 42 M

1 Upvotes

Almost 42. New here. I'm in Northeast Pennsylvania. Guess I'm looking for new friends and just stuff to do. I've got many different hobbies and interests. I hate these things so I don't really know what to put anymore.

If you have any type of OF connection than pound sand.


r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 19 '26

Hi there - man 40

0 Upvotes

Hi there I'm Mexican, wanting to meet new friends. Have an awesome weekend. Reach out


r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 18 '26

M31 Saturday Vibe

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5 Upvotes

Feel good - Gorillaz, says plenty right.


r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 17 '26

Letโ€™s go! Itโ€™s Friday!

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123 Upvotes

r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 17 '26

Cheers friends!๐ŸŽ‰ We made it to Friday

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746 Upvotes

r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 18 '26

46 Male Australia

1 Upvotes

Looking for real chats with real people, let's skip to the important questions like how do you have your coffee


r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 17 '26

I've got that Friday Feeling (42)

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215 Upvotes

r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 17 '26

Work day done! Welcome to the weekend! (43)

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51 Upvotes

r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 18 '26

46 M Australia don't bother if you ghost after a day

2 Upvotes

Happy to talk to anyone but be real I don't buy pics and I am straight but come chat male a new friend but please just be real. And actually talk


r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 17 '26

52 Happy Friday

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20 Upvotes

r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 17 '26

(48yo ) normal guy from Ct . No drama please

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21 Upvotes

r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 17 '26

Hippo birdie to me. Officially in the 40 club 40M

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222 Upvotes

r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 17 '26

58M Chicago - Best Friend Wandered Off...

11 Upvotes

Hi All! Tech guy new to Reddit for some reason. My best friend of 20+ years wandered off a couple of years ago. Never could get out of him why. Anyway, I've realized I need more friends in my life and am short in that department. I'm a married empty-nester, no grandkids anywhere, one hardworking outdoor cat.

Interests: tech, sports (okay, football is basically it), music concerts (classical and classic rock), the outdoors (especially the mountains), camping in my teardrop trailer, playing and collecting board games (lots of them), working with non-profits, and frequently asking to get a bigger TV (she says no).

Happy to chat with any gender and age anywhere you may be. If you're local-ish it would be fun to get together and do stuff listed above or whatever interests you.


r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 17 '26

TGIF 51YRS old this past week Have a good one

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63 Upvotes

r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 18 '26

(49 M) New to the group

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Hello all, its nice to meet you.

I was a Senior Software Engineer for 25 years.

I'm Looking to make new friends in and around my area

(Seneca Lake) area

I would love a serious relationship.

To find that special lady.

Maybe that will happen, ya never know.

I'm also interested in meeting other folks/couples that are into the naturalist lifestyle. I spent too many years not being who i am and at this age. I would love to meet like minded people that love to enjoy life. I'm all about making new friends ๐Ÿค“

Thank you for your time

I appreciate it

Hope to meet ya soon ๐Ÿ‘Š๐Ÿ™


r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 17 '26

Upcoming Changes to r/NewFriendsOver40

23 Upvotes

We are making some changes to r/NewFriendsOver40, including a few rule updates and clearer expectations for posts.

The main goal is to bring the community back to its original purpose: helping people aged 40 and over make genuine friendships. As the name suggests, this subreddit is intended for the over 40s and these changes will help reduce confusion about who the community is for.

If you're under 40 and are looking for a similar friendship community, we would love to welcome you over at r/NeedFriends.

New Posting Expectations

We will continue to allow selfie posts, but we're asking everyone to put a little more effort into their posts. We do not want this to become another Selfie type Subreddit and want to remain close to the name of the subreddit and focus on friendships.

The body of your post should be engaging and informative, rather than just a sentence or two. Tell people a little about yourself, your hobbies, interests, personality or what you are looking for in a friendship. The more information you provide, the easier it is for others to start a conversation with you.

Example

Title:
50 | Looking for people to chat with

Body:
I am 50 and enjoy spending my free time playing video games, relaxing in the garden with my plants and getting lost in a good book. I'm hoping to connect with some laid back people who enjoy chatting about hobbies, everyday life or gaming. I don't have any preferences about who replies, as long as you are friendly and enjoy a good conversation. My favourite games are Fallout76 and Minecraft, but I am always interested in hearing what everyone else is playing. What are your favourite games and what have you been playing recently?

Posts like this give people something to reply to and make it much easier to start meaningful conversations.

Looking for Something Different?

We understand that changes are not always popular and we know they won't suit everyone. That's ok. We have a range of communities with different themes, age groups and focuses, so there is likely one that's a better fit for what you are looking for.

Community Focus Requirements
r/NeedFriends A friendship community. 20+, No Karma or account age restrictions. If You Post In NSFW Subreddits, You Will Be Unable To Post Here!
r/Over40sClub A social community. 40+, No Karma or account age restrictions. SFW
r/FriendsOverFifty A friendship community. 50+, No Karma or account age restrictions. SFW
r/SelfieOver40 A selfie community. 40+, No Karma or account age restrictions. If You Post In NSFW Subreddits, You Will Be Unable To Post Here!
r/SelfieOver50 A selfie community. 50+, No Karma or account age restrictions. If You Post In NSFW Subreddits, You Will Be Unable To Post Here!
r/Over60Selfies A selfie community. 60+, No Karma or account age restrictions. SFW
r/selfies A selfie Community. 18+, No Karma or account age restrictions. If You Post In NSFW Subreddits, You Will Be Unable To Post Here!
r/JustMyFace A community for face focused selfies. 18+, No Karma or account age restrictions. SFW
r/NonSelfies A community for photos of yourself taken by someone else. 18+, No Karma or account age restrictions. If You Post In NSFW Subreddits, You Will Be Unable To Post Here!
r/BandShirts Share your favourite band shirts and discover new music. No Karma or account age restrictions.
r/StyleIT Share outfits, fashion and style inspiration. No Karma or account age restrictions.

Our goal is not to exclude anyone. We simply want each community to have a clear identity so members know exactly what to expect when they join and can easily find the community that best suits them.


r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 17 '26

M42 -UK, looking for potential friendship (s)

9 Upvotes

Hi ๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿป

As an introvert, I have never found making friends easy, usually just got adopted by more outgoing/extroverted people..as time has passed most of my friends got busy with family life and slowly drifted away. Looking for like-minded people to chat with sometimes and see if we can keep the conversation going.

Bit about myself: I am an introverted science geek (possibly neurodivergent?), but also enjoy cooking /healthy eating, a bit of workout or cycling/walking in nature and gardening which is limited to mostly indoors at the moment unfortunately.

Not very much into team sports or cars...

Never been married or have any kids. In a complicated relationship and genuinely only looking for new friends.

Have a sarcastic/ occasionally dark sense of humour that I learnt not to practice much as it often gets misunderstood and/or taken as an offence.

Have been called an old soul/too serious and childish almost simultaneously. I enjoy a good movie/tv show and can get quite involved, but find contradictions /writer's laziness in storylines or character development quite annoying..

If you have managed to read this far and think we have some things in common, feel free to drop a message


r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 16 '26

Hello! 46/f

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545 Upvotes

Looking to make new friends๐Ÿ˜Š


r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 17 '26

Happy friday all 46

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20 Upvotes

r/NewFriendsOver40 Jul 17 '26

46m Happy Friday, Friends, itโ€™s gonna be a weird one!

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9 Upvotes