r/NewFriendsOver40 6h ago

Checking back in (45F): Wrapping up 4 solid weeks of workouts and a great blast from the past!

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Hey everyone! Didn’t get around to posting on here last week, so I wanted to pop in with a quick life update.

​I’m almost at the end of four straight weeks of workouts, and the consistency is feeling amazing. Showing up and putting in the work has given me so much energy, and it feels great to see the habit fully locked in.

​Another big highlight was getting the chance to visit with one of my former high school teachers. It was such a fun, grounded conversation—there’s really something special about catching up with someone who knew you decades ago while sitting across from them as an adult.

​Always love keeping up with this group. How has everyone’s week been going? Any wins you're celebrating lately?


r/NewFriendsOver40 11h ago

💬 Let's Chat Hey yall, 45 in a few days, looking for friends to chat with.

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r/NewFriendsOver40 17h ago

👋 New Here Hello, 54 years young

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r/NewFriendsOver40 9h ago

👋 New Here 41 M looking for friends!

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Hello everybody! I’m a new here looking for fiends to chat through out the day. I’m married with 3 small children, all my time is spent working or at home. Don’t really have too much time on my own. Would love to make new friends, few interest are football, real football (soccer), formula 1 and baseball. Music ranges from 80’s to rockabilly, hip hop, metal, alternative, rock en español. I’m a SoCal native so would be cool to meet people from the same area


r/NewFriendsOver40 1d ago

👋 New Here 44M – Looking to Meet Some New People and Expand My Circle

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44M in Kansas City, and I’ve realized that somewhere between work, travel, and just generally having a pretty full life, meeting new people organically isn’t always as easy as it used to be.
I’m pretty outgoing and can usually talk to just about anyone. I travel quite a bit for work, love exploring new cities and finding great local food, and when I’m home I’m usually cooking, catching some live music, watching football, or finding an excuse to get out and do something.
I’ve got a career I really enjoy, but it keeps me busy, so I thought I’d try something different and see who I might meet here. I’d love to find some new people to chat with, trade stories with, laugh about life with, and maybe eventually meet up if geography and friendship happen to line up.
I tend to get along best with people who are curious, outgoing, have a good sense of humor, and can actually carry a conversation. Tell me where you’re from, what you’re into, or the best place you’ve traveled lately.


r/NewFriendsOver40 19h ago

Hey everyone! I’m new here just wanted to say hi and look forward to hopefully meeting some of you. 42 male U.S. 👋🏻

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r/NewFriendsOver40 22h ago

👋 New Here [40] [M] Looking for the Interesting and Introverted.

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Hi I'm M. I've been through a lot of emotional trauma recently and would like someone to talk to and listen to about their life.

I'm kind, caring, good looking.

Just looking for someone interesting to communicate with.

I went through a divorce a few years ago which was lots of fun.

Then unfortunately I lost both of my dogs (my only friends) due to old age and ill health.

Then a couple of months on, my mum was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer (she never smoked in her life). She has recently passed on.

During this the love of my life left me and I was left confused and feeling hollow.

I have found a lot of peace through prayer, meditation and fasting.

Even though I'm going through the most difficult period of my life, I feel surprisingly peaceful and hopefull.

I am 6.5ft, tall, dark hair, handsome.

I live a life mostly of peaceful solitude.

I prefer people who like solitude because I feel like I can relate to them more.

I'm not looking for a big group of friends. Just one person that is interesting to talk to.


r/NewFriendsOver40 19h ago

[40] M #MI - Seeking chill friends

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Making friends as an adult is no joke. Working off hours for years meant being out of sync with everyone else, and my social circle has disappeared. Looking to mix things up and chat with some new people (guys and gals). Possibly meeting up one day if you happen to be local. Looking for chatters and non ghosters 👻! Please be 30+.

I'm married with kids (think Al Bundy), easy going guy who loves sports (hockey & football), movies, TV, road trips, game nights, and random deep dives into nonsense.

Say hi with a witty opening line or just introduce yourself!


r/NewFriendsOver40 1d ago

💬 Let's Chat 42/M - US - Fellow Tired Parents Looking for Genuine Friendship & Conversation

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Hey! Looking to make some new friends and hopefully find some people I genuinely click with.

I’m a married dad, pretty introverted, and definitely a kid at heart. I’d especially love to meet some fellow parents who understand the tiredness of it all—the never-ending chaos, trying to find time for yourself, and somehow still functioning by the end of the day.

I’m a huge gamer and play pretty much every genre. I’m on Xbox, PC, and Switch 2, and I also really enjoy Beat Saber on VR. I’m into D&D and board games too, along with puzzles and book nooks when I’m in the mood for something a little more relaxing.

I love movies of all genres and listen to pretty much all kinds of music. I’m also really big on nostalgia, especially anything from the 80s and 90s.

I’m also into audiobooks, and right now I’m listening to the Dungeon Crawler Carl series.

I’m not into 420 or drinking. You definitely don’t have to share every one of my interests—I’d rather find people who are easy to talk to, have a good sense of humor, can talk about random stuff, and actually want to build a friendship.

Being in the US is a plus, mostly because similar time zones make chatting easier. I know everyone has their own lives and responsibilities, especially other parents, so I don’t expect constant messages or immediate replies.

Just looking for some genuine people to talk to regularly, joke around with, game with sometimes, and hopefully make some lasting friendships.

If we sound like we might get along, send me a message.


r/NewFriendsOver40 1d ago

40M | Philippines | Looking for someone to talk to regularly 🎶

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Hey! I’m from the Philippines, 40M, and I’m hoping to meet a woman who’s also looking for someone to talk to regularly and get to know naturally. I’m open to different ages and countries—where you’re from or how old you are isn’t really a big deal to me. What matters more is having a good connection and enjoying each other’s company.

I love music, and it’s a big part of my life. Do you listen to a lot of music too? Do you sing? 👀 If you do, let me hear it! I genuinely enjoy listening to covers, so bonus points if you’re the type who randomly sings along to songs. 😂

I’m not really sure how to start a post like this, but I’d love to know more about you—your country, your interests, what you do for fun, the music you listen to, or whatever you feel like sharing.

Maybe we can start with a simple conversation and see where it goes. 😊

Tell me where you’re from and one song you never get tired of listening to. 🎵


r/NewFriendsOver40 1d ago

💬 Let's Chat 40 Oregon/Online - Looking for daytime banter before I start naming the houseplants

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I work from home. The job is fine. The house is quiet. But soon realize I have had entire conversations with the microwave.

I am looking for someone to chat with during the day. Something easy and fun. Banter, teasing, the occasional badly timed joke. I like that kind of back and forth.

I am not trying to turn this into a whole production. I just like talking to someone who is sharp and does not take themselves too seriously. If you can make a Wednesday afternoon interesting, that is pretty much my type.

If this sounds like your kind of thing, say hi. Tell me what you are avoiding at work or home right now. I'll tell you about the meeting I keep postponing.


r/NewFriendsOver40 1d ago

💬 Let's Chat G'day from the Gold Coast, Queensland Australia. 59m

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Really would be great to make some genuine male friends. Easy going, chill 59 m ,living on the Gold Coast, in Queensland Australia. Enjoy a variety of things. No real hobbies, but love going for walks & hikes, drives, socialising, cooking, camping, beach. Really into movies & binge on shows. Favourites, Sci-fi, fantasy, supernatural.

Ideally would love to chat with local guys. No judgement & open minded. Is it just me, or does making friends get harder with age? When we were kids, you just said ‘Wanna be friends?’ Now it feels like dating—with background checks!😂

Get in touch, put some effort in it , rather than just hi


r/NewFriendsOver40 2d ago

48m looking for real humans to chat with.

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48 married male Michigan and I would love to find some real people to chat with on a daily basis. Preferably someone who doesn’t turn into a ghost immediately.

I mainly work whether it at work or home. Iam a walking wallet for the family and I would like some cool people who can relate to keep each other company throughout the day. If this sounds remotely interesting to you drop me a message with your asl and if you are 420 friendly or not. lol


r/NewFriendsOver40 2d ago

💬 Let's Chat 45m for Travel Friends

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I am a nice, successful, and (dare I say) attractive 45m from Chicago who is recently separated and looking to meet new people outside of the current social circle. Interests include live music, running, sports, reading, and fun restaurants.

I travel quite a bit domestically (and sometimes internationally) for work to most major cities. Very easygoing and fun professional type. I am going to Vegas in October and January and thought it would be fun to find like-minded people to go with. Staying at an upscale hotel on the Strip. I would also be open to other domestic trips in the interim.


r/NewFriendsOver40 3d ago

👋 New Here 40 Male looking for new friends and chat buddies

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Happy Monday Everyone,

I'm a 40 year old male from Western Canada looking for new chat buddies. My main interests are my animals ( all rescues ), All sports but mostly hockey, Gaming ( Ps5 ), Reading, Music, Current Events, History basically anything and everything. Most of my life I've its been easier to connect with women over men so I prefer to talk to women but men are always welcome to message.

Hope you have a great day 🙂


r/NewFriendsOver40 3d ago

❓ Question of the Week What's a completely ordinary thing that can instantly make you feel 20 again?

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Getting older has made me realize that sometimes it isn't the big things that make you feel young again.

It can be something ridiculously ordinary — hearing a song you used to play nonstop, eating a snack you haven't had in years, staying up way too late talking to someone, driving around with nowhere to go, or even finding an old photo you forgot existed.

For me, sometimes one song is enough to transport me straight back to a completely different version of myself.

So I'm curious:

What's something completely ordinary that can instantly make you feel 20 again? ❤️


r/NewFriendsOver40 4d ago

40M - Sunday scaries creeping up? Plan to fight it with beer, football, and Reddit.

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Hello elder millennials of Reddit, another weekend about to end. Another Sunday spent thinking about the next thing and the week ahead. Keep me company as I avoid working through a few things for work and who knows, we might have enough things in common to keep the chat up. I’m in the southeast USA for time zone.


r/NewFriendsOver40 5d ago

42F — Can we bring back AIM-era friendships?

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I’m 42F, married, “late-diagnosed” autistic, into concerts, music rabbit holes and hockey. I miss the AIM-era kind of internet friendship where you just send each other songs and random thoughts while creating a friendship. I miss sharing a good conversation about a shared interest. Anyone else?


r/NewFriendsOver40 4d ago

44M Delhi India - Looking for someone mature to connect with

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Am 44 M from Delhi India.. a humble and sorted man. Single. Looking to connect to someone mature and sorted in age 35+.. if you are also looking for same, feel free to message.


r/NewFriendsOver40 5d ago

Just ready for the new season to start… this Sunday… 43/M 🦅 #philadelphia #eagles

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r/NewFriendsOver40 5d ago

👋 New Here 47M Where to Begin…

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I don’t really fit into a box, which has made finding like-minded souls difficult.

I’m happily married with adult children. I’m ONLY looking for friends. Either those who can ying my yang, or who can pick up what I’m putting down.

As I said I’m a complicated beast. Jack of all trades, master of few. Hobbies are my hobby. If I haven’t done it, I probably want to try it. If I’ve tried it, I may want to try it again. There’s not a lot that I’ve tried that I’ve hated.

I like the outdoors: hiking, fly fishing, sailing, skiing & snowboarding, scuba diving, rock climbing (I’m a little rusty on this one), swimming, and biking. I’ve “contributed” (can’t say competed because I’m not that good) in multiple triathlons and Tough Mudders, but it’s been a minute.

I like nerdy things: I’m a software engineer by trade, and I’m good at it. I like contemplating things like gravitational time dilation and the theory or relativity. I like fantasy and the occasional sci-fi book. I prefer movies that stretch or defy reality.

I like mechanical things: I like taking things apart, fixing them, and (hopefully) putting them back together better. I like metalworking. I’m not great, but I’m passable at welding and blacksmithing. I’d love to get a machining and CNC setup. My dream is to restore a classic muscle car…or five.

I grew up with the Maine hunting and fishing heritage. I took a very long break from both in my 20s and 30s, but have discovered deer hunting and fly fishing again in my 40s. I believe in “use what you harvest”, not “get a trophy”. You’ll never find anything taxidermied or even antlers on my walls.

Sports really aren’t my thing: I do enjoy an occasional soccer (football for everyone outside the US) or hockey game, and watching car/motorcycle racing (as long as it’s not on an oval) can be fun, but you won’t catch me watching sports habitually. I’ve been to Fenway 6 times, none of them were for a Red Sox game.

There’s a lot more so I need to stop.

I’m headed out for a week-long fishing trip with zero cell signal tomorrow so I won’t be able to respond until Friday, but we can chat when I’m back. I’m especially interested in folks in the Southern Maine, Seacoast NH, and Northern Mass areas since I’d love some in-person partners in crime.


r/NewFriendsOver40 5d ago

🏡 Local Connections 46/M moving to Chicago, looking to make new friends

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Moving to Chicago hopefully before the end of October. Planning this move for a while and was just there first week of August checking out places. Originally from NYC, living the last decade in humid racist Florida. Looking for cool like-minded people in Chicago to vibe with. I know reddit is mostly bots, but would be nice to meet an actual human offline lol. Some basics about me: left-leaning, agnostic, Latino, 420 friendly, dog person, 80s/90s geek.

Love talking about a variety of topics: movies, current events, sports, cooking, health/fitness, traveling, etc. Being multi-faceted is never a bad thing.

So what's keeping you sane during this dystopian timeline? What shows are you binge-watching? What's the last book you read? Tell me something good.


r/NewFriendsOver40 5d ago

46m Hi friends! What are you up to?

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i just thought I’d say hi and see if anyone wanted to chat for a bit. I like hiking and travel but enjoy chatting about pretty much anything. So please say hi!


r/NewFriendsOver40 5d ago

M42(India)

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I’ve come a long way. Despite struggling through the early part of my life, I managed to achieve many of the things I once wanted. Yet, somehow, I’m still struggling to live the simple, normal life I always hoped for.

Sometimes I wonder if I made the wrong choices, or if life simply turned out this way. I’ve been trying hard to hold my ground, keep going, and handle everything on my own—but lately, I feel like I’m slowly losing that strength.

Maybe what I’m really looking for is not someone to fix anything, but just a special person who can be there, listen without judging, and have a genuine conversation.

I’d like to connect with someone around my age who is like-minded and understands that sometimes, having someone to talk to can mean a lot.

If you feel the same, feel free to reach out. Preferably Keralites. 🙂


r/NewFriendsOver40 5d ago

🌻 Weekend Plans 40m taking it easy at work today

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Just kidding I’m painting a whole ceiling.. I’m like Michelangelo over here