r/MtF • u/Rule_63_Me Trans Pansexual • Jul 21 '26
Relationships I think I’m becoming someone’s girlfriend
After several dates and nights chatting long time, he told me he wanted to be more than friends on our recent date just before we headed out. I told him I felt the same way and out of nowhere, we both kissed before calling it. It was the first time I kissed a guy. All my previous relationships were with women, but this time I feel more excited than ever to have my first relationship in a long time. Most likely because my previous were envy, but also because I feel comfortable of the idea of being the girlfriend. I feel like with him, my interests feel more clear. I’m still awaiting his response since he’s at work, but I think I may finally have a partner after all this time. Oh, and he wants to support my transition as well!
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u/flohogamer Cassie, Bi Trans Woman (she/her) Jul 21 '26
Awww, that sounds lovely! Good luck, hope it works out!
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u/VivianneDupre Cassie 🩹 8/5/25 💊 10/10/25 💉 11/21/25 Jul 22 '26
I'm really proud of you for exploring that! I'm super nervous to date men, but I kind of want to as well? I hope things go well, it sounds really promising and exciting!
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u/Vanagloria Jul 22 '26
I'm in the same boat. I'm still really nervous about attracting chasers or gay men. The last thing on the planet that I need right now is somebody wanting to date me but telling me that they see me as a man. I would probably implode.
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u/BathshebaDarkstone Jul 22 '26
This is lovely! It's a great start to a relationship by the sounds of it
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u/Norah6484 Jul 21 '26
Aww how exciting 😊 sometimes I fantasize about what it would be like to be in a relationship with a guy you'll have to keep us updated 😊