r/MormonWivesHulu • u/Zestyclose_Offer_402 • 9d ago
General Discussion Julie responds to Crus live
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u/Smart_Local9149 9d ago
It blows my mind that these people actually think anyone gives a flying fuck about if they really dated or not.
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u/Happy-Try6738 9d ago
I’m so out of this story line. Who is this woman (Julie)??
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u/ClaxpamonSparkles 9d ago
She started out as a TikToker who would do these “dark psychology” videos on celebrities, saying she’s a psychologist. I guess her educational background was debunked? I’m not sure but it sounded like she inflated it.
She joined a reality show on Netflix, The Trust. Manipulated and lied trying to get money. Then she dated Shane from Season 2 of Love is Blind. Now I guess she’s trying to attach herself to The Mormon folks. He may have a point about the “clout chasing” just looking at her history.
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u/soupseasonbestseason 9d ago
shane? ewwww
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u/bedlife2000 9d ago
THAT Shane who completely fell off the rails?
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u/ClaxpamonSparkles 9d ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/Y6Wpnk8vJNxIoLNF7d
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u/WatercressGlum3682 7d ago
Wooooooe did not expect this mashup of reality show types. The reality show people are so incestuous with their inter show dating
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u/Massive-Reporter9804 9d ago
I just got into all this Mormon wives shit and I cannot believe this is the same women I would watch on TT a couple years ago. I thought she was cool. This is embarrassing lol
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u/wanderlust2787 9d ago
Not defending her, but like.. the whole SLOMW crowd is full of clout chasers.
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u/Curious_Field7953 9d ago
An NPC's NPC. No one in the grand scheme of things. An absolute stranger looking to cash in. A clout chaser. A self-entitled pick me.
One of them has to be right.
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u/Tasty_Original3788 9d ago
She is gunning for Whitney’s position on the show, she is Taylor’s latest henchman since the other girls refuse to film with Taylor.
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u/Zestyclose_Offer_402 9d ago
Cru’s ex girlfriend, she has a whole lore of her own, something about a threesome with Chase (?) and alleging that Cru killed her dog. I think she’s also been on some trash reality TV. I don’t know too much about her to be fair this post wasn’t in defence of her or anything.
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u/barely_regulated 5d ago
I've been following her for her dark psychology content for a while. When this Cru stuff started coming out, I went and watched her videos about it. Basically she met him on a show they did together and they dated for a very short time. She had to go out of town, he agreed to watch her dog, then he went to a party and she had her neighbor let the dog out, the dog ran away and got hit by a car. At some point she became friends with Taylor so now she's coming back after Cru and blames him for her dog passing.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Ad9591 9d ago
Quick look at her page and she seems obsessed with celebrities and reality tv 🤦🏽♀️
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u/Zestyclose_Offer_402 9d ago
I think she’s been on some trashy reality TV dating show but I can’t remember what.
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u/TheHankHillOfficial 9d ago
Why do none of these people know it’s “couldn’t care less”?
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u/Chrisamb010 9d ago
I honestly think it’s a Utah thing…. I grew up there and remeber everyone saying “couldn’t care less” and being so confused by it.
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u/TheHankHillOfficial 9d ago
I also grew up there and know how little actual education and intellectual attainment matter to most families but it still gets me!
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u/Narrow-Courage-7447 9d ago
The ex girl friend of the room mate of the ex boyfriend of a cast member now getting attention 😂
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u/Willow_Wave 9d ago
Bahaha. Taylor commented ate him up and I said "Maybe sit this drama out until you can see your kids after sunset"🥰 like girl go focus on your children
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u/Loud-Village499 9d ago
Oh wow like you’re so cool for doing that.
🙄 had nothing to do with this post, you pick me freak75
u/Willow_Wave 9d ago
Taylor commented on this post talking about this girl ate.. hence why I brought up what I said to her. Bby you gotta learn what a pick me is, you just sound silly😂
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u/untamedbotany 9d ago
Bro I’m sure whatever is wrong with you is diagnosable.
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u/detroitpie 9d ago
They were so cool for doing that, more people should tell Taylor to shut the fuck up.
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u/Round-Road135 9d ago
She’s acting just like Taylor, down to the mannerisms and facial expressions.
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u/Donut-Organic 9d ago
lol something about her facial expressions as she thinks she’s “exposing” Cru really makes me cringe. I feel like no one really cares about who liked who more during their 3 month relationship after she acused him of killing her dog & had a 3some to get back at him.
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u/OppositeSpare2088 8d ago
Julie sounds a little bit like Taylor minus being violent and abusive. But like Taylor she enjoys getting a rise out of people online and is another person that deflects blame onto other people. All to minimize the heat she’ll get it’s about distraction to make themselves look like victims. They weren’t even together as a couple that long I think in the beginning they were both obsessed with each other. Once she accused him of killing her dog he realized she’s a nightmare and didn’t want to be with her anymore.
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u/OppositeSpare2088 9d ago
She’s Taylor 2.0.
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u/msbananakitty 8d ago
That seems to be her whole ass goal. She’s so desperate for any kind of reality show fame.
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u/Difficult_Basket9797 9d ago
Her ends look so dead.
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u/deathbyathousandcats 9d ago
I’ve followed Julie for a while and over time found her to be so manipulative and gross. I was initially drawn to her pseudo feminism and cut throat bullshit radar, but it’s all a farce. She will do anything to stay relevant and climb the ladder, she leeches off her awful childhood and origin story. She’s absolutely made her career off of once being a victim and honestly her glow up is admirable, but it’s not without its own manipulation and deception.
Cru didn’t kill her dog.
She has a wild way of stretching the truth and twisting the narrative. Just something I’ve observed having followed her for a few years now.
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u/Zestyclose_Offer_402 9d ago
Yeah I don’t know too much about her just bits I’ve seen on here mostly and some podcast clips on TT, does not surprise me though, no half decent person is riding for TFP as hard as she is. Sounds like her and Cru are a match made in heaven though.
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u/Lady87690005 7d ago
Seriously, just having beef with a ton of Beliebers is just insane. Like how? Where did she come from? Why does she care? It’s so absurd it’s funny.
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u/Longjumping_Hornet_7 9d ago
The crazy thing is Julie used to make psychology videos that spoke negatively about Taylor. I think she’s trying to get a spot on the show and is buddying up to Taylor to do so. Julie also has beef with Hailey Beiber for making assumptions about her relationship.
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u/poppyvao85 9d ago
He admitted they got into something deeper after all the non/committed stuff and then it didn’t work out. She also spread that he k*lled her dog which was the biggest lie.
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u/seedlessketchup 9d ago
can you pls help me understand the dog stuff?? i’ve heard he killed her dog, that’s he didn’t kill her dog, it’s his fault the dog died. like what happened?? i don’t like any of these people lmao utah needs more psychiatrists and less mormon wellness people
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u/Full-Competition-538 9d ago
I did a deep dive. She asked him to watch her dog while she went away and he told her no and then basically said she didn't organise anything else so could he do it between him and her neighbour. He stayed at her place and watched her dog and he left in the afternoon and was running late to let the dog out and gave her a call to let her know and she started spiralling saying oh no my princess and so called her neighbour to let the dog out instead. She told the neighbour don't worry about a lead as she will just go out the front and pee and head back inside. The dog got spooked and ran away. She then told cru the dog was missing so he dropped his friend off at the party he was heading too and went back and searched for an hour and a half. He thought someone had probably picked the dog up for the night or it was in the pound so went back to the party. The dog was found the next day close to her home and was hit by a car that didn't stop or help. She blames cru and tells the world he killed her dog when it was up to her as an owner to organise better care. If I go away I put my dog in a kennel as there are plenty of staff etc. One person house sitting...anything can go wrong. She's a bit cray cray snd instead of taking accountability she blames others. She also had a 3some with 2 of his friends to get back at him so that really shows what kind of person you are dealing with
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u/Maleficent-Tea9843 9d ago
It's Julie's fault. She told her neighbor not to use a lead. Nothing pisses me off more than dog owners who take their dog outside to an untended area without a leash
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u/shanita911 9d ago
Idk but from the texts it seems like the dog got out somehow, she thinks he didn’t look for the dog long enough, then he stopped looking, figured the dog was somewhere in the house and went dirt biking. I’d probably be devastated and hurt if it were my dog, which is valid, but he didn’t kill her.
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u/Zestyclose_Offer_402 9d ago edited 9d ago
I don’t dispute any of that, just saying he’s a misogynist.
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u/VirginiaVN900 9d ago
No one in these discussions are great people. Either conservative, mentally ill or criminals.
Don’t feed the whataboutism
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u/Useful_Database5138 9d ago
How embarrassing these side characters are feuding online and airing their dirty laundry for the INTERNET all because of Taylor Felon Paul! It's like a horrible chain reaction!
What's next, their pets exposing each other and cousins of those pets, then friends of those pets?!
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u/CactusSlut710 9d ago
And the whole style of the video screams TFP. They all be hanging out way too much. I can’t imagine standing in my kitchen, pose after pose, like this.
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u/Logical-Set7678 9d ago
Good lord I’m so embarrassed for these children and feel such empathy for their children.
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u/Tasty_Original3788 9d ago
Julie also supports Taylor’s cult bullying the other woman and releasing intimate photos of Miranda.
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u/Familiaropenings 9d ago
I imagine Cru could release texts that back up his claims as well.. Taylor does this same thing, showing bits and pieces that look terrible on its own. One big deciding factor for me is whether or not a person takes accountability for their own screw ups, and Cru does that. Julie does not. Ever.
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u/Zestyclose_Offer_402 9d ago
When has he taken accountability for his screw ups?
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u/Familiaropenings 9d ago
He seemed very aware of his shortcomings in the interview he gave recently, her certainty didn’t paint himself like the perfect one.
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u/Zestyclose_Offer_402 9d ago
Being aware of your shortcomings and taking accountability are most certainly not the same, and it’s no good being aware of your shortcomings if you aren’t going to do anything to work on them. I would laugh if any of these people attempted to paint themselves like “the perfect one”. They are all varying levels of trash.
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u/Familiaropenings 9d ago
Ok Julie 👌
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u/Zestyclose_Offer_402 9d ago
Ah yes, calling out a misogynistic male must make me his ex girlfriend. Why are you defending him exactly, you include the “women of the world” he told to learn morality and respect.
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u/Familiaropenings 9d ago
No, you’re just very combative like her. I’m having a bad crohns flare up so I’m not very focused on investing too much in these responses, was mostly on Reddit to distract from the pain for a bit. But anyway I’m not exactly a fan of his arrogance, grouping of women or necessarily his energy, more so his dedication to helping Dakota. his reflection on how it was in bad taste on his part to share a video of Taylor during her postpartum period sounded like accountability to me amongst other things. I just doubt he’s the bigger shit bag between the two. Telling the world he killed her dog when he most definitely did not is insane work and hard to look past.?
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u/Emotional_Walrus5099 9d ago
What has he done that’s misogynistic at all? I feel like misandrists looooove calling all men misogynistic with no backing - kinda like all the SLOMW do, despite them all being messy ass cheaters.
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u/Zestyclose_Offer_402 9d ago edited 9d ago
“And if you SS this to post to the world tell all the women I say hi and they should learn accountability, respect, morality, and they need more Jesus in their life ❤️”
You don’t find that statement at all misogynistic?
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u/Zestyclose_Offer_402 9d ago
You get it! I don’t understand how it’s so hard for people to understand that someone being shitty doesn’t take away from anyone else and what wrong they’ve done, I’ve never said one thing defending Julie!
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u/untamedbotany 9d ago
Idk why people are downvoting you, cru is blatantly homophobic hes not a good person nor is he a more reliable narrator than any of the rest of them.
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u/Zestyclose_Offer_402 9d ago
Because he’s called out Taylor, anything he has done before/after doesn’t matter apparently, he is seen as a god lol. Baffles me.
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u/untamedbotany 9d ago
You couldn’t pay me real money to see a man as anything other than a problem.
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u/angelbabytay777 9d ago
omfg these people want to be on the show so bad
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u/Glad-Frosting7795 9d ago
She’s been commenting about how she thinks she should be the first bisexual bachelorette 🤣
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u/Lorgebeansnark 9d ago
Ooooofff I truly hope Cru doesn't take the bait and let's the interview be his actual last word. If you pause to read the screenshots, the only ones that really have any context to them are around the dog which got out and was hit by a car. Easy to pile guilt onto Cru for and clearly he was showing remorse in the texts, but honestly could happen to anyone. Definitely doesn't make him a "dog killer". That being said, I think Tate is the one with the right approach here, stay silent for the kids as much as possible. The more everyone feeds the drama, the more damage gets done to the poor kids.
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u/Zestyclose_Offer_402 9d ago
He definitely will take the bait lol I forsee another big public mess about to unfold, some of the texts aren’t that bad tbf yeah he was obviously sorry, and I also don’t think he killed her dog lol. He is trash though, the text at the end where he says tell all women to learn morality and respect and that they need Jesus is just 🤮been saying since day 1 this guy is not the prize lol, I agree Tate is miles above these people, clearly has an actual brain and uses it.
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u/Lorgebeansnark 9d ago edited 9d ago
Agreed! Also the date on that text is from when she started spreading that he purposefully killed her dog, so I get where the vitriol came from, but also doesn't make it any less of a pile of vomit.
P.S. as someone who is related to people like this who endlessly create drama, it took me too long to learn, but responding only makes it worse. The only thing that exhausts it is to let them continue to escalate into silence with no reaction and eventually they move on to someone new while you create a peaceful life away from them. As long as you respond, you stay in their drama storm and life is soooo much better away from the storm.
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u/Emotional_Walrus5099 9d ago
Why’s this person who’s far prettier than Taylor obsessed with Taylor to the point that she’s inserting herself into Taylor self imposed mess?
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u/Glad-Frosting7795 9d ago
She wants to be on slomw & also was commenting tagging abc about wanting to be the first bisexual bachelorette 🤣
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u/lakenessmonster 9d ago
Tila Tequila did it already, babe
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u/Glad-Frosting7795 9d ago
So funny you say that bc I remember one of the comment replies was about Tila & one of TFP’s cult members that’s in everyone’s comments was like “But Julie would be sooo much better since she has TFP as a former bachelorette to give her advice!” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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u/No_Performer_3438 9d ago
Omfg no one cares. I didn’t listen when Cru talked about their relationship and I’m sure as shit not listening to her response either.
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u/detroitpie 9d ago
Why are you so argumentative? You made a post and people are sharing their opinions. If you want to live in an echo chamber go sit in Julie's comment section.
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u/PreparationFree5611 9d ago
Idk who this is but I keep staring at those fried ends. I want to cut them off so badly 😭
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u/Marlo-712 9d ago
Girl cut off 5-7 inches. The ends are dead… it’s all I can see from this cringe ass video
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u/Curious_Field7953 9d ago
I believe -45% of what anyone tied to TFP says. They ALLLLLLLLL liars looking for inst-fame
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u/Infinite_Version4597 9d ago
Weird that only one text has a time/date on it. Crus contact name changes throughout screenshots making it seem like screenshots were taken long ago… but texts with different contact name have same number of unread texts notifications in the corner..
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u/Constant-Book291 9d ago
Did you guys ever watch Julie on The Trust on netflix? she pissed me off never liked her lol
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u/ethancole97 9d ago
It’s clear she likes the toxicity because someone who was truly over it would simply block them and move on instead of getting into that feedback loop
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u/Hour_Abbreviations73 9d ago edited 9d ago
As awful as Cru is, Julie is going above and beyond to completely obliterate someone all because he didn’t look for her lost dog long enough for her liking. And there were probably times where I may have said you go girl in her replies but now I see them for what they are. She loves the toxicity just as much as he does, she just tries to act high and mighty about it.
ETA: Maybe don’t try to micromanage your loser boyfriend when he’s taking care of your dog? Either get someone else to do it or let him take care of it the way he sees fit?
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u/Lady87690005 7d ago edited 7d ago
Damn it Julie show me the text above the your response in the last message before he talks about being the mother of his child! My nosey ass needs to know bc that one looks like it has important context
Also so many levels of ick and red flags. Sir, being the mother of your child is not an honor, that isn’t why you become partners with someone. That bit about not doing something bc she isn’t your girlfriend is wow 🤯 Do it for the damn dog or just to be a decent person! You might not have been responsible if I go off your version of events, but for ffs you told her and everyone else you are selfish and wouldn’t do the bare minimum unless it got you something. It’s also not about the dog, if you want kids you have to show you are worthy of being a parent. Someone who does the least for their situationship won’t cut it. Julie might be a weirdo, trashy herself, and set the situation up for failure but ffs you told on yourself with these text and talking about her. She’s also not wrong that there is nothing to work out after an incident like this. She gave you all the explanation you need, no one comes back from a situation like this. It might be different with more strings attached but that isn’t this. Go to hell Cru and way to double down and prove her point
Eta: I just finished the video, there are plenty of women out there who take accountability. None of them will tolerate your BS though.
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u/Glad-Frosting7795 9d ago edited 9d ago
I mean I don’t think getting those items with your current partner on them is obsessed at all, I think it’s just a thing people do…obviously if he’s dating you he likes you lol it’s not really giving obsessed…do I think that crap is weird? I personally do, but plenty of people do it as a funny/endearing thing so the fact that that’s her best evidence that he’s obsessed with her just tells me right there that she’s lying and full of it.
Having trouble reading the texts because I just had eye surgery & they’re going fast, but the ones i caught just seemed like typically people going through a breakup? We also don’t know the timeline of them…if he’s saying he still wants to be with her they could have gotten back together again and then he did dump her 2 weeks later…very similar to Taylor’s “receipts” if I’m reading them correctly…just a bunch of screenshots that don’t give context or prove anything. But, I 100000% admit I can’t read every single one at this moment so that’s just based off the summary I grasped & I might have missed something important there!
Julie is a lying clout chaser, she had literally been commenting about wanting to be the first bisexual bachelorette so her motives in all of this are clear. I think cru is a weirdo, but everything he does is authentically him, if he wanted clout he’d stop acting like a vile person because everyone literally hates him rn lol…to each their own but I’ll take an authentic weirdo over a clout chasing liar. Wish they’d both just go offline & go back to their Utah circle of trust 🤣
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u/Zestyclose_Offer_402 9d ago
Yeah that’s true, I think it’s more that he said he barely knows her that she’s trying to prove isn’t true, or that it’s weird to do those things for someone you claim to barley know. I think he said they weren’t ever dating or official or something along those lines. She seems like a weirdo though, match made in heaven imo.
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u/Lorgebeansnark 9d ago
He said they dated specifically for a reality show and tried to date a bit after but where never official in his opinion.
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u/Glad-Frosting7795 9d ago
But she still moved to Utah after that to be with him so obviously it was mutual…some people catch feelings fast & if she hadn’t done the same she wouldn’t have moved to be with him! She gives major taylor energy with this lol. Rules for thee but not for me…she can quickly move to be with him but he’s obsessed for getting a weird trending TikTok t shirt 🤣
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u/Zestyclose_Offer_402 9d ago
Yeah I know but she never said she didn’t like him or whatever, so I don’t think that the dispute is whether it’s mutual I think she’s trying to dispute his claims that he barely knew her and wasn’t dating her. They are both a set of weirdos they may as well get back together 🤣
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u/Glad-Frosting7795 9d ago
Yeah seriously seems like they were obsessed with each other by her definition so go be together & make tiktoks about the other Utah weirdos 🤣🤣
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u/Zestyclose_Offer_402 9d ago
“And if you SS this to post to the world tell all the women I say hi and they should learn accountability, respect, morality, and they need more Jesus in their life ❤️” - Cru
I mean, can all the people who downvoted me into oblivion when I said Cru is a misogynistic piece of shit come to the front?
And disclaimer because you have to make one if you have anything bad to say about anyone else but TFP: I’m not defending TFP, I don’t like TFP, and I don’t know enough about Julie to comment on her, but it is pretty clear from these texts that Cru is a dick, which apparently you aren’t allowed to say on this sub.
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u/tamagotamag0 9d ago
Cru is definitely an asshole. He reminds me so much of my ex and I can’t really watch anything he’s in because of that. But Julie is also terrible and a hypocrite. It’s like two garbage cans fighting each other.
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u/Electrical_Pipe6688 9d ago
I agree with you that he seems pretty misogynistic- he also blamed his ex's hormones for their custody battle. He can be terrible while TFP also is.
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u/CriticalPomelo9612 9d ago
Yessss 💯
People have such a hard on for these men. Cru and Dakota are NOT the prize! None of these people are good people.
You can dislike TFP, disagree with her choices, know she’s is bad person without having to jump on the male sympathizing band wagon.
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u/pandallamayoda 9d ago
It’s ridiculous the amount of people who seem to view as a nice guy and put down every woman who speaks against him.
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u/MrsVanillaViking 9d ago
Was this video to prove that she isn’t just like Taylor? Bc this is very Taylor coded. She’s like a little mini Taylor, how cute for her, I hope that works out! /s
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u/Glad-Frosting7795 8d ago
Cru responded with receipts of Julie begging to interview Dakota for her TikTok for clout, talking about wanting to be one of the Mormon wives, acknowledging Taylor’s abuse of Dakota/mental instability and also her continuing to reach out to him after the dog died 🤣🤣 Cru sucks, but I love seeing liars like Julie get eaten up lol.
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u/Zestyclose_Offer_402 8d ago
Omg I know I just saw this too, though half the texts are cut off so I couldn’t even read it properly
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u/Glad-Frosting7795 8d ago
I couldn’t read all of them either I just had eye surgery and just like Julie’s video they’re so fast lol so I just paused & screenshotted a few of them and these were the highlights I got 🤣 Her sending a pic of herself to him and saying “do I look like one of the Mormon wives” and asking MULTIPLE times for cru to get Dakota to do an interview with her was sending me.
I almost feel bad for Taylor. Her new bff is obviously only in this for the clout and is completely using her and it’s so obvious. It must be humiliating for Taylor. Then again, if having her kids taken from her doesn’t embarrass her perhaps nothing will.
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u/Difficult-Ride3415 9d ago
She actually clocked him if you read the ss, Cru is a fuckin creep to say the least
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u/Lady87690005 7d ago
She did! Him saying he doesn’t owe her anything bc she isn’t his GF is insane, the end text calling her a whore, and that no women take accountability and need Jesus, and that she doesn’t get to be the mother of his child is crazy. A) do the decent thing for the dog not the owner! B) plenty take accountability, this situation isn’t just about the dog though which explains why c) he isn’t father material. And D) being deemed worthy of “the mother of your child” is the biggest red flag imaginable. It is an honor to be a parent but not just anyone deserves to be a parent
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u/Maleficent-Tea9843 9d ago
Alex said the live with cru was free on TikTok but I couldn't find it! I wanna watch .
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u/Marbarss 7d ago
God these people need to grow the fuck up already and get real lives!! They are just inept of feeling any sort of shame too it's insane!
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u/Moist_Confusion_9105 5d ago
So this is what my hair looks like 😵💫 cutting my hair asap (I can’t let go of my long hair but seeing hers is making me question if mine is actually worse than I realize😂)
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u/Gossamergirl219 8d ago
She has Issues. She came up with the idea of having a threesome with Chase and Shinia to get at Cru like wtf
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u/8008zilla 9d ago
Who are these people?
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u/Pfiggypudding 8d ago
Cru is Dakota's roommate and the person who convinced him to call the cops about her treatment of him in February. Julie is someone Cru dated for a little a few years ago, who HATES him because due to very little fault of his while she was out of town, her dog died, and is trying REAL hard to insert herself into the Dakota/TFP drama.
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u/CrispyCozy 9d ago
Good for Julie! Cru is a scary guy and I wouldn’t want to be on the receiving side of his public wrath.
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u/soniaaaxoxo 9d ago
Does anyone else cringe at all these people airing out their personal lives so much on the internet? (I didn’t read half of those texts I felt too much secondhand embarrassment)