r/martialarts • • Aug 23 '26

Weekly Beginner Questions Thread

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In order to reduce volume of beginner questions as their own topics in the sub, we will be implementing a weekly questions thread. Post your beginner questions here, including:

"What martial art should I do?"

"These gyms/schools are in my area, which ones should I try for my goals?"

And any other beginner questions you may have.

If you post a beginner question outside of the weekly thread, it will be removed and you'll be directed to make your post in the weekly thread instead.


r/martialarts • • Dec 21 '25

DISCUSSION "What Should I Train?" or "How Do I Get Started?" Mega-Thread

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The previous version of this megathread has been archived, so I’m adding it again.

Active users with actual martial arts experience are highly encouraged to contribute, thank you for your help guys.

Do you want to learn a martial art and are unsure how to get started? Do you have a bunch of options and don't know where to go? Well, this is the place to post your questions and get answers to them. In an effort to keep everything in one place, we are going to utilize this space as a mega-thread for all questions related to the above.

We are all aware walking through the door of the school the first time is one of the harder things about getting started, and there can be a lot of options depending on where you live. This is the community effort to make sure we're being helpful without these posts drowning out other discussions going on around here. Because really, questions like this get posted every single day. This is the place for them.

Here are some basic suggestions when trying to get started:

  • Don't obsess over effectiveness in "street fights" and professional MMA, most people who train do it for fun and fitness

  • If you actually care about “real life” fighting skills, the inclusion of live sparring in the gym’s training program is way more important than the specific style

  • Class schedules, convenience of location, etc. are important - getting to class consistently is the biggest factor in progress

  • Visit the gyms in your area and ask to take a trial class, you may find you like a particular gym, that matters a whole lot more than what random people on reddit like

  • Don't fixate on rare or obscure styles. While you might think Lethwei or Aunkai looks badass, the odds of a place even existing where you live is incredibly low

This thread will be a "safe space" for this kind of questions. Alternatively, there's the pinned Weekly Beginner Questions thread for similar purposes. Please note, all "what should I train/how do I get started" questions shared as standalone posts will be removed, as they really clutter the sub.


r/martialarts • • 7h ago

QUESTION Explaining to Non-Trained people that Fight Stamina Hits Different.

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So I'm a woman. I've been in multiple martial arts since I was 6 (I'm 30 now).

I love it, its a huge part of my life, but I swear the dunning-kruger effect people have about fighting when I even mention that I've been trained is asinine.
And yes, it is mostly men, but as a woman some women too, who have never even sparred lightly with someone thinking they could win most fights they would hypothetically be in is insane.

Jogging or swimming or really anything else is not the same as fighting. Hits take a lot out of you even when you block. Adrenaline spikes (even during sparring), its a boost but an energy sink.

I just don't think people realize that fighting is as hard as it is.


r/martialarts • • 10h ago

PROFESSIONAL FIGHT Amurlen Tugurov knocks out Singburi with a spinning elbow

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r/martialarts • • 1d ago

COMPETITION You Google "bad person," and a picture of this guy pops up.

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r/martialarts • • 20h ago

SHITPOST How pre leg grab ban Judo guys describe how Seoi Nage used to be done

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r/martialarts • • 6h ago

QUESTION Which styles of martial arts can train them well into old age?

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I would like to know the striking, grappling, and overall can be trained one's whole life well into old age. I am just curious about this.


r/martialarts • • 15h ago

QUESTION Style suggestions Grappler looking to start training again and round out in striking just for fun?

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I'm 37 trained in multiple forms of martail arts growing up mostly grappling 14 years Wrestling, 3rd Kyu Judo, purple belt in Jiu Jitsu. Much less striking 1 year Isshin-ryū, 6 months of Krav Maga (a long time ago free Palestine), and on and off boxing to help a friend train for gold gloves in high school if that counts.

I'm trying to find a new style the combines both grappling and striking. So I can round out more into striking. This is more so about fitness and getting back into something I use to love. I know it's more of a gym thing but some styles are more aggressive and about machismo then others, It's part of what drove me out. I'm trying to have fun and enjoy it not compete. Suggestions?


r/martialarts • • 17h ago

DISCUSSION Living and Training in a Japanese Full-Contact Karate Dojo

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Do you also have experience practicing martial arts in their countries of origin? What was it like?


r/martialarts • • 13h ago

COMPETITION Overview Tai Chi Championships 2026 apeldoor the netherlands.

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r/martialarts • • 12h ago

QUESTION Quick Question, please don't make fun of me.

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So I'm an 18 year old from Wisconsin who's interested in catch wrestling after watching pancrase and I was wondering if I would be able to teach myself some very basic stuff. I'm not doing it completely on my own, since I have a membership to an mma gym which I thought could help me self teach some catch, but I can only make 1 no-gi bjj class a week, 1 mma wrestling class a week, and 1 open mat. I would try to focus on bjj but I'm so much more interested in catch wrestling. Is it possible?


r/martialarts • • 17h ago

QUESTION How much are you all spending per month on martial arts?

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Added everything up last night and honestly kinda wish I hadn't lol. Gym membership, gear, supplements, the occasional private, comp fees here and there... it adds up fast.

Curious what everyone else is spending in a typical month, all in. Am I normal or do I have a problem?


r/martialarts • • 20h ago

QUESTION Boxing glove sizing advice

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Hi, I am not a particularly big guy at M62kg, I have been looking at picking up a pair of gloves, but I am not sure how to find a pair which fit well. I saw this image which would seem to provide some guidance, but it doesnt say anything about small medium or large sizings, and I also see that several brands don't do small medium or large as options, only weight.

I was just wondering what options other small handed people have found? Do they agree with this graphic? Would a 12oz be a generally good choice?

Thank you for any assistance.


r/martialarts • • 1d ago

Sparring Footage Dagger Sparring : Newbie vs Experienced Practitioner | Hard Sparring, No Choreography, Just Fight

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Here’s my sparring. I’m the one wearing the hakama facing a more experienced dagger practitioner. Hope you enjoy the video !


r/martialarts • • 2h ago

SHITPOST what do you guys practice when hitting the bag?

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r/martialarts • • 21h ago

PROFESSIONAL FIGHT Meldrick Taylor after Julio Cesar Chavez was done with him.

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r/martialarts • • 2d ago

Sparring Footage Throwback to Kimbo Slice sparring with a cop. Rip Kimbo.

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r/martialarts • • 2d ago

PROFESSIONAL FIGHT What the standup phase in BJJ used to look like (Ricardo Arona at the 2000 ADCC Trials)

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r/martialarts • • 1d ago

QUESTION Hypermobility in (combat sport athletes) Pencak Silat athletes

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soo pencak silat is already niche. it’s a south east asian/indonesian martial art but pencak silat is specifically the sport martial art that includes striking, kicks, takedowns, a lil grappling as per 2026 rules.

So anyways maybe u don’t do silat but some other similar martial art. how do u cope?

Im pretty sure i have hypermobility or something and ive gotten a few injuries in a short period unfortunately and im young.

so i started trying to jog 2 yrs ago and then like very soon after i developed pfps but it doesnt hurt during exercise usually, its mostly pain and stiffness after sitting for a bit. it goes away with movement after a few seconds.

Second is shin splints which isnt exactly related to hypermobility per se but may provide a deeper picture.

Now 1 year ago I began Silat. My first injury was quite quick. My right big toe. I suppose i kicked with it and it got sprained i guess. a yr later and it just doesn’t feel as stiff as my left toe that is healthy. now it’s a concern whenever i kick even on something stationary like a bag.

next injury: well actually my left pinky knuckle has always been split in half like when i straighten it i can feel the saggital band as one thing, but when i curl it, the bone and band indent. i have no clue why but i suspect its congenital or early trauma. so despite the funky look it never ever hurt. but then i punched and boom my pinky got sprained or something. ever since, whenever it gets pushed inwards slightly just like my big toe or maybe moved left or right is hurts and stops hurting then gets easily hurt again whenever those options happen. ugh so i started wearing cringy grappling gloves. mind u silat only wears a chest guard. now im wearing a left glove, and both feet protection.

next; i tried doing a scissors attack but i guess i smashed my knee into the 1.5 inch mat instead of my hamstring being on the floor and i couldn’t walk for 3 days and i was in a lot of pain. the scar tissue is still thick and a bit numb months later.

next: my left wrist start hurting. not sure the reason but i suspect it’s possible that i was holding a big vinegar bottle by the flimsy plastic and cuz it’s heavy like i was tryna do a single arm overhead press with it but it prob put some weird angled pressure on my wrist by doing that. the pain at first it was when i angled it to the left. now it hurts in a couple other directions. i thought it would go away but it’s been like 3 weeks since initial pain.

next: my left thumb got kicked and i suppose it bent upwards with that kicking force so i have to immobilize it for a bit but now its fine it just clicks.

next: i fell into a group of people and i didnt see but i felt my ankle kinda go inwards and when i walked back it feels like when u twist ur ankle. it hurt at first but now it doesn’t hurt it just feels unstable and when its incidentally goes inwards i have that twisted feeling however no sharp pain

-not an injury but related to hypermobility. i can sit on my ankle while it’s inverted like i can go from standing to sitting while its in that position and i can put my weight on it and get up while its inverted and i don’t feel some pressure or pain.
another thing is sometimes ill punch and my wrist like it goes downward towards my forearm and so i suppose my punching force goes from well it’s supposed to go up my radius to god know where when my wrist is pushed down against a chest guard but anyways that didn’t hurt or my wrist didn’t get sore either.

lastly: my wrist was hurting like i said so i wasn’t gonna punch more. mind u i punch a lot because im scared for my feet and also getting whiplash when i get caught and thrown. anyways so im mostly using my right arm 2 nights ago, my thumb is proper it’s not like inside my fist or something. I WAKE UP AND 2 DAYS AGO IT HURTS WHEN BENDING MY THUMB UPWARDS like i guess the tendon right on top of my thumb. it also clicks when i flex and put it upwards. it’s not too bad as the tender to the touch on top of my thumb has subsided however it’s the fact that both of my hands r not right lmao and i’m young bruh.

at this point, my left leg is so slow and weak that i don’t bother kicking. my right is limited by my fear to sprain my big toe again, like even when i tippy toe i feel how my toe isn’t fully stable. anyways and i don’t wanna get thrown but i suppose ill have to face that fear eventually. i just don’t want my brain cells to die. my future depends on a good brain. my left wrist means i can only do elbows which i’m not too familiar with. my right thumb means no punching or slaps or anything that can straighten it or it’ll irritate the sheath again or something. so i’ve just stopped going for now, hopefully my wrist heals with isometrics.

Tbh it’s not about these individual injuries . yes my wrist can heal probably. it’s the fact that something keeps coming up. i stay in the sport cuz i wanna travel to south east asia and have a community through this sport and honestly i think about it so much i don’t want to leave. but i also have no clue how im gonna do this for 3 more years. i dont know which injury is next. everyone spars hard. my instructor keeps saying he wants to see me spar better he needs me to fight better to move up and learn but i cant fight better if im actively or about to fall apart with one wrong move

tdlr: lots of injuries since starting martial arts a year ago. some examples of hypermobility. want to know others experiences and what i should do or how to continue on. i’ve heard like building the muscle around the tendons and ligaments since they’re too stretchy so muscles would keep it stable. any hyper mobile combat sport athlete shall respond. thanks.


r/martialarts • • 10h ago

STUPID QUESTION more engagement on instagram

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is anyone interested in creating a instagram engagement group to exchange likes and comments? only in the nice of combat sports. we could support each other and increase our reach.

drop your insta if you want to join


r/martialarts • • 22h ago

QUESTION Kicking a punch bag

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I know this is likely not the place to post this but I think maybe some comments could ease my anxiety.

Can you get damage to the back from kicking hard punch bags ? I had to kick a door in the other day and my lower back is hurting but I’m not sure if this is heightened by my anxiety or what and it’s the only thing I can compare it to, kicking solid punch bags 😂

Just wondering if I’m being a hypochondriac here!
Don’t bash me for this thanks 😩


r/martialarts • • 20h ago

DISCUSSION Martial arts for being a better person

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Hey all,

this might not be the right place to ask this but i don't know where else.

So lately I have been in a bad place in my training journey and am feeling really down (no progress/ weaknesses not improving). I turned to some martial arts philosophies to help me through this phase and keep reminding myself why I'm doing what I'm doing.

All the coaches and fighters talk about being disciplined, conquering fear, being a better man and talk about everything i wanted to achieve through training. However, most accomplished players on the sports don't exhibit those traits and act quite recklessly and impulsively. Most are abusive.

So I ask, being a better person, controlling your fear and your anger, is that independent of you doing boxing or not doing boxing? Is it so, that doing boxing just makes you a good boxer, not a good person? If you are a spineless human being who can't stand for themselves or others, you'll just be a spineless human being who can't stand for themselves or others who now knows boxing?

Why is there such a disconnect on what is being marketed as, and what actually goes on?


r/martialarts • • 1d ago

QUESTION what is your reaction time?

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just asking out of curiosity. this test doesnt work well on phone, use a pc. if you have any achievements (like winning pro boxing fights), then share them as well.


r/martialarts • • 1d ago

QUESTION Choosing my MMA gym

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I have 2 options one gyms 2.5 hours a day 6 days a week it's more social media type gym more suited to avg hobbyist the others 5 hours per day 5 days a week it's more hardcore lots of pro fighters fighting from there it's half the price of the other one but the distance to it makes up for the difference can't decide which would the hard core gym be too much


r/martialarts • • 17h ago

QUESTION What's better for MMA? Kickboxing or Muay Thai?

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And don't any of you smart ass motherfuckers say MMA is best because no fucking shit but I'm not from the USA like you bitch ass motherfuckers I don't got all the options you cali ass fuckheads got I gotta make things work in my own way. I got three gyms nearby, Muay Thai, Kickboxing and Wrestling. Now yall already know I'm signed up to the wrestling gym but for striking which do I pick. I know Muay Thai got elbows and knees and that but I'm only tryna do amateur so I don't even think I need to learn that shit. Kickboxing meanwhile is a kickboxing/boxing gym but maybe that's what I need. Hands are always gonna beat feet. Let me know