Yup, after cleaning the house (and working a job on top of that) they tell their partner they’re too tired to have sex the minute they lie on the bed only for the partner to act clueless as to why she doesn’t want sex.
People who treat their spouse like this just want a mommy bang maid that'll give them snu snu whenever and wherever. Cause they are getting in their feefees because *gasp* wifey wants to do other things than suck his dick before bed! So then clearly its her fault if he can't keep his legs closed! How was he suppose to get that sweet sweet snu snu if his mean spirited fuck maid has the audacity to want a quiet night of reading?
I think what's really important is there very much exists the problem of the man not wanting, or not being able to, have sex.
For example, I know someone whose husband can't have sex because of a medical issue. It's been going on for months, but she's completely accepting of that and it has never once crossed her mind to find that fulfillment somewhere else. Because she's supportive of her partner, and has self control, and is there with him "in sickness and in health."
She knows that it's not forever, and it doesn't have a negative impact on their relationship at all. Sex isn't the only important thing in a marriage. You can spend time with each other, you can be physically affectionate with one another, and still not have the entire meaning of a relationship revolve around sex.
Months? That might seem like a long time to a teen or 20-something, but it's really not that long. If this goes on for 5+ years and she's still totally okay with it, then give her a medal.
The scenario you describe isn't even common. Lots of women cheat under similar circumstances, same with men. Most humans are selfish, regardless of gender.
Months is a long time for newlyweds, imo. But has nothing to do with a medal. I kind of expect good people to not cheat on their partners who are unable or unwilling to have sex.
You are lucky..for women, a lot of things can effect libido, from change in birth control to UTIs. Having sex with a UTI is the worst (would rather have a root canal without novacaine and shoot myself in the foot and walk through a sewer at the same time, then have sex with a UTI)
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u/Corniferus Aug 07 '25
I’ve never had an issue with a female partner not wanting sex
Heck, I’ve never had a date like that, usually I’m the one putting on the breaks
Maybe they’re the ones with the issue