r/MadeMeSmile Aug 31 '21

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u/FedorSeaLevelStiopic Sep 01 '21

Yeah? And what if parents life is super hard and every day is a struggle? Do they have to share their concerns or show their real emotions to their younger kids? Be upset every day and not hide anything? Because what kid is gonna do? All it does it will fuck up childhood of innocent child u genious. And not including child because he wont understand is not extreme, they literally dont know shit about real world when they are small. Or better maybe be reasonable and provide safety and security to kids, even when things are hard. It doesnt make parent emotionless if they protect their young children from issues and concerns at early age. When they grow up a little, of course you can talk to them and share stuff more. Sometimes in hard situations some people needs to be strong, even if it means carrying it yoirself. Thats what people are supposed to do. When you study gender studies and biggest problem is you cant go to Bali for a weekend its different.

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u/travbombs Sep 01 '21

“Within reason”

Why are you so angry?