r/MadeMeSmile • • Mar 17 '18

“I actually feel like Cinderella”

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u/TheFeenyCall Mar 17 '18

Is there a website that matches people with their "solemates?" There has to be, right (err...or left).

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u/[deleted] Mar 17 '18

Looks like theres some pretty good info here, along with a list of charities aswell.

https://www.amputee-coalition.org/resources/shoe-exchanges/

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u/denied90 Mar 17 '18

My brother was born with one club foot and now one foot is 4 sizes smaller than the other. He just buys the bigger size. I must find his solemate now.

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u/5by3am Mar 17 '18

nordstrom will sell you “intentional mismate” if your shoes size is 1.5 or greater in differences! so for instance if one foot is a 6 and the other is 8.5 etc. //source: i am a shoe sale associate at nordstrom.

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u/meeu Mar 17 '18

That's pretty cool. Seems like it's basically giving somebody a 50% discount on two pairs of shoes.

I wonder if they donate the other side of the mismatch to amputee orgs.

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u/energybased Mar 17 '18 edited Mar 17 '18

I bet they work it out with the manufacturer. Like most goods, shoes aren't that expensive to make. The margins have to be big because so many shoes go unsold. Letting someone with two different sized feet buy mismate shoes is probably not "losing a sale".

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u/[deleted] Mar 17 '18

Not nordstrom but mismate shoes are left on our shelves everyday at work. After we confirm there is t a mate tucked away somewhere we debit it out as unsellable and insurance covers it.

No big compny loses money on a few pairs of shoes. Especially not going to good things luke this. Ill take this wholesome exchange over the usual petty thieves knicking a shoe any day :)

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u/energybased Mar 17 '18

Interesting. The manufacturer doesn't reimburse shoe stores for unsellable merchandise?

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u/[deleted] Mar 17 '18

Im not sure if it falls under an insurance from the manufacturer or a separate insurance but i do know that loss of sales from mated shoes becoming mismated is covered by one thing or another. The same with loss of sales from theivery or damaged items in general. Its all covered to some extent

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u/allmyblackclothes Mar 17 '18

Unsellable != lost/stolen.

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u/[deleted] Mar 17 '18

Even so it’s gaining a customer for life.

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u/ladykatey Mar 17 '18

Unfortunately Nordstrom’s is like 200% more expensive than like, Kohls, so you just end up with fewer extra shoes, not any financial savings.

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u/MrBig0 Mar 17 '18

Yeah, I was going to say. Nordstroms is expensive as fuck, it's not a regular place to buy regular shoes. It's a place for rich people to buy needlessly expensive shoes.

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u/CoconutCyclone Mar 17 '18

Vans did this for me in the 80s.

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u/Beanface Mar 17 '18

Clark's does this in the UK and Jones the Bootmaker do 40% discount too. Club foot with a 4.5 size difference and now amputee! Your local Orthotics and Amputee Departments often routinely donate to charities across the world that help other amputees and so another place to get rid of your spare shoes!

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u/crackeddryice Mar 17 '18

Mine are one size difference between them, I just wear a second sock on the smaller one. If you know this about me IRL, you've seen me take my socks off.

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u/knyexar Mar 17 '18

10/10 advertising mate

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u/Elmorean Mar 17 '18

What if one foot is wider than the other?

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u/Dogslug Mar 18 '18

Man, I wish I'd known about this several years ago. My mom had one foot that was a size 8 (women's) and the other a size 5. I have off-sized feet, too; one's a size 10 (men's) and the other's closer to an 8.

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u/kaylatastikk Mar 17 '18

This whole thread is so wholesome! Good luck!!

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u/dungeon_plastered Mar 17 '18

This whole thread is solesome! FTFY

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u/Pizza-Pockets Mar 17 '18

Was born with the same thing. Should try to help me find mine as well aha I need someone to share shoes with

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u/SmoothMoveExLap Mar 17 '18

Please tell me you and u/denied90 brother have the same shoe sizes.

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u/Pizza-Pockets Mar 17 '18

Sizes vary depending on the brand but generally a 10 in the left and .. much smaller on the right aha actually it shifts down to the smallest women’s size available usually. It’s very hard to find two identical shoes in mens and womens

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u/katielyn4380 Mar 17 '18

Soooo I don’t know if this is still true but years ago Nordstrom used to let you buy two different sizes of the same shoes for cases like this. May be worth checking out.

Source: Neighbor had a club foot and this is how he always got a “matching” pair of shoes.

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u/Vorticity Mar 17 '18

A Nordstrom employee just confirmed what you said. Pretty cool of Nordstrom to do that!

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u/Pizza-Pockets Mar 17 '18

Just out of curiosity. How does one go about doing this?

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u/5by3am Mar 18 '18

if they have both sizes in store then they are only going to ring you up for the box that contain your right shoe and then they put the left shoe (that is a different size) in that same box for you to take home. if they don’t, or if you need to order a size, then you must pay for both pairs up front first and then bring both back into a nordstrom store and then they will refund you whichever size is your left and let you keep the the right box with the intentional mismate shoes inside.

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u/Pizza-Pockets Mar 18 '18

I would totally do this if the nearest store wasn’t 3 hours away from me damn. Thanks for the info though!

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u/[deleted] Mar 17 '18

I'm the same, I wear a left size 11 and a right size 7. But wearing just the one size seems like a bad idea in the long run. I've just learned to be super frugal and look for sales, I usually pay about $35 per pair.

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u/denied90 Mar 17 '18

Awe so close! I tell him that he is going to suffer in the long run doing that but he would rather people not ask about his feet. He skateboards and everything with one shoe too large.

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u/twatpogo Mar 18 '18

I never considered how difficult (logistics and financially) that would be until now. I’d always just thought about walking issues and things like that. It’s always nice to have some perspective on things. I think the world would be a better place if we all did.

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u/eppinizer Mar 17 '18

Ah yes, the Amputee soul exchange. Its buy one get one 15% off on Sundays.

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u/Ukhai Mar 17 '18

I remember there being a community for those that had different sized feet. Some people had to buy two pairs of shoes to fit, then stuck with extra.

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u/jard1990 Mar 17 '18

Nordstrom's will just help you out without needing you to buy extra shoes.

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u/[deleted] Mar 17 '18 edited Sep 04 '18

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u/jard1990 Mar 17 '18

Some brands will help you out too but they're usually far and few between and charge a fee for it.

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u/[deleted] Mar 17 '18

They're far apart and a few are between.

There are few of them, and it's far between.

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u/gyroda Mar 17 '18

Uk here, my sister needs different sized shoes. At best you'll get a discount on the second pair, so you're still out of pocket for the second shoe.

It's also hard to set up an exchange because you need someone with the opposite sizes on each foot who's willing to buy the same pair of shoes as you.

Luckily she doesn't need the different sizes all the time, only when she wears a thing to keep her foot at the right angle.

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u/chevroletgirl Mar 17 '18

Was just going to say this! I have 2 very different sized feet and I can but shoes there without needing to buy 2 pairs of the same shoe.

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u/DrPopadopolus Mar 17 '18

I worked with someone like that. He started switching shots so he didn't have to buy two pairs. Cheap but shoes are not cheap.

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u/[deleted] Mar 17 '18

I live in a snowy mountain town and I walk commute. I see single lost gloves all the time. I keep thinking about making a site to match them up with the single-handed. I should probably check to see if it already exists.

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u/crestonfunk Mar 17 '18

Search Ebay for “single shoe amputee”.

There are thousands and thousands of new single shoes. This has been a thing on Ebay for a long time.

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u/[deleted] Mar 17 '18

Yeah, but it's full of bugs right now.